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Hi guys.

I'm a 110% gwm, who is warm, compassionate, loving, and faithful to my friends. (I'd be faithful to my husband if I had one! I don't consider being on LifeOut being unfaithful; but there are some activities I'd consider "unfaithful" if I were married.) I love just to sit by a fire and cuddle with a guy. I'm a bottom and love nice long cocks. In case you're wondering: HIV neg.

As old as I am I like helping younger guys to cope and develop into upstanding gay men. I'll chat with anyone! Ok, maybe I'm a "perv," but young guys, especially with uncut cocks, really turn me on. But not just here for young guys!

I love sports of all kinds, MLB, NCAA Basketball, NCAA Football, NHL, NFL (except the owners), and even "watersports." And I really love camping, swimming, slow day hikes, (I have bad knees, with right knee replacement having happened in July 2017), and hanging around nude. Since this "came up" recently, I sleep nude unless it's really cold. Then just gym shorts!

Hit me up: I'll always respond ... maybe not in five minutes, but I'll get to you. Use kik if you want. Shavedballs69 is my address there.

Working for equality and justice for all! Just really, really sick about all the violence against LGBTQ folks, not only Orlando, but all violence against our brothers and sisters everywhere and anytime. Let's really work for love not hate. As was said in Manchester, UK, after the terroridt attack, "love is greater than hate."

I'm still pretty much "in the closet," except for here and some of my closest friends (and sometime partners!). So like many of us if we were openly "out" there could be ramifications that would endanger my job and other straight friends I have. So I'm cautious about face pictures.

Maybe some of you would like to see this. Taken 3/17/19:

== Results from ==

99% Exhibitionist

98% Voyeur

97% Switch

85% Non-monogamist

61% Ageplayer

58% Experimentalist

57% Boy/Girl

49% Vanilla

48% Master/Mistress

46% Dominant

44% Submissive

37% Rigger

35% Degradee

19% Owner

18% Degrader

17% Daddy/Mommy

10% Masochist

10% Brat

9% Rope bunny

8% Sadist

5% Primal (Hunter)

4% Pet

3% Brat tamer

3% Slave

2% Primal (Prey)

Pretty accurate I think.

Well this says a lot. Hope you didn’t find it too boring. Enjoy anything and everything here! XOXO ?

Basic Information

Into Guys18 to 99
Here forFriends, Networking, Action / Sex
Sexual positionBottom / Receiver
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeSome extra baggage
Height5' 10"
Weight225 lbs
EducationPost grad
ChildrenLove kids, but not for me
OccupationSemi-retired counselor.


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Apr 3 at 11:08am
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Apr 2 at 7:30am
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Shared publicly - Mar 1 at 10:51pm
Who else is perturbed that Mayor Pete suspended his campaign for President? I sure am. :-(
yep me too...but its okay...hes really young as a Presidential candidate...
He may not have a chance at winning the nomination, but I am sad that he gave up so quickly. He needs to establish himself as a fighter if he wants to stay in Federal politics.
I am has become a race of $$
IAM, i think he should have stayed in a little longer, but i do understand it takes money to run a campaign
Yeah, was totally surprised!! But he's a very bright, intelligent ,(cute) , young man so he knew it was time.So hope we see him again in 2024!!! Bye Mr. Pete, Giggybutt!
More disappointed. He was refreshing, young, good role model, and I liked his ideas.
I was very disappointed and had just mailed back my ballot where I had selected him days before for the Super Tuesday race. Hope to see him again.
I'm disappointed but am thinking positive thoughts that whom ever gets the bid will choose him as their running mate! He would be an excellent VP!!!!!
WOW - that's a great idea! Please not Warren!
Sad had no black support and that controls the party
I am disappointed too. Even my homophobic son was sad. I hate to say it, but I am sure that a large portion of the population would not vote for a gay person. I wish things were different.
Pete didn’t quit. He and Klobuchar were told to step out by the DNC in an effort to derail Bernie. Too many candidates were watering down the delegate count against Biden and Sanders was running away with the nomination.
Ohh ok that makes sense, but heck
If that is true, we are fucked and will have the orange rump for another 4 years. The sanders supporters will stay away or vote for a 3rd party candidate which will give us the last 4 years of the republic.
That’s a fact..... but my 401K has never looked better!


Jan 21 at 5:18pm
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Oct 25 at 3:38pm
Pixie, kobold, elf, and sprite,

All are on their rounds tonight;

In the wan moon's silver ray,

Thrives their helter-skelter play.


Oct 25 at 8:40am
Wishing you a nice, relaxing, and fun Sunday. Get back online and be social!


Aug 29 at 11:01pm
I am just saying howdy to ya Joe....been missing you dear friend...yummy hot sex to ya....Mitch


Jul 4 at 3:19am
Happy Holiday, 4th of July!


Jul 2 at 9:35pm
Happy 4th of July, no matter how far we still are from our declared goal, it was and is still, Our Nation's Declaration to be Free, with Equal Representation, and Liberty and Justice for ALL - "To form a More Perfect Union" Equal for ALL, no matter how long it takes to include ALL Equally

Happy Fourth-!!



May 13 at 10:23am
Just stopping by to poke my head in to say hello.


Have a great HUMP Day!