shavedballsSTL About


Hi guys.

I'm a 110% gwm, who is warm, compassionate, loving, and faithful to my friends. (I'd be faithful to my husband if I had one! I don't consider being on LifeOut being unfaithful; but there are some activities I'd consider "unfaithful" if I were married.) I love just to sit by a fire and cuddle with a guy. I'm a bottom and love nice long cocks. In case you're wondering: HIV neg.

As old as I am I like helping younger guys to cope and develop into upstanding gay men. I'll chat with anyone! Ok, maybe I'm a "perv," but young guys, especially with uncut cocks, really turn me on. But not just here for young guys!

I love sports of all kinds, MLB, NCAA Basketball, NCAA Football, NHL, NFL (except the owners), and even "watersports." And I really love camping, swimming, slow day hikes, (I have bad knees, with right knee replacement having happened in July 2017), and hanging around nude. Since this "came up" recently, I sleep nude unless it's really cold. Then just gym shorts!

Hit me up: I'll always respond ... maybe not in five minutes, but I'll get to you. Use kik if you want. Shavedballs69 is my address there.

Working for equality and justice for all! Just really, really sick about all the violence against LGBTQ folks, not only Orlando, but all violence against our brothers and sisters everywhere and anytime. Let's really work for love not hate. As was said in Manchester, UK, after the terroridt attack, "love is greater than hate."

I'm still pretty much "in the closet," except for here and some of my closest friends (and sometime partners!). So like many of us if we were openly "out" there could be ramifications that would endanger my job and other straight friends I have. So I'm cautious about face pictures.

Maybe some of you would like to see this. Taken 3/17/19:

== Results from ==

99% Exhibitionist

98% Voyeur

97% Switch

85% Non-monogamist

61% Ageplayer

58% Experimentalist

57% Boy/Girl

49% Vanilla

48% Master/Mistress

46% Dominant

44% Submissive

37% Rigger

35% Degradee

19% Owner

18% Degrader

17% Daddy/Mommy

10% Masochist

10% Brat

9% Rope bunny

8% Sadist

5% Primal (Hunter)

4% Pet

3% Brat tamer

3% Slave

2% Primal (Prey)

Pretty accurate I think.

Well this says a lot. Hope you didn’t find it too boring. Enjoy anything and everything here! XOXO ?

Basic Information

Into Guys18 to 99
Here forFriends, Networking, Action / Sex
Sexual positionBottom / Receiver
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeSome extra baggage
Height5' 10"
Weight225 lbs
EducationPost grad
ChildrenLove kids, but not for me
OccupationSemi-retired counselor.


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Jan 11 at 7:02am
Posted a video ... Just relieving my balls


Shared publicly - Jan 11 at 4:14am
Good night guys. Thinking of all you sexy men.


May 29 2021 at 7:16pm
Posted a poll ... Memorial Day


Shared publicly - May 19 2021 at 10:26am
Happy Hump Day!

Profile Comments


Jan 2 at 5:35am
Well I'm waiting for you hurry up! Ha... Enjoy your New Year's Holiday Weekend :)


Dec 31 2021 at 2:53pm
Get ready, get set, another year is done.

Another new year begins.


Dec 30 2021 at 7:13pm
A new year is like starting a new chapter in your life. It’s your chance to write an incredible story for yourself.

Happy New Year.


Dec 23 2021 at 6:24pm
Jolly holly-days to you and yours! ♫ Happy Holiday’s ♫


Nov 24 2021 at 11:55pm
Happy Thanksgiving


Oct 26 2021 at 8:13pm


Sep 5 2021 at 4:27pm
No work is insignificant. All labour that uplifts humanity has dignity and importance and should be undertaken with painstaking excellence.


Aug 23 2021 at 11:52am
Monday is here

Oh, the dread

Rather stay home

Gotta workie instead

Hence, the name

Moaning Monday

Rather call it

Mancandy Day!