natomas About


I’ve led two lives…the first very str8, married, divorced, remarried the same gal when she became terminal, widowed. Two adult kids. I’ve dated and had some good female relatonships….and then accidently, yes accidently, I met a guy!! I think I’ve always known I was gay, but I did love being a family man….never strayed once. But once there (gay) there was no looking back.

An avid reader, I enjoy traveling and discovering the U.S. along the back roads just me, my dog, the F150 and tent. I collect antique American Indian baskets. Life have been especially good to me and has given me the opportunity to do everything from owning my own auto leasing company to producing fashion shows and a lot more in between.

Volunteering, especially with seniors and in hospice, has given me my newest challenge doing home care. I enjoy short hikes, bicycling, swimming, plus tv sports – as well as other ‘indoor sports’.

I’m here mostly for chat and welcome the opportunity to share thoughts and laughs. There are so many men on Lifeout that are truly special, wise and wonderful!

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Here forDating, Serious relationships, Friends, Action / Sex
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeAverage
Height6' 2"
Weight248 lbs


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Shared publicly - Mar 31 at 8:48am
Morning, Jack.....
I hope everything cums out OK. I'm about to have mine!, that was for Jack (icumoveru) I'm trying to lure him back to lifestream.
That's OK, Nate. I'm still having my morning ritual.
Mar 31 at 10:37am
Mornin Nate! Sorry for being so late but we've been housecleaning and moving furniture around in our own place today.
that's ok....think jacking off took your place --- LOL


Shared publicly - Mar 30 at 3:10pm
YES! My final eye dr. the all clear today....just some scar tissue. New glasses prescription and I'll be back to 20/20. Three grateful not to have lost the eye. Must be all the good thoughts from you all. Thank you
So pleased Nate. Eye problems are frightening. I have a brilliant Occulist. He's just upgraded me from reading glasses to bifocals. Which I probably wont wear unless driving. Vanity is such a sad thing!
You probably shouldn't let anyone give you a "facial" for a while, at least until you're 20/20 again and can see it cumming!
Given good waterproof lenses that shouldn't be a problem. Except from the flaky bits you are scratching out of your eyebrows next morning. LOL! x
So pleased... Eyes are our most important asset and they should be looked after. No one knows that more than me. Really happy for ya bud. x
You are so right Yorkshire, The thought of sight loss really freaks me out. x
Please call me Steve... and I don't know any different I've known since birth i'd be blind when I was older. which is why I get so excited to hear stories like this one. I know just how precious sight is. hehe. :)
two of my clients (both autistic) are blind - one since birth, so I do have an appreciation of sight. Big hugz, Steve.
I know buddy. hehe. Really pleased for you though. Must be a real relief for ya. x :)
Hey Steve. I am glad to know you. I feel so foolish having fretted about the cost of a pair of glasses from "Specksavers".

Peter x
I just fell victim from Visionwork's promotion of 'the second pair free'...cost $420! Wonder if I could sell my body.....nah - at 10 cents a time it would take me forever! Maybe a dollar.....
lmao... don't feel foolish at all. you're right the cost of glasses (spectacles) from anywhere is extortion considering that most people NEED them... if they were a fashion choice I wouldn't feel so passionately about the hig cost of them. lol. someone somewhere is making a lot of money out of peoples necessity (excuse the spelling of that) to be able to see. No one should make money off of anyones god given right to sight. So I share your humour in what they charge. lol.
Mar 30 at 7:53pm
Don't get me started on overpriced sunglass franchichises in airports! x
Mar 31 at 8:49am
ah now for me that's a whole different matter, Sunglasses are well worth paying more for, lol. but that's cos I feel that they're a fashion statement instead of a necessity. lol. I always pay thru the nose for my Sunglasses. However, I've never bought a pair of RayBans which i'd actually love. But hey, they're on my wishlist. lol.
I wear magnifying lens for reading but enjoy their 'benefits' at public urinals (giggles)...sooo happy for your blessing! truly got the prize egg for Easter !
Great news indeed my friend..... HUGS to you and to your Doctor! ;)
Excellent new, Natomas. :)
Glad it healed well and all is good.
Mar 30 at 8:01pm
I just picked up my 'digitally created' glasses last week - see if you can get them. Instead of putting the script on the outside of the lens, they place in on the inside, w/ 1 mm accuracy . . . . .
Dang -- you talked about that in a blog - and I totally forgot!
Mar 30 at 8:07pm
The clarity is amazing!


Shared publicly - Mar 30 at 10:50am
Received this from LO member 'ordinaryjoe'.....think he was trying to tell me something....
Mar 30 at 2:03pm
Awsome... Thanks
Mar 30 at 4:46pm
Hope you have been faithful in your weight training, otherwise we may not come off as successful as these two. lol


Shared publicly - Mar 29 at 4:18pm
So my grandson turns 10 on Friday -- his birthday request is to spend it in Las Vegas (go Ethan!) I am going to surprise him there. Need a little road trip....let's see - who can I meet along the way????
Very cool, and I hope you have a great time!
I hope you have a great time with your grandson.
If you swing through Tennessee, I'll go with you. Have a great time - grandkids are very special.
Damn. I was in Vegas two weeks ago and the company was paying for it. I could have used some distraction from five days of that conference. Enjoy.
Well now, a Vegas trip eh...nice.

If you drive I-10 West into Phoenix, honk or call before you head North to Vegas


Shared publicly - Mar 26 at 7:35am

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Mar 28 at 9:04pm
A Joyful PALM SUNDAY to you

“And when they drew near to Jerusalem, and came unto Bethphage [meaning "the place of Figs"], to the mount of Olives; And most of the crowd spread their garments in the road; and others cut branches from the palm trees, and spread them in the road. ‘This is the prophet, Jesus, from Nazareth of Galilee’”

WHY Palm fronds? - - Some “paved” the road with their garments; others with layers of leaves, at least some of which were from palm trees (Jn. 12:13), hence the expression “Palm Sunday.” Spreading garments before a dignitary was a symbol of submission (see 2 Kgs. 9:13). Palm branches were employed also as token of victory (Suetonius, Caligula, 32).



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Mar 22 at 3:56pm
Its Sunday. Time to get naked and indulge yourself..


Mar 22 at 12:22pm
You're welcome sexy;)


Mar 21 at 12:07pm
Just in case you needed a reminder....


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Mar 17 at 2:01pm
Be careful when you're walking in the Magic Forest today, for you may see a little person out looking for a lay.

If you let him get too close to you, then with YOU he'll "HAVE HIS WAY"

For that Little Person is a LEPRECHAUN, and he's IRISH, and HORNY, and GAY!


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Mar 11 at 8:35am
Damn sexy profile mate ...thanks!!


Mar 9 at 1:21pm
I did see that Zack has not been on cams for awhile again...bummer-the Freshmen' cover was from mine I have had it all these years and then saw him on lifeout cams and chatted a lot-I take 'screen shot snips ' the other pics are from live cam time which I was just chatting not paying.