natomas About


With a heavy heart, no longer a Texan -- moving to N. California. Luv to travel and will be doing some road trips and hopefully Europe. Would luv a travel bud for day trips, long weekends, or more.....seriously let me know.

I’ve led two lives…the first very str8, married, divorced, remarried the same gal when she became terminal, widowed. Two adult kids. I’ve dated and had some good female relatonships….and then accidently, yes accidently, I met a guy!! I think I’ve always known I was gay, but I did love being a family man….never strayed once. But once there (gay) there was no looking back.

An avid reader, I enjoy traveling and discovering the U.S. along the back roads just me, my dog, the F150 and tent. I collect antique American Indian baskets. Life have been especially good to me and has given me the opportunity to do everything from owning my own auto leasing company to producing fashion shows and a lot more in between.

Volunteering, especially with seniors and in hospice, has given me my newest challenge doing home care. I enjoy short hikes, bicycling, swimming, plus tv sports – as well as other ‘indoor sports’. 6.5, uc, 73.

I’m here mostly for chat and welcome the opportunity to share thoughts and laughs. There are so many men on Lifeout that are truly special, wise and wonderful!

Basic Information

Here forDating, Serious relationships, Friends, Action / Sex
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeAverage
Height6' 2"
Weight237 lbs


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Shared publicly - Dec 3 at 11:03am

Happy Weekend....
Cold (50 degrees) and raining here in Austin. I think I'll stay in bed. Have a great weekend, Nate.
it doesn't get much better than staying in bed listening to the rain -- unless maybe listening to a man moaning with you!
I will be physically ready for that in about 2 more weeks.
get well, that's all that matters


Shared publicly - Nov 26 at 5:00pm
Now I am no fan of Wells Fargo.....BUT their new stagecoach/snowman Christmas ad is pretty darn good!
Nov 26 at 5:46pm
oh no what did they do now
No, it's good! The stage going through a welcoming by for it
Nov 26 at 5:50pm
oh ok I will
Does the snowman hold up the stage coach and trick it into opening seven new accounts with hidden charges?
I said I wasn't a fan of WF.....but it's a dam cute ad. Use to own an advertising company.


Shared publicly - Nov 24 at 10:47am
At the beach for Thanksgiving....sunrise, surf and my dog chasing gulls - doesn't get much better! Happy, Happy very thankful for you all in my life.
Nov 24 at 11:32am
Enjoy your day



Shared publicly - Nov 20 at 1:56pm
Computer Help: I have a lot of background files that are slowing my computer up...this is mostly me trying different web providers like Chrome, Yahoo, etc. I have deleted them from my desktop, but think they are still lurking in the background. I just tried to reply to a CL ad and it was taking forever to load, so I went to delete it and it said 'close all 133 tabs'....which confirms that I have a bunch of shit on here. Can't really afford a tech - and frankly embarrassed to have him/her see See more
Nov 20 at 2:27pm
I guess you can delete all of your temporary file
Nov 20 at 2:56pm
If you have 133 tabs open I can see why it’s slow. You should close out a tab after you’re done with it. You can delete all of them by closing down Windows, and shutting the computer off for at least 10 seconds. That will delete everything in memory, and eliminate the 133 open programs. I would also suggest taking a computer course on the basics. There are many help programs available for free.
Nov 20 at 3:02pm
thank you. I went through each notice closing tabs. Think that cleared them. Thanx for responding and you advice. Hugs.
133 tabs? Nate, how much porn are you watching? Geez! :D
Nov 20 at 5:15pm
I know...bad boy here.
Nov 20 at 5:18pm
Bad boy! Bad boy! Whatcha gonna do? Whatcha gonna do when they come for you?
I luv'em cummin' for me!


Shared publicly - Nov 19 at 11:22pm
Watched a gay themed netflix tonight....was surprised to see that it starred a young Russell Crowe as the gay guy! "The Sum of Us" 1994.....not a very great movie, very mild...but there was a brief glimpse of his ass!
Nov 20 at 9:01am
Seen it his ass was the best part of the movie ; )

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Nov 25 at 1:02am
Here's hoping you have a wonderful Thanksgiving Holiday and you know what would be even better? If you was here to really show your appreciation and thankfulness by gobbling and stuffing our naked body's together and having a real good feast on each other now wouldn't that be real delicious...Happy Thanksgiving my Good Friend :)


Nov 23 at 10:07pm
“The thankful receiver bears a plentiful harvest.” ... William Blake

Have a Blessed and Happy thanksgiving


Nov 23 at 9:55pm
happy Thanksgiving


Nov 15 at 10:49am
Hope your week isn't going to be hard!


Nov 13 at 3:56pm
Thanks, Enjoy Your Sunday !!!!


Nov 12 at 7:53am
Good morning. Happy Saturday. Wishing you a great day filled with fun, happiness, and smiles!


Nov 3 at 12:58am
The Goat is Dead

Long Live the Chicago Cubs

We won the World Series


Oct 25 at 10:11pm
i could use a hug from you right now.......a real hands on hug...


Oct 25 at 1:22pm
When witches go riding,

And black cats are seen,

The moon laughs and whispers,

'tis near Halloween.


Oct 24 at 6:02pm
Stopping in to say hi!