natomas About


With a heavy heart, no longer a Texan -- moving to N. California. Luv to travel and will be doing some road trips and hopefully Europe in the Spring. Passenger seat's empty *hint*.

I’ve led two lives…the first very str8, married, divorced, remarried the same gal when she became terminal, widowed. Two adult kids. I’ve dated and had some good female relatonships….and then accidently, yes accidently, I met a guy!! I think I’ve always known I was gay, but I did love being a family man….never strayed once. But once there (gay) there was no looking back.

An avid reader, I enjoy traveling and discovering the U.S. along the back roads just me, my dog, the F150 and tent. I collect antique American Indian baskets. Life have been especially good to me and has given me the opportunity to do everything from owning my own auto leasing company to producing fashion shows and a lot more in between.

Volunteering, especially with seniors and in hospice, has given me my newest challenge doing home care. I enjoy short hikes, bicycling, swimming, plus tv sports – as well as other ‘indoor sports’.

I’m here mostly for chat and welcome the opportunity to share thoughts and laughs. There are so many men on Lifeout that are truly special, wise and wonderful!

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Here forDating, Serious relationships, Friends, Action / Sex
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeAverage
Height6' 2"
Weight248 lbs


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Shared publicly - Feb 4 at 6:33pm
Sometimes it's just the little things like dunkin' ginger snaps in my good!
i love ginger snaps.. a very underrated cookie.
Mandatory minimal kitchen pantry items: ginger snaps, fig newtons, and "tiger cookies" (or what ever they are called now)


Shared publicly - Feb 4 at 2:20pm
9:30 a.m. driving home after a 14 hr. night shift, stopped at a light......and older woman is waiting for the walk light...she's pushing a jogging type baby buggy big enough for two toddlers and behind her she is 'leading' (more like pulling) two larger older dogs both arthritic and moving with difficulty (she's not moving all that well herself). It's not a stretch to see that the jogging buggy was for the dogs when then got tuckered out. Such a touching scene.
Feb 4 at 4:23pm
or, the buggy could have been for her with the dogs pulling her home...... just saying. that would probably be the only way to get me out jogging..... ;)
Feb 4 at 5:00pm
oh, she wasn't jogging Larry......she wasn't in much better shape than the dogs.


Shared publicly - Feb 2 at 1:22pm
I work in a small village at about the base of the Sierra's enroute to Lake Tahoe and the ski resorts....woke up this morning to the sight of falling snow....doesn't usually come down that far -- my New England and Alaska roots must be showing because it gave me a very happy feeling! Wonderful day everyone!
Feb 2 at 3:56pm
Winter comes. I've been burning hot wood in the firebox. Down to 25F tonight here -- hard freeze.
Feb 2 at 5:09pm
snow at least every other day......... and now cold. time to bundle up at my house. ;)
Nate, enjoying a winter storm is much like enjoying a good hardon.

You never know how many inches you'll get or when it comes.

Keep your knickers warm.


Shared publicly - Jan 30 at 11:39am
Stopped at a super market for some fill-in groceries....a little before 8 a.m. and it seemed stranged that everyone in there were men -- even the cashiers. Thought I died and went to heaven!
were there some hot ones?. it would be strange and yet.. ok world if it was only men.. i have these thoughts some days.
What luck....I'm sure that's your 'go to' supermarket from now on. Was it a Trader Joe's full of Just Joes?
Not a chance at TJ's -- we have two TJ stores and they are always packed ! But this was at Roseville's largest super market. Just weird at how many guys were shopping -- and for full baskets of groceries not just beer!
Full Baskets indeed.
Jan 30 at 4:21pm
Do they sell sausages?

Jan 31 at 8:39am
I'll have to start shopping there before 8:00 a.m. now. Maybe we could 'bump' into each other.
I'd luv to 'bump' into you -- I work in Meadow Vista - off at 9 a.m., meet at Black Bear?


Jan 24 at 7:02am
Posted a blog ... J/O

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Feb 5 at 7:48am
Wishing you a---


Jan 29 at 3:39pm
The Weekend. ITS Friday, Napa Valley Style


at the SPA... at the MUD BATHS


Jan 29 at 3:03pm
Recall your Ways,

Back in the days,

Wicked Fridays, 'Twixt horny gays


yeah, at our age, it helps to be good at history, doesn't it



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Jan 12 at 2:20am
Preparing for the State of the ONION tonight


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Dec 27 2015 at 2:41pm
Sending you some Christmas Holiday Season Greetings and wishing you the best in coming 2016 New Year :)