•: THE ESSENTIALS :•
• Geeky Top bear. 5’8”, 225 lbs, bearded, stocky(Dad bod), moderately hairy, shaved head, brown eyes.
• MAJOR music + film lover, 42O friendly
• Aries(☀️)/Leo(⤴️)/Capricorn(?)/Lunar Year(?)
• "Homoflexible”, Open minded, free spirited, creative, straight forward, sensual, kink-minded by default(Dom Top) but also Vanilla flexible, sex & kink positive. STI Free/Negative(Dec 9th 2020). On PrEP. I’m ethically non-monogamous.
• “Private Album" photos (if applicable) are G-Rated.
• I resonate with higher vibrations, and appreciate honest & direct communication. Let’s exchange good energy!
• “Woofs" are like compliments. I’ll normally reply in thanks; it’s good manners.
• Discretion is respected, but chats from "faceless men", “torsos strangers”, and other "body part people" will require a selfie if you’d like to engage.
• Guys I wish well, but I’ll pass: pushy, needy, rude, selfish, vapid, jealous, narcissistic, manipulative, insecure, exhausting, basic, game players, "Size Queens" + ”BBC" Chasers, race + body discriminators.
• Focusing on life + work offline take precedence, social Apps/sites are casual entertaining distractions. If I haven't replied in a while, no offence was intended.
• Please inquire respectfully if there’s more you’d like to know!
•: THE EXTRAS :•
I’m open to exploring possible friendships(yes the platonic kind, lol) with folks I click/vibe with. I love to laugh, eat great food, help in the kitchen, listen to great tunes while having enlightening + insightful boozy convos, and learning about interesting unfamiliar subjects through other folks. I love sharing music & putting folks on to Artists they’ve yet to discover. I’m easy going & fun loving, but with depth.
It’s a BIG Bonus connecting with folks who appreciate geek + entertainment culture, art, 70's to 80's soft rock and Pop, 80’s & 90's to Mid 00's R&B/Soul + Hip-Hop, Disco and Soulful House.
I’m spiritual, intuitive, temperate, and an overall “Glass half-full” kind of guy. Energy transmissions & transferals are very important to me. I try my best to offer authenticity with grounded & positive vibes, want the same in return. I value & offer reciprocity & fairness in my connections. I gravitate towards positive & open energies, and won’t hesitate to sidestep negative & murky vibes. So, let’s share some good energy!
Various types of guys interest me; it comes down to true chemistry & attraction. I click well with Gents similar to me: chill, respectful, intelligent, easy going, open minded, honest, communicative, balanced, stable, fair, cooperative, level headed, loyal, thoughtful, kind, compassionate, geeky, skillful, witty, humorous, passionate, spontaneous, uniquely sexy, creative/artistic, emotionally & sexually expressive, warm spirited, and unpretentious.
I'm an “Ambivert", and a combination of "INFP" + “INTJ” personalities based on my Meyers Briggs results, for those in the know. Curious? Check out 16personalities dot com.
Being Single works great for me. Casual dates are cool, and if there’s undeniable mutual chemistry I’m open to see where things might go. I have a prominent kinky Dom streak, i don’t deny myself of it. I’m ethically non-monogamous. I embrace the open exploration and expression of intimacy, be it emotionally and/or sexually, and tend to mesh well with folks of a similar ilk. Those who find themselves closed off/blocked emotionally & sexually, may find it pretty tough to relate to me. I am not generally quick to hook up, I prefer to build on a vibe first.
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