jamesbi1983 About


Hi, I'm a 33 year old bi guy looking for advice in this split personality/lifestyle as well as work out tips too. I don't know why it's hard for people to understand that guys (or girls) can be bisexual. I would bet that very few people are 100% gay or straight. No need for labels, we all like what we like. And how do you define sexuality anyway? Is it who you love? Or who you are sexually attracted to? Or who you have sex with? Well, my answers to those questions would be straight, bi, and gay, respectively. I have never had sex with a woman, this is true; I have had sex with men. I have been in love with women, but not men. I desire and appreciate attractive people of both genders physically and sexually. I want to marry a woman and live a straight life, and this is not because society says so, this is what I know I want. When I think about my future this is all I see. So then why am I not dating women and having sex with women? Where to begin...social anxiety disorder, lack of confidence, shyness, being in love with a girl I can't have and being a one-woman kind of man; the list goes on. I'm trying to figure myself out because I want to be able to be happy. Any advice you can give me about achieving this would be greatly appreciated. And I'd love to put on some muscle which can only help me out with this stuff ;) so any tips there would be awesome too!


Basic Information

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Sexual positionTop / Giver
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeAthletic
Height6' 0"
Weight191 lbs
EducationGrad / professional school
ChildrenSome day


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Shared publicly - Feb 19 at 6:49pm
My physical goal is to be built like one of those bobsled studs.
As a fitness pro I feel you need to take a better look at yourself in the mirror, because you already are. "We are our own worst judge of what we look like after all."
I'm in decent athletic shape but i would love to have built solid arms and legs like they do, they are broad and strong, shoulders and chest. I have some muscle but i am much more lanky compared to their stocky builds.
Feb 20 at 12:42pm
If you work hard for it up to 1 1/2 hours daily, 6 days a week. YOU can accomplish that image in 7 months. Just remember a good healthy daily diet is just as important to reach that... GOAL!
Doing the best i can.
Feb 20 at 1:05pm
Never give up! If you ever need advice of a fitness professional your more than welcome to message me. Butt don't be an askhole with me. Which is someone whom ask for advice and never follows through. Yet whines about it without even trying. I cannot stand that, its a waste of my time of free advice.
yes and yes. beef personified.
Feb 20 at 7:23pm
Your profile pic is already yummy. 😋. I would love to ride it anytime.


Shared publicly - Feb 13 at 1:42pm
Damn I'm admiring all these Olympic bulges and THICCCCCK thighs.
oooh did you see the men's speed skaters?

Feb 13 at 8:27pm
Yes just watched Kjeld Nuis OMG is he hot with his beard and guns!
Feb 13 at 10:25pm
Joey Mantia's Instagram is full of his thick thighs. His cosmo video where he takes his pants off is hot as hell too.
Those hung Dutch tho...
Feb 20 at 10:31am
Seen any pics?
Feb 20 at 12:20pm
just their bulges in their tight suits
Feb 20 at 12:27pm
Dutch dudes are always hot
Feb 20 at 6:03pm
Starting to notice the bulges, eh?


Shared publicly - Jan 25 at 11:02am


And it goes both ways, y'all.

"Perhaps if we had an approach to sex and sexuality that didn’t revolve around the idea of sex as a simple, nuts and bolts interaction of parts—and rather a view in which sexuality is a deep and intimate interaction between people, and in which sex is an act of giving or receiving physical pleasure—we wouldn’t need the ‘straight’, ‘gay’, ‘bisexual’ labels anymore.
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Jan 25 at 1:20pm
I agree. Wanna fuck! Lol.
I've always thought that. If 2 guys are close, best friends, why is do bad to pleasure each other? I want to suck my best friend's cock so bad but of course he has no idea and I could never dare tell him.
Feb 11 at 3:27pm
Know the feeling. Hard to try and have a guy friend without expecting more.


Shared publicly - Jan 24 at 4:39pm
I miss my best friend.
Jan 24 at 7:35pm
Sorry to hear it! :-(
Jan 24 at 9:59pm
Jan 24 at 11:09pm
I'm sorry. I know how that feels.
Jan 25 at 6:46pm
I miss my best friend too.


Shared publicly - Jan 1 at 6:37pm
I need to get me some Baker Mayfield arms.
I need to get me some Baker Mayfield......
Jan 2 at 3:16am
lol i'm sorry man i didnt see your post until after i posted mine
Jan 2 at 3:15am
i need to get me some baker mayfield. ;) lol
Jan 2 at 8:36am
I bet he’s good in bed! He probably has lots of experience. 😊
Jan 2 at 11:44am
Yes, college girls love masculine manly muscular jock white boys, trust me I know.

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Nov 8 2017 at 12:44am
I'm in the mood for some of this & some of that... and I'm versatile too :)


Sep 5 2017 at 1:07am
Have a Great Holiday Weekend... Be safe, Have fun, & Relax :)


Aug 31 2017 at 12:21pm
I'm ready for you... So what position do you want Top or Bottom? :)