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Interests

InterestsMusic, singing, internet, cooking, movies, video editing, my dog Sandy, porn, TV, thrift-store shopping.

After an open relationship for almost 20 years, today I'm single and looking for lasting relationships - with one man at a time. I don't mind something casual, but I'm trying to avoid one nighters.

I'm HIV+, since '96. Not proud, but not ashamed. I'm currently healthy and undetectable. I respect the choice of those uninterested in poz guys, but the ignorance out there is both startling and disappointing. Get knowledge and get tested, NOW!

I love porn. Nasty, bareback, cum guzzling, sweaty porn. I'm a talker outta bed and a dirty talker in bed. I don't rush to hookup; I'd rather get to know you. Indecisive people and selfish people annoy me. I have a fondness for hairy, white, country guys. Kissing + nip play = how to start my engine and keep it going. Discretion is always cool, but I don't get into guys who are on the DL or in relationships. The older I get, the more I'm ok with just jerkin' off and going to bed... alone sucks though...
MusicR and B / dance is my favorite. I like some country (I think they're the best songwriters), danceable rock, classic rock and hip hop that isn't misogynistic or narcissistic (I know - small percentage...). I love a good ballad and I love a good gospel song; that's how I learned to sing. I even appreciate some classical and musical theater. I DJ and KJ (run karaoke).

I like music that: 1). moves me emotionally [mind] and/or 2). makes me wanna dance [body] and/or 3). makes me wanna sing [soul].
MoviesSupernatural suspense flicks (Skeleton Key, The Omen, The Reaping, etc.), effects-heavy movies with a dense plot, preferably with a twist (Prometheus, Inception, Limitless, etc.), tear-jerking dramas (The Blind Side, Precious) romantic comedies (Something Borrowed, Indecent Proposal), some horror (the "Saw" series, The "Hostel" series), gay-themed films (An Ordinary Family, The "Eating Out" series). I like them all.

I can skip bad, "B" or low-budget movies that aren't even cult-worthy (usually anything with "zombie" in the title or those where the plot only consists of "how many young, good-looking people can we kill off in 90 min?).
TelevisionSome favs are American Horror Story, True Blood, Family Guy, Will And Grace, Property Brothers, 30 Rock, Hoarders, A Haunting, Ellen...

I'm more than over "reality celebrities." I don't care about the Kardashians, the drunks of Jersey Shore, the backwards fanaticism of Duck Dynasty or Honey Boo Boo. I wish people would stop watching that stuff...
BooksThe Road Less Traveled, Don't Sweat The Small Stuff (and it's all small stuff). I feel bad that I don't read books as much as I did when I was younger...