natomas About


I’ve led two lives…the first very str8, married, divorced, remarried the same gal when she became terminal, widowed. Two adult kids. I’ve dated and had some good female relatonships….and then accidently, yes accidently, I met a guy!! I think I’ve always known I was gay, but I did love being a family man….never strayed once. But once there (gay) there was no looking back.

An avid reader, I enjoy traveling and discovering the U.S. along the back roads just me, my dog, the F150 and tent. I collect antique American Indian baskets. Life have been especially good to me and has given me the opportunity to do everything from owning my own auto leasing company to producing fashion shows and a lot more in between.

Volunteering, especially with seniors and in hospice, has given me my newest challenge doing home care. I enjoy short hikes, bicycling, swimming, plus tv sports – as well as other ‘indoor sports’.

I’m here mostly for chat and welcome the opportunity to share thoughts and laughs. There are so many men on Lifeout that are truly special, wise and wonderful!

Basic Information

Here forDating, Serious relationships, Friends, Action / Sex
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeAverage
Height6' 2"
Weight248 lbs


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Shared publicly - May 21 at 9:57pm
Did we lose the guy who was posting Buddhist quotes? Ashamed to say I can't think of his name -- but suddenly he's gone off my friend list and his blogs are gone.
May 22 at 12:14am
u mean, Jazil? Lemme check.
May 22 at 12:18am
no, he is still here. There was a shanno wasn't there?? Seems like I was gonna marry him...
May 22 at 8:11am
Oh hell no....luv Jazil -- great guy! No I meant -_-eric-_-, but I found out he is still here just blocked me.
May 22 at 3:57pm
if he blocked you...see, I just don't get that. YOU are awesome, man.

He sounds like a fucktard!
May 22 at 7:41am
Tell James I miss him and hope things are going ok.


Shared publicly - May 18 at 9:03am
James (valleyman) is going through a life-changing time....miss his good mornings and good nights.....sending positive thoughts and love to a wonderful man....GOOD MORNING, JAMES!
Thanks for the "heads up," Nate. James has been a good friend, both here and on Facebook. He's fun on Facebook, but I will miss his LifeOUT contributions. I hope he gets through this time and comes out even better and stronger on the other side.
I sure do miss him, hope that everything works out for him. Anyone would be very lucky to have a guy like james.
Nate said it very well. We are all praying for you James and anticipating your return to us.
I hope things gets better for him.. He is such a sweet person and amazing to look at they say....hehe
Yes, James is the most uplifting and positive funny guy in our lives. I pray he hangs steady and knows we all are rooting for him right now Hugs and prayers too
Praying for Him!


Shared publicly - May 17 at 11:58am
Thom just posted an astrology thing....anybody into tarot? I'd like to know/learn more about it.
I know a little about it, chico
private message me if you have any questions ^_^
Im familiar with it. I used to do Tarot quite a bit in my 20s. If you want to ask me something, feel free. I may not have the answer you're looking for, but Ill do my best with what I do know.
I don't even know what to ask. I read a John Sanford murder mystery and tarot played a part in the book. So I went online - joined and got a couple free readings. From the book he talked about the various meanings of cards which were not always the same but meant different things pending on the other cards dealt. The readings online which I want to think were bogus, actually were kind of accurate, though I know anything can be worded such to sound accurate.
Several decades ago I had my "cards read"...... Comments were made about having a serious illness but that I recover and lead a long life.......... so far that has happened although still working on the long life..... lol
I think there is something to it....and Eric talked to me about relating to the all makes sense. I had an awesome experience with a Quiji board.
You were not supposed to sit on the board Nate........ that "tracker" thingy must have gone crazy when your behind squatted down on it.... lol


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May 12 at 3:58pm
Posted a blog ... AIRPLANE HUMOR

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May 21 at 4:42pm
Howdy Nate! Just stopping by to say hello & things are coasting along here. Keep yore head above the water (grin).

Hugs, Clint, Jerry & the posse!


May 17 at 2:44pm
Thanks for stopping by..nice profile and pics...enjoy the day


May 11 at 10:23am
(missed this one in the headlines... I suppose I'm curious about your opinions on it.) :


May 10 at 1:01pm
Now you can apply for Social Security : )


May 8 at 6:59pm
Nate, it is the weekend. I hope you have a good one!


May 4 at 12:53pm
thanks for stopping by


May 1 at 4:09pm
Yep, I did send some comments to Ben........ trust all is better with him.


Apr 24 at 1:16pm


Apr 19 at 10:51am
Its Sunday. Time to get naked and indulge yourself..


Apr 17 at 10:02am