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Hi, I'm a 33 year old bi guy looking for advice in this split personality/lifestyle as well as work out tips too. I don't know why it's hard for people to understand that guys (or girls) can be bisexual. I would bet that very few people are 100% gay or straight. No need for labels, we all like what we like. And how do you define sexuality anyway? Is it who you love? Or who you are sexually attracted to? Or who you have sex with? Well, my answers to those questions would be straight, bi, and gay, respectively. I have never had sex with a woman, this is true; I have had sex with men. I have been in love with women, but not men. I desire and appreciate attractive people of both genders physically and sexually. I want to marry a woman and live a straight life, and this is not because society says so, this is what I know I want. When I think about my future this is all I see. So then why am I not dating women and having sex with women? Where to begin...social anxiety disorder, lack of confidence, shyness, being in love with a girl I can't have and being a one-woman kind of man; the list goes on. I'm trying to figure myself out because I want to be able to be happy. Any advice you can give me about achieving this would be greatly appreciated. And I'd love to put on some muscle which can only help me out with this stuff ;) so any tips there would be awesome too!


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Sexual positionTop / Giver
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeAthletic
Height6' 0"
Weight191 lbs
EducationGrad / professional school
ChildrenSome day


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Shared publicly - Sep 15 2020 at 9:59am
I always knew Captain America was my favorite ;) I have often fantasized about other Avenger cock. Thanos must be huge. Thor too. What Avenger (or other character) cocks do you crave? And we already know Chris Evans is huge, which actual actors do you think have beast cock?
He is thick .. he released it as publicity we all know that ..
Sep 15 2020 at 11:15am
Yes, that was the reason for the discussion.
Sep 15 2020 at 11:40am

And hawkeye or not i think jeremy renner's yummy... even as dahmer... ;p


Shared publicly - Jun 19 2020 at 9:44am
I miss furrycoach's big thick hairy bear jock cock! And nips!


Shared publicly - Feb 24 2020 at 11:29am
Any DL bi/married guys have buds in the same situation, friends or neighbors, and you hang out doing "guy stuff" without your ladies, watching sports, hunting, etc. but in reality you are having sex?
i have lots of those
I have one bud like that, no one has a clue we fuck
Ohh yeah, I have a few I get together with
I've had those in the past, but they've ended once we got caught.
How did you get caught
God. I wish...
Yep - had a 4 year run, and it was great.
my longest one lasted almost 3 years...had a blast!
In the past yes. I had a bud, we got together to play "video games" and fuck, ex marine, body builder. It was sooooo much fun. He was submissive and fun to play with!
I had a buddy, married guy, and we'd hang out often.

Wed choose something for dinner so his wife had to run to the store, and we'd 69 or I'd fuck him.

She'd come back, we were watching TV and talking as if nothing happened.

Good times back then until they moved to Florida.


Shared publicly - Feb 14 2020 at 12:22pm
Is Mayor Pete Booty-Judge the top, bottom or vers. I'm going top/vers by the looks of the other guy.
Who cares? He's definitely the best choice for 2020!
Feb 16 2020 at 7:52pm
LOL, surely you jest.
No, I don't jest - he's certainly the most intelligent. But then again, a mosquito would be an improvement over who we have in office now!!
Feb 18 2020 at 12:03pm
He might be smart and he talks like it, but I don't support his stances on the policies at all.
Feb 19 2020 at 8:50am
Then you must be one of those die-hard Republicans......or do you not like him because he's 100% gay, is married to a very nice man, and want to have children in the future??
Feb 19 2020 at 1:46pm
I'm conservative.
Feb 14 2020 at 8:12pm
Booty Judge ROFL!!
top all the way
Feb 15 2020 at 7:54am
I don't know but I would like to find out personally!
Feb 16 2020 at 3:05pm
Who knows? None of us will personally find out. Speculate all you like, though. ;)
Feb 16 2020 at 7:52pm
Well I'm curious if he was on apps or Manhunt back in the day and anyone knows what he put or anyone fucked him. Someone might know.
Feb 16 2020 at 8:35pm
Good point, but I suspect he has had a political career in mind for quite some time, and probably has avoided any embarrassing online stuff as a result. Additionally, he's at his peak in terms of public recognition right now. I'm sure if there was any such evidence, it would have been made public by now.

Still, you never know... stranger things have happened.
Feb 18 2020 at 12:01pm
But the gays are a horny bunch for random sex.
Feb 19 2020 at 8:51am
......and you're not???! LOL!
Feb 19 2020 at 1:47pm
I am not a gay for random sex. I am a demisexual bisexual. Please educate yourself if you are not familiar. Thank you very much.
Feb 19 2020 at 3:22pm
Well, they say variety is the spice of life, but it's not for me -- whatever trips your trigger!
Mar 7 2020 at 3:38pm
I would personally lOVE to know! He makes me drip, Wuff!!
Mar 11 2020 at 12:04pm
Yeah, in not usually into nerdy thinks but he's got the military build and I bet he's furry
Mar 24 2020 at 7:11pm
I would say he is top/vers. I don't see him bottoming much.
Mar 14 2021 at 3:11pm
“Booty-Judge”. immature name calling nothing to see here


Dec 29 2019 at 7:22pm
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