natomas About


With a heavy heart, no longer a Texan -- moving to N. California. Luv to travel and will be doing some road trips and hopefully Europe. Would luv a travel bud for day trips, long weekends, or more.....seriously let me know.

I’ve led two lives…the first very str8, married, divorced, remarried the same gal when she became terminal, widowed. Two adult kids. I’ve dated and had some good female relatonships….and then accidently, yes accidently, I met a guy!! I think I’ve always known I was gay, but I did love being a family man….never strayed once. But once there (gay) there was no looking back.

An avid reader, I enjoy traveling and discovering the U.S. along the back roads just me, my dog, the F150 and tent. I collect antique American Indian baskets. Life have been especially good to me and has given me the opportunity to do everything from owning my own auto leasing company to producing fashion shows and a lot more in between.

Volunteering, especially with seniors and in hospice, has given me my newest challenge doing home care. I enjoy short hikes, bicycling, swimming, plus tv sports – as well as other ‘indoor sports’. 6.5, uc, 73.

I’m here mostly for chat and welcome the opportunity to share thoughts and laughs. There are so many men on Lifeout that are truly special, wise and wonderful!

Basic Information

Here forDating, Serious relationships, Friends, Action / Sex
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeAverage
Height6' 2"
Weight237 lbs


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Shared publicly - Oct 20 at 10:04am
My dog is such a trip.....he's a rescued shih tzu - I'm his third owner (or he may own me?). He almost talks -- he has sounds for everything....this morning at 7 a.m. he wants to play ball -- it's a ball almost, not quite, too big for him to get his teeth around -- it is nubby all over, and lights up when it bounces. I throw and catch it and sometimes miss the catch and we both race for it!! He such a fun friend....
Every morning I pick up toys off the stairs only for Luke to put them right back. It's something new every day with the four dogs. Would not miss it for all the money in the world!!
Four!! And they place them right where we will step on them right? Be careful not to fall down the stairs.
Oct 20 at 3:43pm
Not always. This morning there was 3 toys at the top of the stairs and one on the middle stair. We believe Luke has add or ahad.
Aww that's sounds wonderful. Dogs are the purest form of love IMHO.
True they are. Can teach us humans a lesson or two.
Oct 20 at 7:08pm
Agreed. Too bad pups can't run the world lol.


Shared publicly - Oct 4 at 11:13am
Would gun control have stopped Paddock?
In my estimation, probably not.
totally agree with you and Yenal -- people are always looking for someone or something to blame -- this just gives politicians another platform to play on the emotions of the voters.
We will never know.
Well it seems the GOP's answer every time we have a mass shooting are the following-

"Now is not the time to talk about gun regulations" which is never seems to be.

"If everyone were armed this wouldn't happen" which is just ridiculous.

Until the NRA stop owning members of Congress nothing with change IMHO.
No it wouldn't of...
If there was still a ban on AR's then yes it would have made a difference. I have several guns including an AR like the one he had and its a kewl gun but really its no good for hunting or any piratical use except for war and killing people. The bumpstocks should be illegal also which made it possible for him to fire so many rounds. Gun control will not stop murders but it can make it much more difficult to commit mass casualties like this one. We must be reasonable and pass common sense legislation. See more
How about the other 10,000+ people who are shot every year in the US?
Oct 4 at 6:19pm
Gun regulation would have IMHO.
If you don't think gun regulation works, Google what Australia did after just one mass shooting and what its impact has been


Shared publicly - Sep 24 at 1:10pm
TO ASA.....(if he sneaks back on) -- we are thinking of you...positive thoughts! *HUGS*
Sep 25 at 4:05pm
and I hope he is enjoying his backpacking trip......


Sep 4 at 10:06am
Posted a blog ... WORDS


Shared publicly - Aug 27 at 3:57pm
For all you new guys......I was looking up an old blog to send to a friend and began reading some -- OMG we use to have so much fun -- check the old blogs of anyone you are interested in....the replies to some are a hoot! Many of the men are no longer with us for one reason or another, but you will be introduced to a whole different verve. Three of my own favorites:

Chat Bud At My Door: www.lifeout/blog/110117

New Dress: www.lifeout/blog/103849

Ought Oh: www.lifeout/blog/101293
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I clicked on the links and didn't get anything...said they were not available or nothing there
that too bad....I tested them and they all worked. I could give you the pages on my profile to check...from page 13 - if interested, but Mitch you probably saw them when they first were posted and know the men I am talking about.
Aug 27 at 10:13pm
yep I prob. remember all the older profiles no longer on the site
Aug 27 at 9:57pm
Friend can't open it

Profile Comments


Oct 15 at 9:22am
Thanks for the profile comment sexy! Px


Oct 2 at 1:47pm
Just passing through :)


Oct 1 at 7:41am
Sunday starts the new week. October starts the new month. Have a great week and may the month be kind.


Sep 23 at 8:07am
Nate sure is quiet. Is he tied up somewhere and is being held with permission while having fun? ;) It is the weekend! The second day of fall and it will be hot, hot, and sunny. What to do in weather like that? Have a great weekend!


Sep 22 at 1:05am
thank you


Sep 4 at 2:52pm
Happy Labor Day


Sep 4 at 11:16am
Happy Labor Day !!!!!!!!!!


Sep 4 at 4:48am
Happy Labor Day,

Today we Honor Labor:, not the Unions and their political cronies, but we Honor the Laborers themselves and their labor. The laborers who prepare, and who serve; the laborers who build, and who repair; the laborers who clean, the laborers who plant, and harvest and glean; the laborers who made real, and made working, all the clever inventions that America's thinkers and tinkerers have devised. Without them, we'd all be doing it ourselves as if it were still paleolithic 12,500-BC.

Happy Labor Day


Sep 2 at 12:07am
Have a Great Holiday Weekend... Be safe, Have fun, & Relax :)


Aug 24 at 2:23pm
Greetings the Pure Natural Way !!!!!!!!!!!!!!