natomas About


With a heavy heart, no longer a Texan -- moving to N. California. Luv to travel and will be doing some road trips and hopefully Europe. Passenger seat's empty *hint*.

I’ve led two lives…the first very str8, married, divorced, remarried the same gal when she became terminal, widowed. Two adult kids. I’ve dated and had some good female relatonships….and then accidently, yes accidently, I met a guy!! I think I’ve always known I was gay, but I did love being a family man….never strayed once. But once there (gay) there was no looking back.

An avid reader, I enjoy traveling and discovering the U.S. along the back roads just me, my dog, the F150 and tent. I collect antique American Indian baskets. Life have been especially good to me and has given me the opportunity to do everything from owning my own auto leasing company to producing fashion shows and a lot more in between.

Volunteering, especially with seniors and in hospice, has given me my newest challenge doing home care. I enjoy short hikes, bicycling, swimming, plus tv sports – as well as other ‘indoor sports’.

I’m here mostly for chat and welcome the opportunity to share thoughts and laughs. There are so many men on Lifeout that are truly special, wise and wonderful!

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Here forDating, Serious relationships, Friends, Action / Sex
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeAverage
Height6' 2"
Weight237 lbs


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Shared publicly - Jul 27 at 10:44am



Shared publicly - Jul 26 at 1:29am
Ok, I know that this is admitting that I don't have a life, but I play a lot of online solitare between messages, being on hold and whatever....this is really unbelievable - I just won 3 hands of solitare in a row! Let's hear the horns, the roar of the crowd, the national anthem, stepping up to the podium......!!!
Jul 26 at 2:20am
Lol take a bow its a wonderful life
Jul 26 at 7:59am
Is the Olympics next?
Yes - can't wait to wear one of those sexy they have spanx for men?
Jul 26 at 8:45am
flesh colored spanx with a kilt maybe?
Jul 26 at 8:34am
Since Solitaire would be a brand new competitive sport for the Olympics, I think you get to design the outfit. Could be just a jockstrap, or a kilt you can look up under. Or skin-tight spandex from neck to ankles. Your choice.
Yeah, Yeah, Yeah and horns tooting loudly you go natomas yeah.
Kudos to you for having something else to do with your time. No judgments man - if idont hurt you, or anyone else - and it makes you content. go for it.


Shared publicly - Jul 25 at 5:42pm
Eartha Kitt.....lover her and she loves a man!
Jul 25 at 6:28pm
Always loved her
Jul 25 at 7:38pm
neat...she had a most unique sexy..always loved her as cat woman
Loved the song ... she is one of the best singers I've ever listened to ... and yea, guess I've got some of her DNA ... 'cause I love men ..... and more than likely ... for the same reasons .... WOOF ! ! !


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Shared publicly - Jul 12 at 8:43am
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TERRY (farmer 712)!!!

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Jul 24 at 9:49pm
yvw stud


Jul 13 at 1:31am
Thank you being there

and never yet be leaving there

thank you for still leaning there

against that brick wall that I always beat my head against

and thank you for re-befriending me



Jul 10 at 1:51am
Have a great weekend xx


Jul 4 at 11:10pm
thank you.......hope that you had a fun weekend and today...........


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May 25 at 7:51am
Hey Guy!! Thanks for asking how I am doing. Been doing good, battling a few personal battles but hanging tough. Hope things going super for you as well. HAPPY HUMPDAY!!