muzyqman2 About


I am a sapiosexual gay man. In other words, a gay man who finds intelligence the most sexually attractive attribute of all.


"Twisted" -

"Meadowlark" (The Baker's Wife) -

"Ship in a Bottle" -

"Chanson" (The Baker's Wife) -

"No Time at All" ("Pippin") -

"I Could Have Been a Sailor" -


--Sing like no one is listening

--Dance like no one is watching

--Smile like you have a secret

--Kiss like you love the taste

--Love like you can't be hurt

--Fuck like you're being filmed

--Suck like you haven't eaten in a week

SPECIAL REQUEST -- If you have the balls to show your balls, please have the balls to show your face!

If you send me a "Friend" request before we have ever exchanged messages, I will decline. The status of "Friend" is reserved for people I've already come to know -- in other words, guys who have already become my friend -- not for total strangers with whom I have never interacted. And just FYI, if we've never chatted and you're still a total stranger to me, why would I ever even consider sending you my direct email address or cell phone number? Duuuuuhhh!

I'm an educated, cultured, creative and emotionally stable older (mature) man who believes that a man's BRAIN is his biggest sex organ. So I rarely answer any message of less than 5 words (show me that you have solid communication skills, both spelling and grammar count!).

If you're more than 150 miles away from me, I probably won't be interested unless you have a great profile and/or wrote me a great message.

Professionally, I have been an actor, singer, violinist, community theatre manager and marketer of professional design (architecture, planning, engineering, surveying, environmental and construction management) services (with a national certification). My friends often tell me that I'm a true "left brain/right brain" person.

I think redheads are the sexiest men around. I'm a sucker for a handsome redhead - literally!! But I'll also suck a blonde, a brunette, or a guy with a shaved head, and even some guys with grey or white hair. It's about the personal chemistry (but not about chemicals!).

If you want to know more than this, invite me out for coffee/conversation, or send me a message of more than 5 words (again, spelling and punctuation count). One of my favorite passtimes is finding out what makes another man special.

Actually, I DO drink, but just a little. I was diagnosed with Type 2 diabetes more than a decade ago, so I only have an glass or two of wine on occasion. No hard liquor at all -- ever. And I never learned to like beer.

Basic Information

Into Guys28 to 50
Here forDating, Serious relationships, Friends, Action / Sex
Sexual positionBottom / Receiver
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeSome extra baggage
Height5' 10"
Weight240 lbs
EducationCollege graduate
ChildrenLove kids, but not for me
OccupationStrategic/Marketing Consultant


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Shared publicly - May 23 at 4:10pm
I have grown very cynical in my old age. Every time I see a profile that says "open relationship," my first thought is, "Really? Does your partner know the relationship is open?"
May 23 at 6:12pm
If He Does not ? Then he needs to rethink his relationship LOL


Shared publicly - May 23 at 11:47am
Wishing everyone a fun, wonderful and safe Memorial Day weekend. Please take a moment to remember why this holiday exists.


Shared publicly - May 21 at 9:18am
The last site I looked at had a profile that included the following:

"There's a sucker born every minute, but swallowers are hard to find!"


Shared publicly - May 20 at 1:10am
Let me be the first to wish all my LifeOUT friends, including the friends I haven't met yet, a HAPPY HUMP DAY. I hope we all get to celebrate the day with appropriate activities, maybe even more than once!


Shared publicly - May 18 at 8:47am
Happy Monday, everyone. It's a whole new week, so it's like getting a "do-over!"
i don't need do-over.......i'm pooped.......i need a new-over.........

Profile Comments


Apr 15 at 9:15am
It's Spring time and I'm out of hibernation so I'm ready for any postion with you Top or Bottom :)


Jan 26 at 9:46pm
i hope that you are having a wonderful time this evening.......


Jan 11 at 9:25am
Big hugs to warm you on a cold day


Jan 1 at 11:12am
Big hugs and Happy New Year!


Dec 24 2014 at 3:14am
Warm wishes for a very Merry Christmas~~ It's time to spin my dreidel ~~ Big hugs!


Dec 17 2014 at 4:43am
Happy Hannakuh Bernie,I'll be over to spin the Dreidel with you later. But lets change the rules to spin the bottle :PBig hugs!


Dec 16 2014 at 11:20pm
happy hanukkah fuzzy......hope that you had wonderful evening.....i did......brett made a wonderful dinner and the evening was filled with chatter and laughter with friends.....wish that you were there....he has a baby grand.....would have been a blast........i had to leave early...... need to be at work early.......mazol tov.....


Nov 27 2014 at 8:32pm
Here's hoping you have a wonderful Thanksgiving Holiday and you know what would be even better? If you was here to really show your appreciation and thankfulness by gobbling and stuffing our naked body's together and having a real good feast on each other now wouldn't that be real delicious...Happy Thanksgiving my Good Friend :)