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So I am about to embark on an extended road trip in August....starting in California and then kind of doing the perimeter of the U.S. - probably a couple months. Hope to see/meet some of my LO chat buds. The front passenger seat is empty -- anyone interested on joining me for all or part? I will be doing a combination of camping and Motel 6 ing it. Send me a message and let's discuss it.

I’ve led two lives…the first very str8, married, divorced, remarried the same gal when she became terminal, widowed. Two adult kids. I’ve dated and had some good female relatonships….and then accidently, yes accidently, I met a guy!! I think I’ve always known I was gay, but I did love being a family man….never strayed once. But once there (gay) there was no looking back.

An avid reader, I enjoy traveling and discovering the U.S. along the back roads just me, my dog, the F150 and tent. I collect antique American Indian baskets. Life have been especially good to me and has given me the opportunity to do everything from owning my own auto leasing company to producing fashion shows and a lot more in between.

Volunteering, especially with seniors and in hospice, has given me my newest challenge doing home care. I enjoy short hikes, bicycling, swimming, plus tv sports – as well as other ‘indoor sports’.

I’m here mostly for chat and welcome the opportunity to share thoughts and laughs. There are so many men on Lifeout that are truly special, wise and wonderful!

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Here forDating, Serious relationships, Friends, Action / Sex
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeAverage
Height6' 2"
Weight248 lbs


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Shared publicly - Aug 2 at 9:54am
Haven't heard from -quesokid- in a bit....think he was putting Linus down. Anyone heard? Sending him good thoughts.
Wut about Valleyman?
Haven't heard from him since his breakup....think he's on FB though. If anyone chats with him (Frank, maybe??) please send our regards and concerns. Also Brett (on OP)......
Aug 2 at 12:00pm
I'm in his neck of the woods right now (New Hamshire) at a gay campground but I don't see him

So sad about Linus as he was sort'a LO's mascot. I'm sure Carlos is lost in grief & doesn't feel up to socializing right now.

Hugs, Clint
Aug 2 at 4:59pm
Oh, I hope you are wrong. His world was Linus and if he has lost him he is crushed. In fact, all of us will grieve as he has been a real part of LO - almost like I actually knew him from Carlos' writings and pictures.
Clint just forwarded a message from Carlos -- I've written for permission to post it. Bottom line is Linus is still alive - kind of a day-by-day thing.


Shared publicly - Aug 2 at 9:35am
50 Shade of Grey on Netflix last night --- enjoyed it.


Shared publicly - Aug 1 at 4:15pm
Semper Fi.....any Marines out there? I use this as a closing when writing to I guilty of it a term for Marines to use with one another only? I say it with the utmost humility and respect -- but never having been in the military, I wonder if I am incorrect in using the term.
Don't think so I have heard a lot of people use it.
Semper fidelis is a Latin phrase that means "always faithful" or "always loyal". In the United States it is best known as the motto of the United States Marine Corps. Elsewhere, it is a common motto for towns, families, schools, and military units.


Shared publicly - Jul 31 at 12:28pm
How much walking around money to you keep in your wallet (or pants pocket)? I use my debit card for almost everything....I do keep a buck in the visor of my car for the street corner guys (pass most of them up, but there are some that for the grace of God go I).
Jul 31 at 2:12pm
Usually start out with about $100. I pay cash for everything I can. A friend has his debit ID stolen and what a mess.
Jul 31 at 3:00pm
$40-$75 depends...try to keep some $1's available too. I wish ATM's gave dollar breakdowns.

CC for all that I can...gotta get those unusable air miles.
maybe $20...I use plastic mostly...
usually about 3 - 100 dollar bills -- one never knows when on of the kids might need a quick loan .. LOL


Shared publicly - Jul 29 at 9:23am
Shout out to JAZIL_DE_QUINONES -- miss his morning quotes.

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Jul 31 at 7:07pm
Thanks for the Happy Birthday wishes. We are going to be going out for dinner soon, of course once I decide where I want to go so that may be next month ... lol. Have a Great Weekend.


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Jul 11 at 10:35pm
LOTS of good SIDE BAR SONGS on this LINK


Jul 11 at 8:42pm

Here is the Plumber to Call when you're up to your (where ever) in water


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Jul 4 at 12:50am
Happy Holiday, 4th of July!