natomas About


I’ve led two lives…the first very str8, married, divorced, remarried the same gal when she became terminal, widowed. Two adult kids. I’ve dated and had some good female relationships….and then accidentally, yes accidentally, I met a guy!! I think I’ve always known I was gay, but I did love being a family man….never strayed once. But once there (gay) there was no looking back.

An avid reader, I enjoy traveling and discovering the U.S. along the back roads just me, my dog, the F150 and tent. I collect antique Native American Indian baskets. Life have been especially good to me and has given me the opportunity to do everything from owning my own auto leasing company to producing fashion shows and a lot more in between.

Volunteering, especially with seniors and in hospice, has given me my newest challenge doing home care. I enjoy short hikes, bicycling, swimming, plus tv sports – as well as other ‘indoor sports’. 6.5, uc.

I’m here mostly for chat and welcome the opportunity to share thoughts and laughs. There are so many men on Lifeout that are truly special, wise and wonderful!

Basic Information

Here forDating, Serious relationships, Friends, Action / Sex
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeAverage
Height6' 2"
Weight237 lbs


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Shared publicly - Apr 22 at 7:55pm
Hey Guys, meet Tim (playahombre) - he's a good friend that I have been chatting with on another site for years....I'm trying to lure him in to our brotherhood! Check him out and make him feel welcome. Thank you.
Apr 22 at 8:37pm
...always the brotherhood of man, Nate. You're wonderful, and teach us, always, about the value of human connections. Thank you.
Apr 23 at 1:17am
I sent a greeting :)


Shared publicly - Apr 21 at 2:10pm
Ron ( 'Dezertrunr') update. For those who missed my earlier message, Ron had a stroke) I just spoke with Ron's brother and he says there has been some improvement in Ron's condition. He is still in a care facility but can now get a few garbled words out, he's still in a wheel chair and the current program is teaching him to get in and out of bed by himself and to get dressed. No prognosis for when he will be able to go home as he lives alone and will need care.
Hoping He Recovers soon
I really wish the best for Ron...he such a sweet man...praying for his recovery!
Apr 21 at 6:38pm
not sure he will ever fully recover, regaining use of his right side is the big goal....and being able to speak again.
Apr 21 at 6:56pm
Shocked to hear this...definitely in my prayers. And understand...just hope he recovers enough to be on his own again. Thanks for the update.
Apr 21 at 7:35pm
Godspeed to him.
Apr 21 at 8:59pm
We never know when something will hit us....... get well soon Ron.... love you
Apr 22 at 12:51pm


Shared publicly - Apr 14 at 12:51am
"Slime Ball" --- words of our President.....embarrassing. Money does not buy class....
Apr 14 at 7:10am
he is describing himself
Apr 14 at 10:13am
ah....that helps justify it!! thanx


Shared publicly - Apr 11 at 5:50pm
So I am coming out of the pet store where I helped pay for the Blue Mountain dog food advertising - plus new toys and some stuff to rub into Ted's coat and there is a brand new Ford F150 FX 4x4 - black, raised chassis, huge wheels and tires --- dam a site to behold! A real off road vehicle. My dream truck! Picturing the he man who drives and owns it...a rough and tumble type guy.....and then I look at the plates: Handicap vehicle!!
It just goes to show that ya never can tell.
Go for it my friend... lol
Go for it? You mean get a handicap license plate? LOL
Apr 21 at 3:48pm
Funny I saw one at a store when I was shopping and was driven by a little lady. I was surprised she could climb up into it


Shared publicly - Apr 8 at 8:14pm
British-Guy messaged me that he hadn't heard from Ron (Dezertrunr) in a long time and was worried. I made some calls and finally reached his brother -- Ron had a stroke in January - it was especially serious because he was found on his floor they estimate more that 24 after the event. He is now in a care facility. If you would like to send a card message me for the address. If any of you hear more, please keep me posted. Prayers and positive thoughts to a wonderful man.
Wow, good job, Nate. It is amazing how you know so many people and took the time to check on things.
The thanx goes to British-Guy.
Thank you British-Guy --- this is what friendship is. We all need to stay in contact with friends and loved ones. In a stroke, as in most emergencies, time is of the essence.
Oh no! :(

I hope and pray that he makes a full recovery!
oh sorry to hear about Ron...he is in my prayers
Sorry to hear about Ron - and thanks for the update . . . . . .
Apr 9 at 3:38pm
I had asked earlier about him and sad to hear of this....... please send me his address Nate..... thanks and hugs

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Apr 22 at 7:39pm
thanks for the add


Apr 16 at 11:45am
i'm still with the time i want to post.....i'm to tired....i'm beach side this weekend working.....i'm at del sol now....woke up a 6 to be at work in orlando at 10....fuck it i'm pooped.....called and said....see ya i am having a fuck it all nice relaxing naked day here.....and then bring the work van back to cocoa beach.....and playa linda doesn't close for rocket launches x later wonderful naked walk on the beach before heading back to same shit different day.....huggs back atcha..........john.......


Apr 12 at 7:25am
Hi, thanks for stopping by, hope you have a great day.


Apr 10 at 11:01pm
Just passing through :)


Mar 29 at 7:15am
Just stopping in to wish you a great Thirsty Thursday.


Mar 17 at 8:34pm
Be careful when you’re walking in the Enchanted Forests today,

Or those little fellows, so lucky and spry, could with ye, Have their Way

For those little green guys, of ancient lore, so everyone does say

Are like as ever to be completely,

..........Irish, and Horny, and GAY !

(even Kermit….

He never did want miss Piggy you know)


Mar 17 at 8:39am
It is St. Patrick's Day! A day to be Irish and gay. Check out those kilts and maybe get that guy under the quilt. Have a great day!

I have no idea why, but I have a craving for some Lucky Charms cereal!


Mar 14 at 1:12pm
I wish I could go cross country with you.


Mar 10 at 8:23pm
Fun Clocking it Up !!!!!!!!!!!!


Feb 19 at 9:25am
It blows that it’s Monday. Hoping you have a hot and horny week! x