natomas About


With a heavy heart, no longer a Texan -- moving to N. California. Luv to travel and will be doing some road trips and hopefully Europe. Would luv a travel bud for day trips, long weekends, or more.....seriously let me know.

I’ve led two lives…the first very str8, married, divorced, remarried the same gal when she became terminal, widowed. Two adult kids. I’ve dated and had some good female relatonships….and then accidently, yes accidently, I met a guy!! I think I’ve always known I was gay, but I did love being a family man….never strayed once. But once there (gay) there was no looking back.

An avid reader, I enjoy traveling and discovering the U.S. along the back roads just me, my dog, the F150 and tent. I collect antique American Indian baskets. Life have been especially good to me and has given me the opportunity to do everything from owning my own auto leasing company to producing fashion shows and a lot more in between.

Volunteering, especially with seniors and in hospice, has given me my newest challenge doing home care. I enjoy short hikes, bicycling, swimming, plus tv sports – as well as other ‘indoor sports’. 6.5, uc, 73.

I’m here mostly for chat and welcome the opportunity to share thoughts and laughs. There are so many men on Lifeout that are truly special, wise and wonderful!

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Here forDating, Serious relationships, Friends, Action / Sex
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeAverage
Height6' 2"
Weight237 lbs


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Shared publicly - Jan 29 at 10:19am
Please send an anonymous prayer and positive thoughts to a good friend in TN who is having open heart surgery at 5 a.m. tomorrow....he's terrified, as we all would be - some here who have been there themselves understand..
Godspeed to your friend.
You got it. I just had a good friend here have open heart surgery on Friday and he did just fine, and on the road to recovery. Wishing your friend and the health care team all the best during the surgery and recovery.
Jan 29 at 7:43pm


Shared publicly - Jan 28 at 11:28am
Total Silence! No cars starting, no lawn mowers, no kids playing.....just total silence. I'm in my 'office' down the hall and I can hear the grandfather clock in the living room ticking. Tic Tock, tick rare.
Did you put in your hearing aids? :P Sorry, Nate! I just had to pick on you. Enjoy the quiet.
Jan 28 at 12:31pm
I love grandfather clocks. I'll bet it's a beautiful one.


Shared publicly - Jan 25 at 11:11am
GUT PUNCH! Al wrote that we lost Kevin (lightkeeper1483) last night! I was chatting with him earlier this week....had no idea he was in trouble again. Losing a friend, even just a chat bud that I've never actually met, hurts. He had a troubled life. I know you all will join me in sending a prayer. Be at peace, Kev -- lot's of love.

Al says he will write more after he talks with the family.
Oh wow. He was such an inspiration in our chat. May he RIP. He was so very young that had a lot of potential in him.
He was a singer....good too. CW mostly....he sang a few over the phone. Think he could have had a career if his health had been better.
Did not know him well....... mostly through Al....... sad.
Jan 25 at 1:55pm
Oh No...
Jan 25 at 2:36pm
My heart is broken. Kevin was one of my best friends in this world, even though he and I never had a chance to meet in person. I am devastated.
Jan 25 at 4:35pm
I'm so sorry to hear that. I thought he was recovered from his most recent trouble. Was this sudden? His mother must be devastated.
Al wrote a more complete blog....FYI
Jan 25 at 5:33pm
Yes, I was just texting him yesterday back and forth about the Kodiak Alaska 7.9 Quake earlier this week.

And I just added to the Blog with some info.
He's back it his family?
Family? Yes, of a sort..., that was me, Kevin's Uncle, AL .... because I had to go in to his profile Photo Folder searching for the photo of him wearing the shirt that was "inactive" as he had set it so I could post it in the blog.

Kevin and I had the same Password so if anything happened to the other, (he with his gastro problem and me with my heart problem) so we could notify the friends of the other of us who don't read the blogs to find out.
Sad to hear. Prayers to his family and friends for the loss.
Thank you friend came home from the hospital on Friday --- he said it was the worst experience of his life but that each day is getting better. Your prayers and positive thoughts helped I know....knew I could count of you. *Hugs*
Feb 4 at 5:44pm
Did you put this on the wrong Posting? This had been about Kevin so far.

Did one of Your other friends have med trouble too?
Feb 5 at 12:14am
yes, sorry.


Shared publicly - Jan 22 at 11:50am
New Mexican restaurant last night -- kind of an upscale place. Food poisoning....spent the night thinking I was going to die and afraid I wouldn't. Still bad....burning stomach and throat. Green tea and toast. Yuck...just thinking what I might have ingested makes me sick!!
Uuuuugggg hope you feel better soon buddy
Jan 22 at 12:26pm
Hope you're feeling better and recover quickly. Have you called them or your local health department. There may be a problem and you're not the only one.
Jan 22 at 12:41pm
Hope you're feeling better. I spent most of one summer in Mexico when I was in college. We bought Lomotil over the counter and was a great cure for the Aztec Two-Step.
Hopefully the cooks didn't go to work sick. That could be one issue. Or the other issue can be either old food or not properly stored food bud
Just proof we never know what we are eating when dining out!
Call the health department & let them check out the place
Oh no! I hope you feel better soon!'s 19 hrs. - chicken soup and feeling better.
Glad to hear that!
Thats why I always order some Mexican strawberries (fried jalapeno) to kill the bugs in the food and squeeze fresh lime juice on top. Jalapenos and hot sauce helps kill stomach bugs.
Interesting....will try that IF there's a next time - LOL
im sick too....think thats it the flu.......hope that feel better soon.......
the flu is far take care. *hugs*
Get well, when I had it I had to go to doctor, chest infection
Thank you, Gentlemen for you kind thoughts and counsel....*Hugs* all around.
I told you not to let that hunky waiter take you on a private tour of the rest rooms..... ;)

Take care Nate


Shared publicly - Jan 15 at 8:43am

JOHN (melbournejohn)
Jack and Diane !!!
Jan 15 at 6:19pm
thank you sweet man......

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Feb 19 at 10:58am
Thank you for taking a peek and leaving kind words. Hope you enjoy your day.


Feb 19 at 9:25am
It blows that it’s Monday. Hoping you have a hot and horny week! x


Feb 18 at 5:27pm
Stopping in to wish you a good week cumming up.


Feb 11 at 9:40am
Stopping in to wish you a nice Sunday and a good week ahead.


Jan 28 at 8:49am
Wishing you a good Sunday filled with fun, relaxing activities, and a great week cumming up.


Jan 19 at 3:27am
Thinking of you!


Jan 12 at 6:26pm
Just poking my head in to say hi! Wishing you a good Friday, and a great weekend.


Jan 5 at 11:29am
Hello friend, I'm sorry I haven't been active here anymore. I didn't even know you had moved to Cali. I hope this new year is the best. If you ever stray to Florida let me know! Hugs, Les


Jan 5 at 12:40am
Hope you had a great Holiday Season and here's wishing you the best in 2018 :)


Dec 31 2017 at 8:53pm
Happy New Year 2018

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