natomas About


I’ve led two lives…the first very str8, married, divorced, remarried the same gal when she became terminal, widowed. Two adult kids. I’ve dated and had some good female relationships….and then accidentally, yes accidentally, I met a guy!! I think I’ve always known I was gay, but I did love being a family man….never strayed once. But once there (gay) there was no looking back.

An avid reader, I enjoy traveling and discovering the U.S. along the back roads just me, my dog, the F150 and tent. I collect antique Native American Indian baskets. Life have been especially good to me and has given me the opportunity to do everything from owning my own auto leasing company to producing fashion shows and a lot more in between.

Volunteering, especially with seniors and in hospice, has given me my newest challenge doing home care. I enjoy short hikes, bicycling, swimming, plus tv sports – as well as other ‘indoor sports’. 6.5, uc.

I’m here mostly for chat and welcome the opportunity to share thoughts and laughs. There are so many men on Lifeout that are truly special, wise and wonderful!

Basic Information

Here forDating, Serious relationships, Friends, Action / Sex
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeAverage
Height6' 2"
Weight237 lbs


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Shared publicly - Jan 22 at 6:21pm
Watching 49er/ Cowboy pre game and reminded of so many memories.. The first time I met Joe Montana I was a car salesman and there was this guy sitting on the lawn outside dealership - he was alone with a German shepherd pup. I had just bought a German shepherd puppy myself so I went to chat with him - didn’t know him from Adam. Well it turned out that we had both bought our dogs from the same breeder! We chatted for awhile and I went on about my business. Later I looked out and there was a crowd See more
Well at least it wasn't Hannah! 🤪🤠
Great Game But My team lost, Amazing Try
I worked in a grocery store. One Friday night, just a bit before closing a customer came in and asked where something was. I showed him, and he made his purchase and went out of the store. The next morning, he came in to get some more groceries. He saw me and thanked me for the help last night. I told him that was part of my job. He took out a picture, handed it to me, and he signed it. It turns out he was the actor that played on the original TV Show The Equalizer. I was like... what? No way!
Always fun to meet famous people.


Shared publicly - Jan 22 at 12:18pm
GO 49rs!!
sorry, i don't usually follow football (or soccer, before anyone gets started)

the last attention i remember giving the 49ers was when candlestick park went on the fritz...

i also remember staying up for the superbowl between them and the bengals... (i remember rooting for the bengals because they had prettier helmets...
I use to have season tickets to the niners at Candle Stick. And when the earthquake closed Candlestick for a big game they played at Stanford.....we waited in line all night and got tickets on the 50!! Knew many of those guys during the Montana days.
love watching Christian McCaffrey's crotch and ass. he has one very beautiful guys ass
BESIDES you shouldn't be looking at the players are a crotch watchers dream!
Gotta love those VPLs (Visible Penis Lines)!


Shared publicly - Jan 15 at 11:02am
🎈Happy Birthday 🎂
Happy birthday, John.
Happy Birthday John.
Happyy Birthday, John
Happy Birthday to ya with lots of hot sex to celebrate...have fun.....Mitch
Happy birthday John
Big happy birthday John!


Shared publicly - Dec 30 2022 at 10:19am

I know he got the boot, but I still write to him....he's a great guy. If you want to send him a greeting, I will pass it along.
Happy Birthday to walden202.....Robert
Happy Birthday Robert.
happy birthday Robert
Happy Birthday Robert
Another great guy kicked off Lifeout. Send him my best!
why did he get the boot? I dont think I knew him....
Some disrespect in a blog - cost 3 of our best posters & bloggers to get booted. A warning maybe was warranted, but not a boot. LO's loss
dam shame and so not fair... Should of warned him first.... Thanks for the info
Disrespect? That's the reason I don't blog here. I am writing a new blog but, I'll publish it when I buy the website. I am going on radio and I plan to use my blog. My stuff to promote my own show. It's going to be Gr-eeeee-at!
Any chance you can let me read it - message me
Blogging here has always been enjoyable for many of us while sharing our artistic expression and freedom of speech [within LO TOS}.

The pleasure is for the Blogger and not dependent on those who do or do not interact or how they interact.
They were troublemakers and caused problems for too many people too many times.

I had nothing to do with their bans because I was forced to Block all of them.
No disrespect intended toward you, Nate.
Happy birthday, Walden202, AKA Robert


Shared publicly - Dec 28 2022 at 9:49am
HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY, ASA!!! (Constant Variable - y'all knew that right?!)
Yes, Happy Birthday Asa.
Happy Birthday Asa!
Happy Birthday Asa!!!
Happy Birthday
Happy Birthday and early Happy New Year wishes to Asa!
Thanks guys! ☺️
Happy Birthday, Asa! 🎂🥂🤠
Happiest of birthdays from me and Ruby. You and Manny were almost birthday twins!
Happy birthday, Asa!
Happy birthday, Asa.
It may be your birthday, but you are a gift to me.
You both are blessed
you guys every met in person?
Nope but we're best friends and talk on the phone every day 😊
you met on here?
I guess that means there is hope for the rest of us.
Yes, the good that comes out of LO.

Asa and I have been on the phone daily for maybe 13 years; we've lost count.

Asa is my best friend, and I have other good and dear friends I've met here on LifeOUT.
You all should really try to meet in person with a frindship like you all have.
It's like we don't need to; we are that close.
Happy Birthday! 🎂
Happy birthday ASA

Profile Comments


Jan 9 at 10:06pm
😎 Just passing through and Wishing you the Best in the 2023 New Year ☮️


Jan 1 at 8:11am
Wishing you happy, healthy, prosperous new year.


Dec 31 2022 at 11:46pm
Happy New Year, Nate! 🤠


Dec 31 2022 at 1:53pm
Cheers to new beginnings! Happy New Years. Congratulazioni.


Dec 26 2022 at 2:05pm
🎅🏻 I'd rather be Naughty & Nasty for the Christmas Holiday Season and I know You would Too... Merry Christmas 🎄


Dec 13 2022 at 6:24pm
Jolly holly-days to you and yours! ♫♫♫


Nov 24 2022 at 12:32am


Nov 23 2022 at 8:54pm
It’s time again for Thanks and Giving from the Heart.

Happy Thanksgiving


Oct 30 2022 at 8:39pm
Enjoy the Autumn Festive Season 🎃


Oct 29 2022 at 3:48pm
Thank you too. glad you like Rubys pics. She is much more photogenic than her daddy.