fargus About


Introduction

Thanks for visiting my profile. I have met some really interesting guys on here, even five or six in person. I have had some fantastic conversations in chat and elsewhere. That's my main purpose being in here.

I will typically accept friend requests on here, but it would be nice if we actually have some form of communication. However, don't ask for my Facebook or other mainstream social media information until we have chatted extensively. I'm not planning to come out of the closet any time soon and would prefer to keep that part of my life mostly separate from this part. Having said that, I have added a few guys from here whom I have grown to care for as long-distance friends and even met in person.

Basic Information

StatusSingle
Into Guys35 to 75
Here forDating, Friends, Networking
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeSome extra baggage
Height5' 11"
Weight210 lbs
SmokeNo
DrinkNo
OrientationGay
EducationGrad / professional school
ReligionProtestant
OccupationHigher education

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LifeSTREAM

fargus

Shared publicly - Jan 2 at 9:52pm
Happy new year! I'm back home after visiting my dad (who turns 90 next week!).

On an unrelated note: Does anyone else get annoyed when someone messages you and asks you questions that are on your profile? I figure the ones who ask where I'm from and why I'm on here and whether I'm gay are probably either really dense or up to no good.
Or too lazy to read
Jan 2 at 10:41pm
Happy NEW YEAR 🥂🎄
Jan 3 at 12:15am
I choose option A.
Jan 3 at 12:16am
Well, maybe B too. Either way I don't respond, but then I'm kind of funny that way.
Happy New Year , glad you had a good visit & are safely home now.

My opinion is that those profiles are spam profiles & just trying to get info from you.
Jan 3 at 9:50am
I think you're probably right. Especially the ones that use weird word constructions, like starting a sentence with "Am..." and then their name, or that claim to be US military in the mideast somewhere (that's an automatic ignore).

fargus

Shared publicly - Dec 28 2023 at 5:37pm
Sad news. I found out on Facebook that someone who used to be a regular back in the day that there was a video chat room here died back in July. I can't remember his user name, and he deleted his account when he got married, I think. His husband died a few years ago. So all I have is his real name, which I probably shouldn't post here (though, unlike me, he was out). He was a nice guy with a very hairy chest and friendly voice. Maybe I'll think of his name later. And it could be no one who reads See more
Dec 28 2023 at 5:59pm
RIP
Dec 28 2023 at 6:11pm
so sorry
Dec 28 2023 at 8:29pm
R. I. P. Dying sucks.
Dec 29 2023 at 11:13am
Sad news to hear . Deepest Condolences to his family & friends. If he had a hairy chest , he might be on my Favorites list .
Dec 31 2023 at 9:56pm
He was on mine and on my friends list, but he deleted his profile several years ago, so it doesn't show up.

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Shared publicly - Dec 2 2023 at 10:51pm
Ugh, I haven't had such a case of flu like this in years. I hate to think how much worse it would have been had I not gotten my flu shot a few weeks ago. I think it's about run its course now -- if I can just stop coughing!
Glad it wasn't worse.....sending good thoughts
get well soon dear friend....Mitch
Get well soon -what are you taking for it?

I still wear masks for COVID, the flu, and everything else.
Just cough medicine and decongestant, mostly. And lots of rest and water.
Dec 5 2023 at 9:34pm
Have you healed?
Dec 10 2023 at 3:25pm
Mostly, but I still get coughing fits in the morning and a stuffed-up nose. Pretty annoying.
Sure hoping you get fully better soon.

fargus

Shared publicly - Oct 9 2023 at 5:03pm
Happy Thanksgiving to our Canadian friends!
Happy Thanksgiving

fargus

Shared publicly - Aug 24 2023 at 7:42pm
I almost feel bad for laughing out loud at this. One guy who says he's from Vietnam and lives in San Francisco started up a conversation with me on another gay site and asked if we could communicate via Skype. It's only been text conversations -- no audio or video. He didn't like that I didn't chat with him every day. Sorry, I can't do that. Anyway, today he told me he was worried that he might "loose" [lose] his mom. She needed to go to the hospital, but he didn't have money to send her. He said See more
Oh, my, lol.
On the bright side, since she is a woman she probably won't mind having her cancerous testicles removed
Aug 24 2023 at 10:06pm
lol
Been there.....first clue is to switch the chat to another medium, next is what do you like.......scams! I wish I could understand how they ....do the callers get paid for emails? They must.
Aug 24 2023 at 11:23pm
I believe they want your email first to move away from the eye of the site, then to hack or scam you, etc.
I have had experiences with these kind of guys, trying everyway to get something, oh that he told you about his mother has testicle cancer, he must have been delusional to think you would not know what that type of cancer was. LOL!!!!!

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