muzyqman2 About


I am a sapiosexual gay man. In other words, a gay man who finds intelligence the most sexually attractive attribute of all.


"Twisted" -

"Meadowlark" (The Baker's Wife) -

"Ship in a Bottle" -

"Chanson" (The Baker's Wife) -

"No Time at All" ("Pippin") -

"I Could Have Been a Sailor" -


--Sing like no one is listening

--Dance like no one is watching

--Smile like you have a secret

--Kiss like you love the taste

--Love like you can't be hurt

--Fuck like you're being filmed

--Suck like you haven't eaten in a week

SPECIAL REQUEST -- If you have the balls to show your balls, please have the balls to show your face!

If you send me a "Friend" request before we have ever exchanged messages, I will decline. The status of "Friend" is reserved for people I've already come to know -- in other words, guys who have already become my friend -- not for total strangers with whom I have never interacted. And just FYI, if we've never chatted and you're still a total stranger to me, why would I ever even consider sending you my direct email address or cell phone number? Duuuuuhhh!

I'm an educated, cultured, creative and emotionally stable older (mature) man who believes that a man's BRAIN is his biggest sex organ. So I rarely answer any message of less than 5 words (show me that you have solid communication skills, both spelling and grammar count!).

If you're more than 150 miles away from me, I probably won't be interested unless you have a great profile and/or wrote me a great message.

Professionally, I have been an actor, singer, violinist, community theatre manager and marketer of professional design (architecture, planning, engineering, surveying, environmental and construction management) services (with a national certification). My friends often tell me that I'm a true "left brain/right brain" person.

I think redheads are the sexiest men around. I'm a sucker for a handsome redhead - literally!! But I'll also suck a blonde, a brunette, or a guy with a shaved head, and even some guys with grey or white hair. It's about the personal chemistry (but not about chemicals!).

If you want to know more than this, invite me out for coffee/conversation, or send me a message of more than 5 words (again, spelling and punctuation count). One of my favorite passtimes is finding out what makes another man special.

Actually, I DO drink, but just a little. I was diagnosed with Type 2 diabetes more than a decade ago, so I only have an glass or two of wine on occasion. No hard liquor at all -- ever. And I never learned to like beer.

Basic Information

Into Guys28 to 50
Here forDating, Serious relationships, Friends, Action / Sex
Sexual positionBottom / Receiver
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeSome extra baggage
Height5' 10"
Weight240 lbs
EducationCollege graduate
ChildrenLove kids, but not for me
OccupationStrategic/Marketing Consultant


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Shared publicly - Feb 25 at 8:03am
Here's some advice to help first-timers get that big, fat, hard cock in their mouths. I found it in a profile on another website. Happy Hump Day!
Feb 25 at 12:25pm
Ha Ha... Good One :)


Shared publicly - Feb 24 at 1:01pm

About 5 minutes ago on another m4m site, I found an interesting profile. The young man described himself as a "total bottom," and his stats included a 9.5" thick cock. My question is:

WHY does God keep putting such huge cocks on bottoms?
The same reason he sent that snake to fuck up Adam and Eve's relationship...he's a bitch.
Found that bottoms with a cock that big are very often not a bottom completely by choice. May just have not found a bottom that can take his cock. ;-P
Interesting, and sounds totally logical. However, I've found that many who are that big can't find someone to take them because they have no technique. "Spit and shove" can be very painful. A top like that has to have patience to get the bottom ready for a fat 9.5-incher!
Amen to that. patience and technique is usually the key.


Shared publicly - Feb 23 at 1:03pm
After reading an Oscars-related rant about superheroes, I stumbled across this picture on another site. I thought my friends here at LifeOUT would enjoy seeing it.


Shared publicly - Feb 23 at 8:16am
I am constantly amazed at the number of men who have the balls to show their balls but don't have the balls to show their face! I just looked at a profile with more than 50 pictures. Every one of them was a picture of the guy's hard cock, sometimes standing tall, sometimes in a mouth, sometimes in an ass. No face pics. Not even a body pic without a face. Sorry, guys, but once you've seen a dozen cock pics (hard, soft, big, small, medium, fat, slim, pierced), you've seen them all. Is there anyone See more
Maybe sometimes we should be glad we don't see their face? It might ruin the rest?
Totally agree-I also wish there was no private settings on here-I cannot preach or bitch too much because I have no nudes in my profile. but comeon this is a gay 'facebook' porn site for the most part.
I'm kind of amused by the guys who are willing to show their hard cocks and assholes spread open far enough to see their tonsils, but still won't show their faces.


Shared publicly - Feb 19 at 5:00pm
A friend of mine posted this on Facebook earlier this afternoon. It's about a teacher teaching youngsters to identify Lifesaver colors with flavors. It made me laugh out loud.

Profile Comments


Jan 26 at 9:46pm
i hope that you are having a wonderful time this evening.......


Jan 11 at 9:25am
Big hugs to warm you on a cold day


Jan 1 at 11:12am
Big hugs and Happy New Year!


Dec 24 2014 at 3:14am
Warm wishes for a very Merry Christmas~~ It's time to spin my dreidel ~~ Big hugs!


Dec 17 2014 at 4:43am
Happy Hannakuh Bernie,I'll be over to spin the Dreidel with you later. But lets change the rules to spin the bottle :PBig hugs!


Dec 16 2014 at 11:20pm
happy hanukkah fuzzy......hope that you had wonderful evening.....i did......brett made a wonderful dinner and the evening was filled with chatter and laughter with friends.....wish that you were there....he has a baby grand.....would have been a blast........i had to leave early...... need to be at work early.......mazol tov.....


Nov 27 2014 at 8:32pm
Here's hoping you have a wonderful Thanksgiving Holiday and you know what would be even better? If you was here to really show your appreciation and thankfulness by gobbling and stuffing our naked body's together and having a real good feast on each other now wouldn't that be real delicious...Happy Thanksgiving my Good Friend :)


Oct 30 2014 at 7:25pm
Have a Happy Halloween


Oct 1 2014 at 2:20pm
I especially enjoyed your rendition of "No Time At All" could I relate (grin).

Hugs, Clint


Sep 25 2014 at 1:04am
happy holiday fuzzy........i meant to say this earlier........i can be such an air head......hope that you had a great dinner......much fun......kisses and hugs.......john