natomas About


With a heavy heart, no longer a Texan -- moving to N. California. Luv to travel and will be doing some road trips and hopefully Europe. Would luv a travel bud for day trips, long weekends, or more.....seriously let me know.

I’ve led two lives…the first very str8, married, divorced, remarried the same gal when she became terminal, widowed. Two adult kids. I’ve dated and had some good female relatonships….and then accidently, yes accidently, I met a guy!! I think I’ve always known I was gay, but I did love being a family man….never strayed once. But once there (gay) there was no looking back.

An avid reader, I enjoy traveling and discovering the U.S. along the back roads just me, my dog, the F150 and tent. I collect antique American Indian baskets. Life have been especially good to me and has given me the opportunity to do everything from owning my own auto leasing company to producing fashion shows and a lot more in between.

Volunteering, especially with seniors and in hospice, has given me my newest challenge doing home care. I enjoy short hikes, bicycling, swimming, plus tv sports – as well as other ‘indoor sports’.

I’m here mostly for chat and welcome the opportunity to share thoughts and laughs. There are so many men on Lifeout that are truly special, wise and wonderful!

Basic Information

Here forDating, Serious relationships, Friends, Action / Sex
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeAverage
Height6' 2"
Weight237 lbs


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Shared publicly - Oct 21 at 11:52pm
Happy Weekend, Men -- it doesn't get much better than this:
I was actually sitting here thinking about my bromances with straight guys when I was in my 20s
wish we had known each other...
"If I thought for just one moment that this would be my last breath,

I'd tell you I'll love you forever, even beyond death.

If I thought for just one moment that your face would be the last I'd see,

I'd take a million pictures and save them just for me.
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Oct 22 at 1:03am
Do you feel romanced :)
Horny more like it....cum see me


Shared publicly - Oct 21 at 1:36pm
has anyone heard from buddhacub? he's no longer on my friend list....after yesterday's post I am concerned -- anyone with his email or phone please check on him.
he must have deleted his account he isn't in my friends list and I don't have a phone or email for him
Deleting his account is the least of worries....he sounded pretty desparate yesterday and was considering suicide. hopefully I read it wrong and he's okay
I know I was thinking the same thing I do hope he is ok there
Oct 21 at 8:57pm
have you heard anything there


Shared publicly - Oct 18 at 3:11pm
Received from a friend - to funny not to share...all are not just for us older folk:


>> Getting Older -

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The first one is my favorite!
Love this lmao
Oct 18 at 9:15pm
Hilarious !


Shared publicly - Oct 17 at 1:23pm
I had read that the movie The Brown Bunny has great sex scenes so of course I put it on my netflix is mostly about this guy driving cross country, he has a memory of his girlfriend which we are given to believe he broke up with.....he finally drives to her house, she's not home, leaves her a note and goes to a motel. She arrives - and here comes the sex of the best bj's ever....with a cock that I've never seen before in a non porn movie....and what a cock!! I only recommended See more
Oct 17 at 2:24pm
I once posted a blog on here including a link to the scene where Chloe Sevigny sucks Vincent Gallo's awesome cock. I just checked and unfortunately, YouTube has removed the content. :- (
Oct 17 at 3:37pm
it was quite a scene and amazing close up cock...and the way his whole body quivered when he came. Sorry I missed your post.


Shared publicly - Oct 14 at 12:21pm
Our first rain....and my yard is all soil in prep for landscaping so my poor dog (Ted) has no place to sleepy-eyed, wearing rubber gardening shoes - off for a walk....I haven't even had coffee yet!! We need the rain and he needs to pee ---- and shit. So do I.

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Oct 16 at 6:49am
Wishing you a beautiful Sunday. May it be filled with sexy thoughts, hugs, and no thinking about Monday.


Oct 14 at 4:01am
Three good reasons that I very rarely do pussy anymore


Oct 13 at 1:03pm
Oh, really?

You found THIS man could warm you up?

I'd hope so

If not, I'd presume you had "assumed room temperature"


Oct 3 at 11:33am
If I was with you, I would massage your aches and pain away in front of a roaring fire on a clear autumn night as the full moon dances it's moonlight among the shadows of swaying falling leaves. Your body starts to sweat, as I rip your shirt off massaging your hairy chess, I start to work my way down on your pulling the button on your tight jeans, then the wolf howl in the distance in the deep dark forest,,I ran out into the night to join the pack, leaving you in a restful state until a safe visiting again,when the moon is high and the air is cool and crisp,then I will be back to seek my sweet cresting love upon you.............xxxxxxx


Sep 23 at 3:23pm
Have Happy Weekend !!!!!!!!!!!!!


Sep 20 at 11:15am
Hope your enjoying these last few days of Summer and as we approach Autumn you can still get outside and enjoy some sucking and fucking in the good old outdoors... till Winter sets in... but then again when did the cold ever stop a horny man :)


Sep 17 at 9:17pm
"Some dreams are in the night time

And some seem like yesterday

But leaves turn brown and fade

Ships sail away

You long to say a thousand words

But seasons change"


Sep 15 at 11:33pm


Sep 11 at 6:30am
It is Sunday and I hope it is a good one. Wishing you a great day.


Sep 3 at 8:11pm
I just thought I'd leave some motivational pics to help you get back to health . . . . .