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I’ve led two lives…the first very str8, married, divorced, remarried the same gal when she became terminal, widowed. Two adult kids. I’ve dated and had some good female relationships….and then accidentally, yes accidentally, I met a guy!! I think I’ve always known I was gay, but I did love being a family man….never strayed once. But once there (gay) there was no looking back.

An avid reader, I enjoy traveling and discovering the U.S. along the back roads just me, my dog, the F150 and tent. I collect antique Native American Indian baskets. Life have been especially good to me and has given me the opportunity to do everything from owning my own auto leasing company to producing fashion shows and a lot more in between.

Volunteering, especially with seniors and in hospice, has given me my newest challenge doing home care. I enjoy short hikes, bicycling, swimming, plus tv sports – as well as other ‘indoor sports’. 6.5, uc.

I’m here mostly for chat and welcome the opportunity to share thoughts and laughs. There are so many men on Lifeout that are truly special, wise and wonderful!

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EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeAverage
Height6' 2"
Weight237 lbs


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Shared publicly - Sep 30 at 12:18pm


Shared publicly - Sep 29 at 9:49am
I'm sure we will a be relieved to hear from Robert and all our Florida friends. Sending best thoughts to everyone in Florida.
They may or may not be incommunicado for a while, depending on if they have electricity, cell and/or internet service, etc. I don't think the full scope of the damage is known yet. Waiting and hoping.
Hey guys … evacuated to Tampa Area at the last minute which was an amazingly good idea considering I was going to Naples until the last second … power just restored here , as far as I have heard from my neighbors in Sarasota my house looks good but still no power , some roads in the area were also closed due to multiple traffic lights out , going back in the morning …. Thanks for thinking about me …. It’s appreciated
Hi!!! I'm glad you and your house are ok! I've been so worried.
Doing good … we were about 28hrs without power here …. Cell and internet are glitchy at times still
Whew! Good you and pups are safe.


Shared publicly - Sep 25 at 1:46pm
Continuing my posting of old blogs....this is a hoot - and timely
Mire timely all the time
haha,,, have ya'll heard Trump's threat to the country? It appears as a threat and is but he was also putting out a call to his trumpeter followers.
He is so sleazy, a con man, a cheat and such a liar - actually a terrible liar, its amazing people believe anything he says.
His followers [trumpsters] are bad people. Look at the Insurrection.

A recent poll shows Republicans want Trump to run for pres in the coming term.

I thought intelligent Reps wished to avoid the Trump brand of anarchy.
They are scared if him. He has no scruples. Any decent Republican risks being primaries by the fanatics who sho up for the primary
Many are scared of him. Here are the forces of good and evil at play.
Sep 25 at 11:40pm
all those files - he has the 'goods' on'em
Sep 25 at 11:47pm
I think its all a bluff. He has nothing on anybody. But the primary system puts every sane Republican at risk
No, he's the real evil. High-ranking people have been seriously threatened in various ways by and via Trump. Look at the Insurrection.
He is slicker than snot on a door knob... They all are afraid of him and what he can do to their political futures...They kiss his ass more than Charmin does
But its not because Trump knows some secret, its because he has no scruples and will respond to any criticism with vicious and hateful lies. He has no loyalty to anyone, no sense of decency. He is a totally amoral narcissist with an overriding fear of inadequacy
Sep 26 at 12:23am
Yes, they do, and Trump is slippery.
When he tried to get a dead mans name off of a ship that did it for me and making fun of the reporter with special needs.. Even his people approved of that... Can you imagine other presidents doing that and get away with it...I just cant believe people that claim to be christian people approve of him and support him
There are many Fake Christians.

My cousin was raised Catholic and is now a Christain, and she supports Trump and became anti-vax. Generally speaking, her actions show she most likely does not have Jesus in her heart. I hope she does and is lost and will find her way.
The lady covid doc in Washington was told to play the disease down per Trump..He also said it would go away and was fake....and they believed him
Sep 26 at 12:45pm
Do you mean Trump knows the country's secrets?


Shared publicly - Sep 17 at 2:10pm
Continuing my old blogs: naked bicycle riding in SF
I love seeing photos of WNBR (World Naked Bike Ride) events from around the world. Especially from Europe... the guys there just have a little something extra. 😁
Is that a “Tip” ?
I see Bloggerfoot in there. He was the code master.

Fun times in the sun.
Indeed. And we use to build some pretty creative profile cover pages complete with animated graphics. Not sure if you remember some of mine. One was Roman statues; with a lion slowly walking across the screen. LO removed much of our ability to do that later on. I think it had something to do with legal issues or maybe bandwidth at the time. I think the coding became a threat to the webmaster, lol. Sooo long ago.. can't recall all the details.. but yep.. those were the days! : )
I used to have a Flash clock in the introduction section of my profile that looked like a sundial and displayed the actual time relative to the viewer's location.
Oh wow! That was creative!!..and fun! : )
I also had a star map (planisphere) that would display the heavens as they currently appeared over my location. It would update each time you refreshed the page. I miss all of that.
(I had to read that twice.) I was like....a flash WHAT! lol
LOL! That too! 😁
That's so cool.
Yes, Indeed, I recall. We can still add an animated page as I have now; we are not playing with code, just uploading the gif to our Image Hosting.
About all we can do now is add a background image to our profile and customize the color scheme. We can also now add emojis to our profile mixed in with the text.

My profile still has the same "pistachio mint" color scheme it's had since 2008. The ivy background used to be brighter and sharper, but I'm now using a darker and softer version of the same image to make the green text easier to read.
Do ya'll recall Erin? She, too, taught me code. We had private messaging miles long with code and images we were editing and creating.

Erin now might sigh in now and then.
I forgot about her, but I remember her now!

I dug around and found the link to the star map that used to be embedded in my profile. This will generate a map of the heavens as they currently appear over Galveston. Courtesy of Your Sky.
See more
You know, your blog could also be photos of nude painted cyclists from the annual Fremont Solstice Parade in Seattle.
Wow. Amazing stuff to recall! And to read about now. I also remember Erin.

Nate: this could be a blog on it's own.. so informative!!


Shared publicly - Sep 16 at 3:43pm
This is a really funny blog I added a while back, worth a repeat
Hahaha,, how did I miss this one?

I like Rose Marie's answers and especially her first answer.
you missed it because it was years ago....I am thinking about posting the replies, which are often better than the blog itself....newer members could meet some of the guys who helped build this site.
Sep 16 at 4:03pm
Remember I had the -subbin- account years back, and that account goes way back to the early days of LO.

OH, that could be why my comment doesn't show in this blog if I made one - my -subbin- account was deleted.
Sep 16 at 4:05pm
Good idea about posting more. I like when someone comments on one of my older blogs, thereby refreshing the blog.
The Question Responses are very funny …. I vaguely remember this show and those people with the exception of Paul Lynde who I remember well as Uncle Arthur from “Bewitched” ….
I can't stop laughing!
Charlie Weaver was once asked: "True or False - Richard Nixon has been told never to let himself be photographed with his hands in his pockets."

Charlie Weaver answered: "Or in anyone else's pockets, either."
Sep 16 at 11:59pm
Omg. Still lmfao. Thanks for the memories! : )
The old blogs are pretty wonderful....some of our old time friends.
Sep 17 at 9:33pm
Indeed! : )

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Jul 4 at 7:40am
Stopping by to say hi.

and happy 4th of July

Have a great day.


Jul 3 at 2:36am
Happy Independence Day


Jun 4 at 4:47am
Good morning to you.


May 29 at 4:49pm
Remember our Heroes


Apr 15 at 9:09pm
It’s such a hopeful time of year, and I wish you every good thing at Easter and always.