natomas About


I’ve led two lives…the first very str8, married, divorced, remarried the same gal when she became terminal, widowed. Two adult kids. I’ve dated and had some good female relatonships….and then accidently, yes accidently, I met a guy!! I think I’ve always known I was gay, but I did love being a family man….never strayed once. But once there (gay) there was no looking back.

An avid reader, I enjoy traveling and discovering the U.S. along the back roads just me, my dog, the F150 and tent. I collect antique American Indian baskets. Life have been especially good to me and has given me the opportunity to do everything from owning my own auto leasing company to producing fashion shows and a lot more in between.

Volunteering, especially with seniors and in hospice, has given me my newest challenge doing home care. I enjoy short hikes, bicycling, swimming, plus tv sports – as well as other ‘indoor sports’.

I’m here mostly for chat and welcome the opportunity to share thoughts and laughs. There are so many men on Lifeout that are truly special, wise and wonderful!

Basic Information

Here forDating, Serious relationships, Friends, Action / Sex
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeAverage
Height6' 2"
Weight248 lbs


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Shared publicly - Apr 16 at 11:14am
Okay....time to revitalize LO lifestreams and blogs.....Jason's getting bored - no one left to boot! Come on's the plan:

1) A lifestream or blog a day --- even if it's only to say hello, tell us about your wet dream, or send a jokes.

2) No more 'likes' -- reply instead. The replies are often better than the original post. A like is just too dam can do better.

3)Go to your friends list and say hello to someone -- doesn't have to be a full paragraph -- just hello, thinking
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Apr 16 at 11:18am
You tell 'em, tiger!
No more 'likes'....just do it!
Apr 16 at 11:47am
I DID reply. Are you saying I can't "like" even when I reply?
ya...waste of time. the reply is what's important. you are a man of words.
Damn i like to do it:)
I elect Natamos as the new social director.
you just want to me my towel boy, Frank! LOL.

Natomas....mostly known as Nate
I get a job title and I get to call you Nate. Boner...err...bonus.
Good morning nate. Wish you were here i would show you some love:)
Hello, just thinking of you.

Good post Nate, it has been slow lately.
U going to answer the door naked wet and hard when the ups,FedEx or mail man knocks on your door lol
I think he pretty much "lives naked and wet and hard!" ;)
Apr 16 at 11:26pm
Hi daddy :)


Shared publicly - Apr 15 at 8:06am
Morning, Jack.....
I'm just about to have my morning jack!
Apr 15 at 9:16am
Guess I should have left off the coma -- morning jack works too! I was actually wishing Jack a good morning....keep trying to lure him back to commenting on lifestream.
Apr 15 at 11:52am
Afternoon Nate. It's agorgeous day here today and it feels SO good to get outside again. How ya doin? All is well here. -Just Jack!
putting in your garden again? sending good thoughts to Mary.
Apr 15 at 3:57pm
A little early to plant yet - but we will. We appreciate the thoughts for Mary. SHe's doing quite well right now. SHe has a liver biopsy next Tuesday.


Shared publicly - Apr 12 at 11:37am
A really good friend is facing the need to put her dog down...and is having a very hard time dealing with it. When I lost my dog, Gus, and also when others here have lost their dogs, there were posted so many poems, prayers, and thoughts....I should have save them. If you have one that I could share with her, message it to me....thanx. n
I'll look sorry for your friends lost... I had a cat (Bud) for 16 years till he passed...
It's always so hard, D -- I've had two cats that were special in my life -- but Big Al was the best....even had a hip transplant for him when he was 12....gave me 3 more years with him. Do you have a pet now (besides hubby, I mean)?
Yes I have 2 cats Buddha and Butch :)
thank you -- the first one brought me to tears.
Apr 12 at 5:08pm
I'm so sad for your friend...that is such a tough decision to make after all the love and devotion our dogs (all pets) give us. It's been 2 years since Murphy crossed the Rainbow Bridge (at only 8) but his memory lives on with me daily. He is still revered by the nursing care & cancer centers for his years as a Therapy Dog.

A Dog's Last Will and Testament

Before humans die, they write their last will and testament, give their home and all they have to those they leave behind. If, with my
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beautiful -- thank you.
Apr 12 at 5:15pm
For the dog lovers reading Nate's post, I recommend you read

"A Dog's Purpose" by W. Bruce Cameron.

Have Kleenex nearby; the story and the ending will last with you forever.


Shared publicly - Apr 10 at 12:45pm
So I am at the eye doctor for a follow up appt. and while waiting there is a guy across from me who obviously is having sight problems -- the woman sitting next to him is going down the list of question for his pre appointment and she asks 'high blood pressure' and he answers 'not as long as I take my medicine', she says 'what meds do you take?" and he answers: Cialis! It was all I could do not to burst out laughing. But then, with all that blood going to his cock I suppose the blood pressure relocated!
Apr 10 at 7:39pm


Shared publicly - Apr 9 at 7:21pm
So I've been gone a in at 2 a.m. today....too little sleep, needed groceries. Went to market...oh, bought one of those fancy cupcakes - you know the $3 kind - for the neighbor who took my newly acquired herb garden from Whole Foods (5 small plants) to her place for watering. I knew the bagger at the market would crush it, so I carried it separately putting it in the child seat of the cart. Unloaded my groceries into the car, pushed the cart to the side, came home to discover that I See more
Apr 9 at 7:38pm
Hate when that happens! ;-) Done almost the same thing more than once but with things I had put on the rack under the basket. Did turn around back to the store one time and got lucky it was still in the rack, a 12 pack of Corona! ;-)
You know I'd share Coronas with you anytime.
It was a nice thought to buy here the cupcake, so even though lost, it was a nice gesture.

I once bought a bunch of Hallmark Cards (to get a discount plus needing them) and left them in the cart in the lot. That's a bunch of money...fucking I went back to the store. Yeah, the cart was already gone but the kid who collects them, found the cards and gave them to Customer Service...Lucky Me, I got them back. I then advised the manager of the good deed that kid had done.

Had it been
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Well it would take more than a $3.00 cupcake for me to put out. Lol 0:)
Even if was 'cream' filled? LOL
Apr 11 at 3:36pm
Well, you said you wanted to exercise more and go on a diet! LOL

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Apr 12 at 12:09pm
It's Spring time and I'm out of hibernation so I'm ready for any postion with you Top or Bottom :)


Apr 6 at 12:17am
Spring is nature’s way of saying, "Let’s party!"

~Robin Williams


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Mar 22 at 3:56pm
Its Sunday. Time to get naked and indulge yourself..


Mar 22 at 12:22pm
You're welcome sexy;)


Mar 21 at 12:07pm
Just in case you needed a reminder....


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