natomas About


I’ve led two lives…the first very str8, married, divorced, remarried the same gal when she became terminal, widowed. Two adult kids. I’ve dated and had some good female relationships….and then accidentally, yes accidentally, I met a guy!! I think I’ve always known I was gay, but I did love being a family man….never strayed once. But once there (gay) there was no looking back.

An avid reader, I enjoy traveling and discovering the U.S. along the back roads just me, my dog, the F150 and tent. I collect antique Native American Indian baskets. Life have been especially good to me and has given me the opportunity to do everything from owning my own auto leasing company to producing fashion shows and a lot more in between.

Volunteering, especially with seniors and in hospice, has given me my newest challenge doing home care. I enjoy short hikes, bicycling, swimming, plus tv sports – as well as other ‘indoor sports’. 6.5, uc.

I’m here mostly for chat and welcome the opportunity to share thoughts and laughs. There are so many men on Lifeout that are truly special, wise and wonderful!

Basic Information

Here forDating, Serious relationships, Friends, Action / Sex
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeAverage
Height6' 2"
Weight237 lbs


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Shared publicly - Jan 15 at 5:32am
Happy Birthday John 🎂
Jan 18 at 12:09am
Happy Birthday! Tanti Auguri! 🍰☕🥂🍾🎂


Shared publicly - Jan 14 at 11:07am
Hey guys, this is a real good friend of mine from another site....please give him a LO welcome:



Shared publicly - Jan 14 at 9:43am
On a lighter note, I think Ken Jennings is doing a surprisingly good job on Jeporady. I especially like his sign-off - "thanks Alex". Interested to see how the other guest hosts do -- Katie Couric is going to be one.
I personally think Katie Couric will be a dud, I didn't care for her on her CBS news roles, but she may be better here who knows.
Jan 14 at 11:35am
i like what he said - "progress and congress, complete opposites..." or something like
And Aaron Rodgers the Green Bay quarterback.

Be still my heart and other parts...
Jan 14 at 8:29pm


Shared publicly - Jan 2 at 9:58am
January 1 started with a new (used) car...'2013 Civic. My '06 Civic with 204K gave up the ghosts - needs a head gasket and timing belt, 77 probably my last one. I've been very fortunate to have been able to have a wonderful collections of cars so no complaints. Even though it's not a Chevy, I'm hearing Doris Day singing.....ok, you are all probably too young to remember the Chevrolet ads......LOL
I think twas Dinah Shore who sang:

See the USA in your Chevrolet.
You are right!! Thank you
Also remember Lucille Ball doing the Ford ads.
Jan 2 at 11:02pm
FOUND IT--- I had forgotten that.
Wonderful!! '59? My buddy in h.s. had that same times.
I have never owned a car that wasn’t a Chevy except my first which was an old Pontiac .. A giant sled of a vehicle, a Catalina , “The Catmobile” I was born in a GM Town where they made the radiator cores , Harrison Radiator
I thought Chevy was Dinah Shore.
I had to look her up although I recognized her name I could not remember her ..
She used to sing "See the USA in your Chevrolet" and then throw a big kiss at the camera.
It was a wonderful era --- Pat Boone also joined on the ads.
Us older folks can remember Dinah Shore. She had a talk show, was a singer, did commercials, had her name on a women's golf tournament, but probably most famously known as Burt Reynolds lover.
i' ve seen the USA but it was in a Taurus and not a 63 Impala convertible. :-)
Practical and Unassuming ... but as long as it got you there !
Jan 2 at 4:40pm
What did your client say. I know you like that old Honda but the red one is very nice.
Jan 2 at 11:01pm
I love Lucy, and Lucille Ball Loved her Ford Skyliner Retractable Hardtop - -

And Long-Lost FORD COMMERCIAL!! (Original Ending) Desi Comedy Hour Opening!!--4th Episode - -
Jan 2 at 11:14pm
And LEST we Forget.. Corinthian Leather Master (roll your 'R' in Corrrrrinthian) - - - Ricardo Montalban - 1975 Chrysler Cordoba Commercial - - - - 1980 - -

and OLD BLUE EYS Frank Sinatra for Chrysler too - -
Jan 2 at 11:16pm
but only after Sinatra had just advertised for - - - A Lincoln Versailles Commercial (1978) - -
Jan 2 at 11:26pm
Well, lets hope it runs that long for you again. Next one will have to be either Electric, or Chipmunk powered
Jan 3 at 9:39am
I remember those Chevy ads.


Shared publicly - Dec 28 2020 at 8:55am
HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY ASA (constantvariable)
It's Asa's birthday today? Well then, HAPPY BIRTHDAY ASA !!
Happy Birthday to Asa...yummy hot sex to ya to celebrate
I talked with Asa and was about to post a Happy Birthday, but then, we wondered if Nate had done so, and sure enough.

Happy Birthday chico
Happy Birthday! 🎂
Happy birthday Asa!
Happy Birthday Asa
Happy birthday Asa
Tanti Auguri

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Jan 7 at 9:54pm
Wishing you the best in the 2021 New Year :)


Jan 3 at 9:47am
Nate,thanks for stopping by and commenting on my dogs, photo, love those 2 crazy labs. Hope your "new" car does you good. Broke down last year and traded my Jetta for a Tiguan AWD something big enough to haul the dogs around in.


Jan 1 at 4:32am
Happy New Years, for AD 2021. Stay safe snd strong of mind and body. When you’re strong, you can handle anything.

May you have all that you really need to be healthy and safe, and just enough of what you merely want to make life fun.

(And please dress Properly, like all good Gentleman Bostons do)



Dec 31 2020 at 8:12pm
Happy New Year


Dec 25 2020 at 3:48am
It’s Christmas. And, yes, it’s really about the Birth of Jesus Christ.

Merry Christmas.

Before the Choo Choo Train Toys, before Santa Claus (and FedX and UPS) and before seasonal transcontinental Family Gatherings to celebrate, before all that,

FIRST, God’s Gift to us: Jesus the Christ Immanuel, “God with us on Earth”: to Forgive us for ALL our inevitable big and little sins, to teach us to accept and forgive all others Without Prejudice as He Will do, if we but try honestly to follow Him, to live honestly and love others, and Believe with Faith in His Promise to forgive us.

But God with us on earth? Had to start as birth as we all do with a mommy, Mary. She saw the honor it brought her, but Did Mary realize the full essence? ... really?

Musically, this is the author’s own original recording of “ Mary Did You Know?” - - -

Merry Christmas -



Dec 21 2020 at 9:52pm
May the longest night and the shortest day

bring rest to your mind and soul, I pray.

May you find guidance and may you find peace,

as the cycle of light will slowly increase.

Embrace the magic that the darkness bears,

breath in the chill and shift in the air.

May you always be blessed with the light from within,

and may well-being be yours

as the new cycle begins.


Dec 20 2020 at 11:00pm
Just a few more days until Christmas... Happy Holidays :)


Dec 8 2020 at 2:01pm
my tree Nate. I bought this tree off eBay several years ago at around $20 and moored it in the ground outdoors. Never thought I would use it indoors, lol.


Dec 5 2020 at 5:59pm
How's it hangin' stud?? I'm hoping it's nice and low! heh-heh


Nov 25 2020 at 4:36pm
'Tis the gift to be simple, 'tis the gift to be free

'Tis the gift to come down where we ought to be.

And when we find ourselves in the place just right,

'Twill be in the valley of love and delight.

When true simplicity is gained,

To bow and to bend we shan't be asham'd,

To turn, turn will be our delight,

Till by turning, turning we come 'round right.

--Joseph Brackett (1797–1882)

I sent this out to ya'll in 2015 with love and prayers to Paris, and Clint & Amy; and now we have Coronavirus.

Tis truly a time for sorrow, prayer, and hope, and Thankfulness; and, prayerfully, The Lord's intervention.