jamesbi1983 About


Hi, I'm a 31 year old bi guy looking for advice in this split personality/lifestyle as well as work out tips too. I don't know why it's hard for people to understand that guys (or girls) can be bisexual. I would bet that very few people are 100% gay or straight. No need for labels, we all like what we like. And how do you define sexuality anyway? Is it who you love? Or who you are sexually attracted to? Or who you have sex with? Well, my answers to those questions would be straight, bi, and gay, respectively. I have never had sex with a woman, this is true; I have had sex with men. I have been in love with women, but not men. I desire and appreciate attractive people of both genders physically and sexually. I want to marry a woman and live a straight life, and this is not because society says so, this is what I know I want. When I think about my future this is all I see. So then why am I not dating women and having sex with women? Where to begin...social anxiety disorder, lack of confidence, shyness, being in love with a girl I can't have and being a one-woman kind of man; the list goes on. I'm trying to figure myself out because I want to be able to be happy. Any advice you can give me about achieving this would be greatly appreciated. And I'd love to put on some muscle which can only help me out with this stuff ;) so any tips there would be awesome too!


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Sexual positionTop / Giver
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeAthletic
Height6' 0"
Weight188 lbs
EducationGrad / professional school
ChildrenSome day


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Shared publicly - Jun 30 at 10:39am
I need someone to work my nips who knows what they're doing. Pin my hands over my head, kiss me, get your mouth all over my ears and neck and nips and use your other hand to find my sensitive spots to make me moan and writhe in pleasure. It's been too long.
Jun 30 at 11:59am
I'm sure you would love to have me suck your hard nips while I play with your balls and tiny hole!!! I would make you moan and beg for everything!!!
Jun 30 at 2:09pm
i wish i could be that helper.I love nipples..working them over til they are swollen and erect.

my full lips suckling each one.sliding my tongue down your ear lobe and neck.
Jun 30 at 5:35pm
That sounds Incredibly Hot!!!! I definitely need that as well.
Jun 30 at 7:05pm
I'd love to lick and suck your nipples and play with them.
I'd work your nips over real good -- you might not be able to wear

a shirt for a couple days though!
Jun 30 at 7:56pm
Your chest looks great, really love those most recent shots with your sweaty fur, mmmm! I'd love to work your sexy nips for you. I love the pain the next day when your shirt rubs against them, still raw from a good sucking
sonofabitch this sounds like a job for big Daddy!
Jul 1 at 4:00pm
any time ur ready james


Shared publicly - Jun 26 at 11:36am
My body hair is completely natural right now. Please comment what you think I should do, if anything, about my chest/abdomen, pubes, balls, shaft, or anything else. I don't know what people prefer or what would look good on me. I will do what is most popular and then take some pics.
I like all natural! With your sexy body, hell yeah!!
Jun 26 at 11:55am
I like it shaved smooth
Keep the hair!!! Very sexy.
Keep it natural or trim a bit..
Jun 26 at 12:36pm
just do what u feel is right For You...first!!!
natural is easiest, and very sexy.
You don't need to change anything,just have confidence in yourself
I tried doing the shaving,triming..it was a lost cause...I had to do every few days.And bud says to me BE A MAN let grow....And have seen...
I would not change a thing, you are a sexy man! Own it!
i like natural :- )
Jun 26 at 5:35pm
Natural of course !!! :)
Jun 26 at 8:02pm
shave the balls so I don't get hair in my mouth.i can stay down on you longer!
Nothing at all. Natural is best.
Jun 26 at 10:00pm
Fucking hot!
Love the fur, my vote is keep it natural
Jun 27 at 1:18am
keep it natural if that is what is natural for you, shaved/waxed bods tend to look…shaved/waxed. plastic
Jun 27 at 3:05am
You are sexy either way but i'll have to say natural!!
Jun 27 at 9:36am
James, I LOVE the look of the 'all natural' body hair, it definately compliments your awesome body. Think I only totally shaved my chest/stomach once, but it grew back too fast, so now I'll just keep it nicely trimmed. I do like trimmed pubes as well, and I often sport these myself, especially in the warmer weather. I have totally shaved my pubes/cock too, as it feels awesome when I wear my thongs!! I think whatever suits you, and what you feel comfortable with. LOOKING GOOD :-)
Jun 27 at 9:53am
Love to see more hair.......Nice body.
Jun 27 at 11:15am
i personally love the totally smooth look with just a small patch of trimmed pubes (balls smooth too) i think that look is very sexy
Jun 27 at 9:02pm
You are doing such a good job. I think some of us like men being men, a little trim is ok buy shaving everything clean isn't as masculine as you look. Working the core of one's body is sexy, good abs, tight chest, some definition in the arms, and good strong legs.
Jun 28 at 12:30pm
I prefer a little trim of the pubes but a natural chest and tummy. You really, really look great!!
Jun 29 at 9:39am
I think you look awesome guy
Jun 29 at 8:18pm
chest looks great! but what about the shaft and balls? we want pics.


Shared publicly - Jun 24 at 12:11pm
I need to work someone's nips and make them moan and squirm. It's my favorite thing.
Jun 24 at 12:55pm
Me please!!!
You do Me ,Il do You...
Jun 24 at 2:15pm
That's my most sensitive part of my body, I moan a lot when someone suck my nipple and play with it
Jun 25 at 7:24am
Where do I get in line for my turn!
Jun 25 at 9:40am
Me, please!!!
Jun 27 at 9:38am
Where do I sign up?? I LOVE my nips worked over, and it get's awfully boring working them myself. Anytime you want to work over my nips, I'm ALL for it. :-)


Shared publicly - Jun 24 at 7:25am
It's chest day, y'all! ;)
Jun 24 at 7:44am
...and what a very SEXY HOT chest it is bro!

Jun 24 at 7:44am
;) i agree.
Jun 24 at 7:52am
Cool ,I like looking at yours..
Jun 24 at 9:12am
I'd like to work your chest out for you...........:-)
I need my pecs and nips worked over for sure.
Jun 24 at 9:16am
I'm just the man for it..... cardio and upper body today, light workout,shoulder still giving me issues if I go to heavy with it.
Jun 24 at 9:16am
I would be honored to do that for you.
Jun 24 at 10:07am
if i had a chest like yours.i would go shirtless today for shirtless day.
Jun 24 at 10:38am
And you've got one hellofa sexy chest!!


Shared publicly - Jun 20 at 5:56pm
Jun 20 at 6:05pm
love amateurs, too! Heck, I am one!
Jun 21 at 1:56am
Love this video!
Jun 21 at 10:06pm
I'm on a huge bait buddies kick. Love that stuff.
Jun 21 at 10:56pm
understand that "kick"------hot stuff from any perspective!

Profile Comments


May 25 at 1:25pm
why are you using craiglist to get sex?


May 20 at 10:36pm
Thanks for the add!


May 20 at 2:12am
Thanks for adding me!


May 10 at 11:38am
Thank you for the profile visit and the friend request!


Mar 6 at 12:26am
Thanks for posting the newest pics. You look great! Your workouts have really paid off!


Feb 15 at 6:45pm
Hey You... Yes You... I got a nice Valentines Day treat for you that your just going to love so why don't you cum and lick and eat it till you get to the juicy center and rim it real good and while your doing that I'll suck on your manhood lollipop and then we can switch postions I'm sure you'll enjoy it and so will I, but you know since both our asses are all moist and prepped let's also fuck our brains out while were at it too now wouldn't that be great... Happy Valentines Day :)


Feb 9 at 9:35am
looking good man...


Feb 8 at 8:58pm
Don't let the fear of zombies ruin a good time! Apocalypse my ass, these boys STILL take it! Have a great day!


Feb 8 at 11:31am


Feb 4 at 8:12pm
Good luck man but you are in a tough spot. My advice is have sex with a woman ASAP. You need to know what it is like. Doesn't matter who. Even pay for it if you have to. You need to know.