melbournejohn About


Hi. I moved here from Boulder CO a couple years ago. Loving the water again. I also love dogs. I like cooking because I love to eat, i would live on the beach if I could, I'm naked every chance that I get. Not a big fan of clothes. I like fishing, plan to learn to surf and the kite surfing thing (that looks like it would be a blast).

I am HIV POZ scince 93, never any issues.

I enjoy polyamorous relationships

Basic Information

StatusCommitted, but play together
Into Guys25 to 65
Here forSerious relationships, Friends, Networking, Action / Sex
Sexual positionVersatile / Bottom
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeAverage
Height5' 8"
Weight150 lbs
EducationHigh school
ChildrenLove kids, but not for me


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Shared publicly - Jun 15 at 7:04pm
son of a twat sucka....i'm out of pickles...i need pickles for the cuban sandwich that i was about to make.....shit.....plan b.....stuffed peppers with black beans and chile sauce......i'll get pickles tomorrow.....but....fried cuban bread with cheese....ham (seranno) good stuff....egg.....good strong black coffee....good is good.....
Sounds delicious - You forgot my invitation.....
You have no idea how cheered I am to see you write "life is good." I hope it just keeps getting better for you. Love and hugs. Muzy.
Jun 15 at 10:11pm
Sounds like you're eating good food. Yum. I could go a noch of that myself.
Jun 16 at 2:37am


Shared publicly - May 21 at 4:51pm
so pissed....i was supposed to start my cancer therapy a call yesterday not approved yet.....fuck me....months of doctors...tests....and more tests....uretheral is back...lymph nodes...lungs....anal....blood.....and because it in my will infect every organ in my body.....fuck me.....
Hope all starts going well for you
I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you can start your therapy soon. Best of luck to you, and my prayers are with you.
Sorry to read your news, John. I will continue to hold a very strong thought for the best possible outcome for you. In the meanwhile, sending hugs.
oh wow sorry to hear this damn insurance company's
sorry to read this. That stuff is not to be played around with. Hope you can get treatment soon xxx
wtf this needs to be an automatic insurance approval. and I hope my thoughts as to their hold up is not true


Shared publicly - Apr 25 at 2:58am
and sugar grapes for looking forward to my blanket......


Shared publicly - Apr 25 at 2:50am
homemade mushroom soup....good wine....chard bread.....sitting in front of the lit fire with my dogs.....yummy dinner....or maybe its breakfast.....who cares......i will be curled up in my blanket soon.....full and with my dogs.....


Shared publicly - Apr 20 at 1:41am
nate asked me for memorable moments in life....i have none to think of......babettes feast, somewhere in time, the way we were, bewitched, i dream of jeanie,......only moments...only moments....giggles and vacations.....the pool at the cottages in new hampshire.....thats all i have to give.....sitting next to the sea....having a cocktail with with mr. daniels....thats a story to tell....and much time in key west.....thats a whole night of stories...
Slapping and catfight moments from Dynasty... or was it Falcon Crest... or maybe Knots Landing?

I think I'll settle with perfect strangers.
So you DO have some memorable moments, John. You have written here often of days at the beach, or being naked in the pool, or times with mama. It may take a real act of will to remember them, but they are there. As always, I am sending hugs and love.

Profile Comments


May 28 at 9:38pm
Remember Our Heros and Uphold our Democracy


Apr 29 at 5:08am
“The greatest happiness you can have is knowing that you do not necessarily require happiness.” – William Saroyan


Apr 1 at 5:40pm
Have a Blessed Easter


Mar 11 at 1:31pm
Big hugs coming at you John.


Mar 11 at 1:30pm
Love Manny


Mar 11 at 1:28pm
Just passing through to cheer up your day :)


Mar 11 at 12:45pm
We were friends a few years back and then I took a break..... sorry to hear about your issues... lots of HUGS to you....


Mar 10 at 11:47pm
Huggies Supreme...:P


Feb 11 at 10:46pm
Just passing through... Have a Wonderful Day :)


Feb 11 at 5:58pm
I heard you were not feeling well at all.

That is no fun no fun at all.

A poem for you

to feel better too

and some guys

stopping by

feel better soon!