jamesbi1983 About


Hi, I'm a 31 year old bi guy looking for advice in this split personality/lifestyle as well as work out tips too. I don't know why it's hard for people to understand that guys (or girls) can be bisexual. I would bet that very few people are 100% gay or straight. No need for labels, we all like what we like. And how do you define sexuality anyway? Is it who you love? Or who you are sexually attracted to? Or who you have sex with? Well, my answers to those questions would be straight, bi, and gay, respectively. I have never had sex with a woman, this is true; I have had sex with men. I have been in love with women, but not men. I desire and appreciate attractive people of both genders physically and sexually. I want to marry a woman and live a straight life, and this is not because society says so, this is what I know I want. When I think about my future this is all I see. So then why am I not dating women and having sex with women? Where to begin...social anxiety disorder, lack of confidence, shyness, being in love with a girl I can't have and being a one-woman kind of man; the list goes on. I'm trying to figure myself out because I want to be able to be happy. Any advice you can give me about achieving this would be greatly appreciated. And I'd love to put on some muscle which can only help me out with this stuff ;) so any tips there would be awesome too!


Basic Information

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Sexual positionTop / Giver
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeAthletic
Height6' 0"
Weight183 lbs
EducationGrad / professional school
ChildrenSome day


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Sep 21 at 10:44am
Updated profile.


Shared publicly - Sep 21 at 10:43am
My nips are so hard, I need to fuck something. Any takers?
Sep 21 at 11:07am
would be pleased to lick suck bite those hard nips while my legs are wrapped around you!
Sep 21 at 12:06pm
U in cali? Bay area?
Sep 21 at 12:22pm
Easy to see that I am not.
Sep 21 at 1:15pm
Oh yeah, I wish I was closer, I would love to bend over for you
Sep 21 at 4:46pm
you can fuck me anytime you want james
Sep 21 at 6:31pm
And.....I need to be around there!
Sep 21 at 6:58pm
Me, me, me!
Sep 21 at 9:02pm
I'm in line...
Sep 22 at 4:51am
a few times a day??? I'm in!


Shared publicly - Sep 18 at 10:08pm
I'm just gonna leave this right here. https://goodmenproject.com/gender-sexuality/the...


Shared publicly - Sep 16 at 7:57am
I slept naked for the first time last night and it felt SEXY!
Would have loved to join you.
I sleep that way every nite and it does feel sexy :)
Well Hell... I should of been there naked with you

sleeping nude, for me, is the only way! it does feel sexy. but then again, i'm usually nude when i'm home alone!
Always. Unless it gets too cold in the winter.
I have always slept naked since I was 18 --- plus have always been naked anywhere anytime I can get away with it. I hate wearing clothes . Being naked just feels so good.
For sure. Here too. Naked Friday!
I've slept naked since I was 11. I cannot imagine wearing clothes (pajamas or even underwear) to bed. I guess it is whatever you're used to.
Slept naked since entering college. Best way to sleep. Think of all the money you save pen pj's and laundry.
Oh been doing that since high school!!! Love it!!! And recently there has been studies done that showed men should sleep naked!!
james - such a hot looking guy! you've started a maelstrom of feelings toward being nude! remember - the body (especially the male body) is a thing of beauty to be shared/enjoyed by all! enjoy being naked as much as possible! i may be older and far from as sexy as you, but i (and several others) still find my nakedness exciting. so please - learn to revel in your nudity!!!
Very well put. Totally agree.
I've started sleeping naked. I've read reports that says you actually sleep better naked.
Would have felt better if I was sleeping naked next to you!
Sep 16 at 5:59pm
we should make that happen
Sep 16 at 2:12pm
Unless it's really cold, I always sleep nude. Easier to get to your cock, too! :-)
Sleeping nude is the best. It is sexy and the way the sheets hit areas of the body can be quite arousing
Sep 17 at 7:12am
wish I was there next to you stud
Sep 17 at 7:52am
And you are.
Sep 17 at 1:35pm
I love sleeping naked I do that evey night :-)
I've slept naked since I was about 17. It's wonderful.
Best way to sleep!
Sep 22 at 12:06am
how was it


Shared publicly - Sep 10 at 10:31am
Call me crazy but in videos on here and in porn, I like to see people fucking, bodies fucking, not just a cock going into a hole close up.
So, you're crazy. Me too. My passions are arms and dicks and I love to concentrate on them in videos. I have no idea why those body parts drive me wild but I don't care. Up the ass might be a gas, but not for me. relax.
I'm with you on that!!!
I agree

Like to hear guys

See faces
Me too. From beginning-kissing, making out, fondling, foreplay, etc. Lead me into it....
Sep 10 at 10:33pm
I also agree!!
Sep 11 at 2:06am
I agree totally.

Profile Comments


Sep 21 at 11:50pm
Hope your enjoying these last few days of Summer and as we approach Autumn you can still get outside and enjoy some sucking and fucking in the good old outdoors... till Winter sets in... but then again when did the cold ever stop a horny man :)


Sep 10 at 11:17am
great pics...thanks for the add!


Sep 5 at 9:38am
Thank you for visiting my profile, I appreciate you taking your time. I hope that you are doing well and that the rest of your week goes well. Hugs, Chris


Aug 9 at 4:39pm
Thanks for the add, stud!!!!!!


Apr 17 at 10:12am
Have a Sexy Sunday.............................