natomas About


With a heavy heart, no longer a Texan -- moving to N. California. Luv to travel and will be doing some road trips and hopefully Europe. Passenger seat's empty *hint*.

I’ve led two lives…the first very str8, married, divorced, remarried the same gal when she became terminal, widowed. Two adult kids. I’ve dated and had some good female relatonships….and then accidently, yes accidently, I met a guy!! I think I’ve always known I was gay, but I did love being a family man….never strayed once. But once there (gay) there was no looking back.

An avid reader, I enjoy traveling and discovering the U.S. along the back roads just me, my dog, the F150 and tent. I collect antique American Indian baskets. Life have been especially good to me and has given me the opportunity to do everything from owning my own auto leasing company to producing fashion shows and a lot more in between.

Volunteering, especially with seniors and in hospice, has given me my newest challenge doing home care. I enjoy short hikes, bicycling, swimming, plus tv sports – as well as other ‘indoor sports’.

I’m here mostly for chat and welcome the opportunity to share thoughts and laughs. There are so many men on Lifeout that are truly special, wise and wonderful!

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Here forDating, Serious relationships, Friends, Action / Sex
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeAverage
Height6' 2"
Weight237 lbs


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Shared publicly - May 28 at 12:51pm
I have a bulging disc -- chiropractor says to get an inversion table, so hearing Sports Authority is going out of business I went to check it out earlier this week. It was $149.00. Today is the first day of the sale - got there right at 9, expecting/hoping for 50% off. They marked it up to $179 and offered a 10% discount!!! No wonder they are going out of business.....
May 28 at 1:40pm

Inversion table. Ive thought that might prove to be beneficial. Let me know how it goes.
May 28 at 2:14pm
Oh, and catch up on "Frankie and Grace," as, in a recent episode, Frankie formed a lopsided relationship with hers.
May 28 at 2:51pm
Just added Frankie & Grace to my que!
May 28 at 3:02pm
Season Two released earlier this month. We tend to savor rather than binge.
May 28 at 3:05pm
that is pretty shitty of them, and stupid. but they are trying to cut their losses.....
May 28 at 5:06pm
get better my friend.......... Sports Authority was never one for decent pricing.....
May 28 at 5:12pm
Nate....Tried an inversion table, and it did nothing for me, in fact was extremely uncomfortable for more than a few minutes. If you think you really want one, am sure they have a store model that you could get a demonstration on, prior to the purchase. That's a lot of money for something that you might never use.
thanx Patriik - chiro recommended it....tried for a store demo, but they said they could because of liability (not a very encouraging thought). I will try craigslist.
May 28 at 5:35pm
My only other suggestion is to attempt to find someone locally who has one, and see if you could try theirs out.
May 30 at 1:33am
Haven't heard from you for awhile. I hope things get better.
May 30 at 5:49am
thought you had company for the weekend


Shared publicly - May 27 at 10:02am
Hey Guyes....welcome playahombre to our site - he's a great guy who I've been trying to get to use LO more.
Hey Nate....I just did.

Let the holiday begin.


May 24 at 9:32pm
Posted a blog ... FOR OUR LO CHEFS


Shared publicly - May 18 at 10:17am
OMG!!!! Ben (rider1) sent me a message....just saying hello. Did you see where he replied to my last lifestream posting? I asked him to post a blog to update all of us. God Bless, Ben -- love'ya!
Ben did ask me to say hello to you all....


Shared publicly - May 18 at 2:47am
When I turned on my computer it said that upgrade would be in 11 minutes...start now? I figured what the hell thinking it was just a regular upgrade....not window 10. I pressed now and now it doesn't look like I can stop it. I temp. stopped's suppose to start downloading again at 2 a.m. -- I don''t want windows said I cannot change the download time again. Anything I can do?
May 18 at 6:35am
You can let it do the upgrade. Once the upgrade is done you can have the computer go back to Windows 7, but do that before the 30 days have passed. I believe you go to the ACTION CENTER, and then to back up and restore, and there is an option there to go back to Windows 7.
May 18 at 9:05am
Block it Nate ;)
May 18 at 10:15am
How, Ben?
Windows 10 is a great program Nate but if you don't want it, you can revert back to whatever system you had before. Much Love, Ben ().
May 18 at 10:51am
I also have Windows 10, and am enjoying it very much. Great improvement over Windows 8 and 8.1, and much easier to use.
thanx....I've heard horror stories about downloading it and relearning....guess I have no option but to see what's it's about... Ben and Frank 's message about being able to go back to my reg. program is encouraging me.

Appreciate your imput.
May 18 at 11:00am
This has been an issue that many people have asked me. I use this handy little utility to solve the problem. This utility does not install any software on your computer. It runs solely outside the Os Environment. It’s called “Never 10” You can download it at the link listed below. I advise those to save the utility” in case you change your mind later and want to go to Win 10.” When you run the utility, there are only two options, stop Win 10 download, and delete any Win 10 files that have See more
May 18 at 11:03am
WOW, that is helpful though after all the comments I am thinking I should let it happen....what's your opinion?
Win 10 is by far a better Os than Win 7 or 8. If you’re using Win 7 and are happy with it, like so many are, then don’t do it. However, sooner or later you will have to upgrade as Microsoft will drop support for earlier versions.
May 18 at 11:47am
Microsoft Will Stop supporting Windows 7 in 2020 . I am running Windows 7 pro .But plan to do the free upgrade to Windows 10 pro before July 29th ? Because thats the last day its free
Windows is putting on a full court press to get everyone into the Win 10 platform for free. The reason for this is twofold. They want the platform to be the same for all developers, and not having to write app’s for different versions on Windows. Secondly, the Microsoft app store, where they generate a lot of income. Most apps in the store will not work on Win 7. From my insiders, this may well be the last version of Windows. They will just continue to improve on the Win 10 platform adding new See more
May 18 at 1:20pm
I Dont have a Problem ,buying Apps I will use daily to get rid of the Adds they attach if there free. Most not all Apps are only like 2 or 3 bucks
well, I was not really in favor of it either but it came installed on the new computer....... is not as bad as I thought.
May 18 at 2:51pm
U have same problems than me,I figure,but we finally will install it,as in July will stops working :(
May 21 at 1:21pm
I'll callkmy tele tech service now Nate!
May 21 at 1:48pm
It is important which version of Windows you are currently running; then you can uninstall the update of Windows 10
May 21 at 1:41pm
OK,,I've just called my tech service and they advised to [if you don't know how to get there] type in your search engine; "Windows Updates", and once there configure to "do not update" but I have to call them back as I see an option for "Never Check for Updates".

I'm calling now and will get back to you; thought she said you Can stop this - is it partially updated or downloaded?

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May 25 at 7:51am
Hey Guy!! Thanks for asking how I am doing. Been doing good, battling a few personal battles but hanging tough. Hope things going super for you as well. HAPPY HUMPDAY!!


May 23 at 7:05pm
Thank You for joining in prayer for Asa; and God Bless you ;)


May 19 at 11:58am
Have a awsome and lovely day,

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Xoxox xox. Sending some scottish love :-*


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