natomas About


With a heavy heart, no longer a Texan -- moving to N. California. Luv to travel and will be doing some road trips and hopefully Europe in the Spring. Passenger seat's empty *hint*.

I’ve led two lives…the first very str8, married, divorced, remarried the same gal when she became terminal, widowed. Two adult kids. I’ve dated and had some good female relatonships….and then accidently, yes accidently, I met a guy!! I think I’ve always known I was gay, but I did love being a family man….never strayed once. But once there (gay) there was no looking back.

An avid reader, I enjoy traveling and discovering the U.S. along the back roads just me, my dog, the F150 and tent. I collect antique American Indian baskets. Life have been especially good to me and has given me the opportunity to do everything from owning my own auto leasing company to producing fashion shows and a lot more in between.

Volunteering, especially with seniors and in hospice, has given me my newest challenge doing home care. I enjoy short hikes, bicycling, swimming, plus tv sports – as well as other ‘indoor sports’.

I’m here mostly for chat and welcome the opportunity to share thoughts and laughs. There are so many men on Lifeout that are truly special, wise and wonderful!

Basic Information

Here forDating, Serious relationships, Friends, Action / Sex
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeAverage
Height6' 2"
Weight248 lbs


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Oct 7 at 7:15am


Oct 6 at 9:57pm
Posted a blog ... BREAKFAST 2


Shared publicly - Oct 6 at 5:25am
staying at Motel 6....they have these low slung toilets --- balls hit the water!! No, No, No......
Oct 6 at 6:47am
I hate when that happens to me too.
Stop bragging some of us don't have that problem...............:)
Oct 6 at 10:05pm
Perhaps this is not the fault of the toilet????? Tighten those cojones up a bit my friend.... ;)


Oct 5 at 11:21pm
Posted a blog ... BREAKFAST


Oct 4 at 12:09pm
Posted a blog ... ROAD TRIP

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Oct 2 at 8:41am


Sep 29 at 1:54am
Here to ask "did you bring back some rain"

and to say "welcome back to Northern California once again'.

And that the Great Texan loss, is our Central Valley gain,

and thank you for still befriending me, where e'er your travels range



Sep 28 at 8:44pm
I hope you like your new home base. Best of luck.


Sep 27 at 7:55am
Hey, it is Sunday. Get ready for another week of fun and games.

Have a good day!


Sep 25 at 9:27am


Sep 24 at 1:09am


Sep 24 at 1:09am
Happy Autumn Nte


Sep 23 at 9:50pm
And a Happy Autumnal Hump Day Nate


The richness of the season's Last ripened Fruit,

the Fall of Leaves (and some hesitations too):

After all, some one holding you close really is no crime,

Ask the birds, and the trees, and old father time,

Its just to help the mercury climb,

La-di-dih, La-di-dah,

Tis Autumn,



Sep 18 at 8:26am


Sep 17 at 9:47pm
hope you had (or are about have) a Thoroughly Terrific Trajectory Thursday