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Sarasota, Sarasota County, Florida, United States

Member since May 20 2013

Last on Jul 12 2021

Profile last updated May 16 2020

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Interests	When I'm feeling serious: foreign language, existentialism, eastern religons, aviation, science, world history, French literature. When I'm feeling creative: Cooking, sewing, art & sculpture, ballet, architecture. When I'm feeling outdoorsy: sailing, the beach, ice skating, skiing. When I'm feeling romantic: fireplaces, pinot noir, Pimms and soda, and a Manhattan made with Woodford Reserve. Activites that I'm good at: cooking (I'm a very good cook), sewing (I make a lot of my own clothes), bowling, ping-pong, trivia, scrabble. When I was a kid, we lived next door to a deaf family. I learned ASL and have maintained a modest proficiency. If you are deaf, definitely hit me up for chat. Activities that I'm not good at: golf, football, basketball, billiards. Turn ons: Guys in suits, freeballing, underwear or the lack of it, men fresh out of the shower, sauna sex, massage. Turn offs: back hair (I like it everywhere else), skank-funk-scat and other poor hygiene descriptors (although I love helping a guy get clean as a whistle). Sex: I'd define myself as super sexual/sensual. I like a LOT of sex. I'm a chronic masturbator (mostly out of necessity since I can't seem to find anyone who is interested). I'm versatile, but usually end up bottoming because I really love it. No into anything relating to pain or poop. My ideal day would be to wake up with a hot man in my bed who kisses me as my eyes open, plays with my ass and fucks me, and we spend the entire day making love all over the house (Indoors and outdoors)... hours and hours of it! Told you... I'm VERY sexual. HIV negative 2/2020. Myers-Briggs Personality: ENFJ == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Exhibitionist 100% Voyeur 71% Experimentalist 59% Switch 53% Vanilla 44% Owner 35% Boy/Girl 24% Master/Mistress 14% Daddy/Mommy 12% Non-monogamist 7% Submissive 6% Ageplayer 2% Dominant 2% Primal (Hunter) 1% Primal (Prey) 1% Slave 1% Pet 0% Rope bunny 0% Degradee 0% Brat 0% Brat tamer 0% Rigger 0% Masochist 0% Degrader 0% Sadist
Music	Classical music and Jazz are the main types that hold my interest. Rock, metal, hip-hop...not for me. Country makes me laugh, Kiss makes me irritated. Rachmaninoff makes me horny. Recently, I've begun my education into popular music, so I'm also listening to Indy Pop...Sam Smith, Adele, Gaga, Arianna Grande, Sam Sparro, JT and Amy Winehouse. I'm actually getting into it!
Movies	Theaters have become disgusting...all that chomping, talking and cell phones. Netflix is for me. I love suspense movies, old classics, sci-fi and fantasy (LOTR and Star Trek, yes... Laura Croft and anime, no), gay romances... ok any romances, and foreign films (French and Chinese in particular)
Television	Not a fan of police procedurals. Love Antiques Roadshow and the History Channel. I loved Game of Thrones, Nurse Jackie, and old Miss Marple. I admit I watch Project Runway and So You Think. I'm also a big fan of the Great British Baking Show, Chopped.. and a whole bunch of other food/cooking shows.
Books	Anything in print that can not be classified as a "romance novel". I've read all of Shakespeare and Austen...Colette and LaCarre. My favorites are English mysteries. Doris Kearns Goodwin... I wish you were a gay man. Biography, period novels, historic fiction... all good with me.

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