natomas About


I’ve led two lives…the first very str8, married, divorced, remarried the same gal when she became terminal, widowed. Two adult kids. I’ve dated and had some good female relationships….and then accidentally, yes accidentally, I met a guy!! I think I’ve always known I was gay, but I did love being a family man….never strayed once. But once there (gay) there was no looking back.

An avid reader, I enjoy traveling and discovering the U.S. along the back roads just me, my dog, the F150 and tent. I collect antique Native American Indian baskets. Life have been especially good to me and has given me the opportunity to do everything from owning my own auto leasing company to producing fashion shows and a lot more in between.

Volunteering, especially with seniors and in hospice, has given me my newest challenge doing home care. I enjoy short hikes, bicycling, swimming, plus tv sports – as well as other ‘indoor sports’. 6.5, uc.

I’m here mostly for chat and welcome the opportunity to share thoughts and laughs. There are so many men on Lifeout that are truly special, wise and wonderful!

Basic Information

Here forDating, Serious relationships, Friends, Action / Sex
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeAverage
Height6' 2"
Weight237 lbs


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Sep 25 at 4:50pm
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Shared publicly - Sep 13 at 7:25am
Condolences to our friend Thom (tomcat) for the lost of Joey....his dog of 17 years. Hugs Thom. XOXO


Shared publicly - Sep 8 at 11:41am
So with all the 2020 problems - fires, floods, hurricanes, tornadoes, earthquakes, volcanoes - this could be the new flood of biblical times -- maybe our 'ark' is in space?f I'm kidding....but maybe not.
No, HE promised to never flood us again.... at least not with water
Well, we now have and brimstone plus!
I think I ran into her in Walmart. She was really pissed about something.


Shared publicly - Aug 31 at 11:41pm

first words of the first day of the month.....
Aug 31 at 11:54pm
Before: Bunny, Bunny?
So said for good luck, (unless you’re the bunny whose foot was just Took)
Wonder how many did....I did!
There is a pitched battle for existence -- hawk v. Rabbit rabbit-- in the late- summer wash. Looks like both sides are winning.
I did not. I am not superstitious. So I save time, worry... and SALT-!

BACKGROUND - - Farmer's Almanac, the first written record we have of someone invoking "Rabbit, rabbit" on the first of the month comes from 1901 in a British periodical called Notes And Queries.

"My two daughters are in the habit of saying 'Rabbits!' on the first day of each month," the periodical read. "The word must be spoken aloud, and be the first word said in the month. It brings luck for that month. Other children, I find,
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Sep 1 at 10:01pm
So, now I know the rest of the story. Thanks for illuminating me on this centuries old custom that I was unaware of.


Shared publicly - Aug 24 at 10:00pm
New member tycuteme just sent me a message....he immediately wanted to switch to text and asked for my number --- I usually think this is a same --- anyone have a similar experience?
Aug 24 at 10:29pm
No, I haven't, yet anyway. But I'm not as popular as you are Nate. Lol!
Since I hate to text (size of keyboard vs. size of fingers), I'm reluctant to give my phone number ever to people I know!
You are wise. I never give out my phone number either, in spite of constant pleading. Very seldom give my email address, and never go on Skype or other visual media.
so much stuff to be leary are both wise.
It could be a bot and not even a real person. Remember that rash of new members not too long ago that were all in Germany? Those were all fake accounts.

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Sep 21 at 1:55pm
kisses.....I wish I was in you arm right now....


Sep 5 at 2:59pm
Well I'm waiting for you hurry up! Ha... Enjoy your Holiday Weekend :)


Aug 27 at 7:40pm
I hope that you are staying safe with all of the fires...xoxo...


Aug 18 at 9:37pm
Holing up inside during the heat I hope. Fluids fluids and more fluids. Best electrolytes out there: ? per cent coconut water. Mix it 50/50 with cranberry juice. Vodka with the TV news is highly recommended. ? Stay cool. Be well. See you in a few weeks. Yay.


Jul 8 at 10:06pm
Thanks for stopping by. I hope dropping by remains a cherished custom among friends in this currently-paused and distanced culture. I've taken your thoughts to heart, and have launched a spot for my ramblings: ViewsWest.blogspot.comDew Drop Inn.


Jul 4 at 3:14am
Happy Holiday, 4th of July!


Jul 2 at 8:55pm
Happy 4th of July, Our Nation's Declaration to be Free, with Equal Representation, and Liberty and Justice for ALL - "To form a More Perfect Union" Equal for ALL, no matter how long it takes to include ALL Equally

Happy Fourth-!!



May 13 at 9:26am
Just stopping by to poke my head in to say hello.


Have a great HUMP Day!


May 6 at 8:52am
Hi !


Apr 12 at 7:32pm
Holiness is everywhere around you, A radiance that is because it is.

Perhaps you have not seen its light within you.

Perhaps you think your passionless than His.

Yet you have all the radiance of Being,

Even as you wait upon your name.

All have the capacity of seeing Such glory as no moment can sustain.

Time requires death and resurrection