natomas About


I’ve led two lives…the first very str8, married, divorced, remarried the same gal when she became terminal, widowed. Two adult kids. I’ve dated and had some good female relationships….and then accidentally, yes accidentally, I met a guy!! I think I’ve always known I was gay, but I did love being a family man….never strayed once. But once there (gay) there was no looking back.

An avid reader, I enjoy traveling and discovering the U.S. along the back roads just me, my dog, the F150 and tent. I collect antique Native American Indian baskets. Life have been especially good to me and has given me the opportunity to do everything from owning my own auto leasing company to producing fashion shows and a lot more in between.

Volunteering, especially with seniors and in hospice, has given me my newest challenge doing home care. I enjoy short hikes, bicycling, swimming, plus tv sports – as well as other ‘indoor sports’. 6.5, uc.

I’m here mostly for chat and welcome the opportunity to share thoughts and laughs. There are so many men on Lifeout that are truly special, wise and wonderful!

Basic Information

Here forDating, Serious relationships, Friends, Action / Sex
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeAverage
Height6' 2"
Weight237 lbs


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Shared publicly - May 10 at 11:09am
"Who can see the sunrise...." - this candyman can't -- where's Wayne.......
When I hear that song, all I that I can envision now is a phone commercial.
I got a nice juicy lollipop for you 😏
I guess making the fucking world taste good ...

This Wayne guy sounds like a real loser ... right, GEORGE?
Nah....a man who appreciates sunrises, beautiful flowers and music is a pretty nice guy to know.

As for George...he's my alter ego, not too sure about him.
May 10 at 11:42pm
That song originated from the movie "Willy Wonka & the Chocolate Factory" (1971). I can't believe the movie turns 50 this year. 🍫


Shared publicly - May 9 at 5:57pm
Thom (Thomcat) has asked me to let you know had a fall while visiting with his son and two daughters (both nurses)...that was followed by being dizzy. They insisted he go to the hospital. Initial diagnosis is dehydration (he has passed out while mowing his lawn with the same thing). He expects to be out of the hospital tomorrow after some tests. He has a new phone that isn't least in the hospital.

Hoping all goes well with him...
Thanks for keeping us in the loop, Nate.
Yes, we wish the best for him. Dehydration is quite common among us older gents. I have had it happen to me when working hard and forgetting to take a rest and have something to drink. I have pased out and fallen off a ladder more than once.
best wishes that he gets better fast and takes care of himself there
Thom is such a great guy. I hope he gets out of the hospital well and strong.

I see the other guys' comments about dehydration and being active while aging.

I wonder if this is a matter of drinking something or replenishing electrolytes.
Thom was a military medic and nurse ...ask him when he returns
I had been drinking Gatorade. Instead, my medical team has recommended coconut water as a low-sugar electrolyte drink. Water hydrates but cannot replenish needed sodium, potassium, magnesium, phosphorus. GMC has a powdered substance that my friend uses with his clients following a deep meditative state, telling us depletion of electrolytes is often a side effect of meditation.
I still have two can's left......
I purchase Hammer Nutrition's Electrolytes [full spectrum] capsules and fizz tabs.

Luv my benzo fizzes :)
"depletion of electrolytes is often a side effect of meditation." *Interesting.
Ya, he had an interesting career. I look forward to chatting with him.
Get Well and he is missed by Friends All over
UPDATE: Thom is out of the hospital and going into VA for some physical therapy. Talked to him this morning and he sounded good....but developed a sexy gravelly voice -- must have had male nurse!!
That's great news Nate. Thanks for the update.
Male nurses . . . Mmm


Shared publicly - May 8 at 12:10am
I listen to many music video post online here....I stumbled on this video that my Son sent to me in 2013.....he worked at NASA....thought I'd share:
That 's a very nice song I always did love David Bowie music and that's a good remake of it too 😃
That was Awesome ! Thanks ….
You should see the visuals of this on my gaming notebook :)


Shared publicly - May 2 at 3:01am
my phone doesn't turn off -- any ideas?
What kind of phone do you have? Can you remove the battery? If not, wait until the battery goes dead and it will turn off on its own.
Thanks, Frank - it's an i7....I can shut it down, but it just doesn't turn off between it's draining the battery constantly.
May 2 at 12:40pm
Google i7 and how to shut the phone off completely to restart. You might also look at your apps that might be the battery robber.
It sounds like it may have achieved sentience. Does it randomly ask you things like, "What is my purpose?" or "Can I borrow the keys to the car?"


J/k, ...try removing the sim card, press the power button, hold it down for 15 seconds. Put the card back in, turn it on, see if that fixes it?
May 2 at 8:50pm
Turn off all the programs and websites you visited individually before you turn off the phone itself. Otherwise, yes, you turn on the phone again, and they pop up still running.

I learned that the hard way too (before I bought a car-charger adapter to my previously virgin cigarette holder). I got to a job site with no power for construction progress photos for the client


Shared publicly - Apr 9 at 11:14am
R.I.P. Prince Phillip
By my Jewish standards, he lived a very long life, well beyond the Biblically appointed three score and 10 (70 years), and it was mostly quite privileged. There would be no official mourning period for him, except for his public stature.

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Apr 3 at 3:25am
Getting ready for Easter Egg Hunting?


Apr 1 at 5:41pm
Have a Blessed Easter


Mar 23 at 10:30am
Roses are red

Violets are blue

It is Testicle Tuesday


Let's play with balls.


Mar 17 at 8:26pm
Happy St Patrick's Day :)


Mar 12 at 11:33pm
Yes, the old guy is returned

Yes, It is a NEW variation of the old name


Feb 21 at 10:11am
Dad can I borrow the car? I'll do anything... anything you want me to do... anything at all :)


Jan 7 at 9:54pm
Wishing you the best in the 2021 New Year :)


Jan 3 at 9:47am
Nate,thanks for stopping by and commenting on my dogs, photo, love those 2 crazy labs. Hope your "new" car does you good. Broke down last year and traded my Jetta for a Tiguan AWD something big enough to haul the dogs around in.


Jan 1 at 4:32am
Happy New Years, for AD 2021. Stay safe snd strong of mind and body. When you’re strong, you can handle anything.

May you have all that you really need to be healthy and safe, and just enough of what you merely want to make life fun.

(And please dress Properly, like all good Gentleman Bostons do)



Dec 31 2020 at 8:12pm
Happy New Year