slade2372 About


I am an adventurous Vers/Top. Hell, I don't even like using labels. I am a fan of sexual pleasures. I am open-minded and love to experiment because it keeps things exciting. Now that I addressed the sexual part of this profile I encourage you to check out the rest of my profile. That is where you will get to know the kind of person I am.

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Into Guys20 to 60
Here forDating, Serious relationships, Friends, Networking, Action / Sex
Sexual positionVersatile / Top
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeAverage
Height6' 1"
Weight180 lbs
EducationGrad / professional school
ChildrenLove kids, but not for me
OccupationIndie Author/Publisher


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Jun 11 at 5:40am
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Jun 8 at 3:18am
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Shared publicly - May 18 at 1:34pm
Can I ask you all a question? How many of you could truly commit to one partner? The majority of gay men I have talked to about this tell me I am too old-fashioned. They say expecting gay men to be monogamous is rather nieve. I strongly disagree. I have been in three long-term relationships. The first one lasted 9 years. About 3 years into the relationship he fell into the bottle and never did climb back out. when drank he was abusive. He was also a serial cheater. The second husband I was with for See more
Nothing wrong being monogamous, but its been said that only 10-15% of the human species are truly monogamous. But I could be totally wrong you know.
I would say that sounds about right. I must be a rare breed or a dying breed. hahah
With a beautiful uncut package too, many guys would kill just to have a partner like you in bed... sigh.
Really? Well, I live in Wyoming, and trust me nobody here is interested. They all want the young boys. I like men! You don't have to train men. Hell, I'd settle for just a cuddle!!
Too bad Wyoming is 4 day drive...
To be honest, I am disheartened. I never thought I would be alone at this age. It isn't easy finding someone to date when you're 48. I had some little punk call me an old troll the other day, the little bastard. haha
On the flip side, there's sweet younger guys out there who totally into older ones...

Try posting a poll. Ask people if they believe monogamy or one could truly commit to one partner, you'll be surprised of the responses.

Since you asked...

Personally, I have never believed in the hetero-normative / Judeo-Christian definition of relationships (monogamy) because I wasn't raised in a Christian family, and as a Gay person, "marriage" was not something that was available to me, even if I wanted it. I personally believe that monogamy makes about as much sense as only allowing one person to be your friend, to the exclusion of any other people you know (that goes for Gay as well as other orientations). And I believe trying
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May 18 at 3:06pm
I don’t think not being Monogamous in a Relationship is a bad thing , but not being honest about it is ….
All I could think now that marriage these days is just a legal domestic contract, I think they should make it marriage licenses with expiration dates for those who wish a short term marriage (2/4/6/8 year) so when it expires it there's no need for couples to apply for divorce. And for those who want long term (10/15/20/25/30+ years) have the option too. Of course those who want it permanently... apply for a permanent kind of marriage license. Problem solved. More honest, less divorce, less hassle... lol.

LOL … I have a feeling Divorce Lawyers and Municipalities that collect Court Fees from Divorces would oppose that ….
On the contrary, they'll be collecting more fees if couples wish to renew every two years, and the wedding industry will make more money during renewal years... lol.

Divorce could happen anytime, from a week after to every year in between contracts, so divorce lawyers will always be more in demand.

...or just stop institutional discrimination against, and stigmatization of, single people?
or just stop promoting marriage as if its a cure for all social illness or individual problems... lol.
May 18 at 9:52pm
Marriage has only relatively recently been about sexual monogamy. It's historically been about legitimacy, property and stability.
You are so right, a relationship should be by two. Now if couples want to have a open relationship that is up to them and agree on that.

As far as for me, my relationship was for me and my partner only. We were together for 10 years. We were always together.i thought it was very good. Then he changed, cheating, lying and not trusting him no more.

For a relationship with me, it's only going to be the two of us. For me, when I want to be with him, I want to be with him not waiting for him to get
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I am totally all about commitment no sharing or cheating whatsoever that is what a relationship is all about
May 19 at 11:08am
well, if a man would honor me with some attention, i would respect that and save my whole self for him. it that lasted a minute or an hour, that time would be ours. i would hope i would never step out on the relationship. but...i know i've been foolish enough to drop a good candidate to go running after someone that came back in to the picture. did that twice. didn't get a chance to screw up a third time.
May 20 at 4:34pm
I'll make a very quick comment that doesn't do justice to all my feelings on the subject. Monogamy appeals to my idealistic, romantic side. Accepting non-monogamy as valid appeals to my practical, tolerant side.
Jun 8 at 11:36pm
I don’t understand guys who cheat. If you are not happy in the relationship then just get out of it. No need to cheat and lie.

Personally, I would never cheat on my man. Why would I? If I make the decision to be with a man, especially a man that I love, I would not need the attention of other men. I am totally all in for my man if I make that committment with him. Guys who cheat are insecure with themselves.


Shared publicly - May 18 at 12:23pm
Good morning all! How are you? I hope you are having a good week thus far. I am tired today. I was up all night writing and setting up profiles on dating sites. My husband of 8 years decided he wanted a divorce so that he can sleep around with anybody he wants and be legitimate. It has been eight months since that night and as much as I hate having to start over all over again with dating and relationships. I may as well get back at it. I just won't hold my breath on finding love again.
I am so sorry, it truly sucks. My husband of 9 years left me in 2019, to be with someone he met online in another state. It nearly broke my heart.


May 18 at 8:03am
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May 18 at 12:00pm
Just passing through to cheer up your day :)