jamesbi1983 About


Hi, I'm a 31 year old bi guy looking for advice in this split personality/lifestyle as well as work out tips too. I don't know why it's hard for people to understand that guys (or girls) can be bisexual. I would bet that very few people are 100% gay or straight. No need for labels, we all like what we like. And how do you define sexuality anyway? Is it who you love? Or who you are sexually attracted to? Or who you have sex with? Well, my answers to those questions would be straight, bi, and gay, respectively. I have never had sex with a woman, this is true; I have had sex with men. I have been in love with women, but not men. I desire and appreciate attractive people of both genders physically and sexually. I want to marry a woman and live a straight life, and this is not because society says so, this is what I know I want. When I think about my future this is all I see. So then why am I not dating women and having sex with women? Where to begin...social anxiety disorder, lack of confidence, shyness, being in love with a girl I can't have and being a one-woman kind of man; the list goes on. I'm trying to figure myself out because I want to be able to be happy. Any advice you can give me about achieving this would be greatly appreciated. And I'd love to put on some muscle which can only help me out with this stuff ;) so any tips there would be awesome too!


Basic Information

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Sexual positionTop / Giver
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeAthletic
Height6' 0"
Weight193 lbs
EducationGrad / professional school
ChildrenSome day


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Shared publicly - May 5 at 10:50am
Thinking about manscaping a little. Might leave the chest furry as is, but then trim the bush back and shave the shaft and balls. Maybe I'll post more pics. ;)
May 5 at 11:05am
The hairier the better - but that's just my opinion.
May 5 at 11:28am
Looking forward to seeing that...
May 5 at 1:22pm
love the furry chest
May 5 at 2:19pm
Love to see the pics
May 5 at 2:42pm
i think you should only do lite trimming.some hair can be extremely sexy :- )
Light trim , then find me to approve an suck that clean massive meat ..
May 5 at 8:53pm
I like the chest just like it is.... for the pubes... i do like trimmed and shaved balls and shaft too... Wished I were there to help ya out .... just be warned, about 2 1/2 -3 weeks... will itch like crazy, just keep'em shaved to avoid that
May 6 at 6:34am
I am in the same mood today. Just a little clean up for the weekend.


Shared publicly - Apr 23 at 10:15am
I haven't had sex since September--wish I had a relationship or at least a sexy time friend!
Apr 23 at 10:19am
Don't feel alone there ,your not the only one im sure.
Apr 23 at 10:20am
You my man need to get laid

Apr 23 at 10:20am
We all Do !!
Dang stud , thats bad. You just need to cum move to Ky. and let me take care of ALL your sexual needs.
I'd be very happy to have some naked fun with you :-)
Apr 23 at 10:50am
Um hello here I am !
Apr 23 at 11:01am
September for me too
Apr 23 at 11:05am
That's when my b/d is ,would be a great gift.
Apr 23 at 11:10am
I wish you lived closer
Apr 23 at 12:06pm
I'd sure enjoy a nice guy like you. Hang in there.
I'm not far away man
Apr 23 at 5:19pm
I hear ya there bud
Apr 23 at 8:37pm
i know how ya feel its been well over 3 years for me
Apr 23 at 8:59pm
Don't feel bad going on yrs here. Wish I could assist you with your problem.
Hang in there dude.. you are not the only one. Hopefully there will be someone close by you that would help you out. If i was close i would help you out and I'm sure any of us would.
Apr 25 at 12:55pm
Why not, Too picky? waiting for Mr. Right?
Nobody quality I can trust and connect with sensually how I like to do. I don't just want to fuck. I would be open to sex just for sex if I had that type of friend, guy or girl, but also looking to be in a relationship long-term and make love to my future wife.
Apr 26 at 11:30pm
Me me me!


Shared publicly - Apr 15 at 10:23am
Wow--near the top of the popular list--out of the whole, entire world? That's insane!
Not at all surprising though--you sexy stud!
that's awesome man.
Apr 15 at 2:27pm
If u got it (and u do!), u got it!
You are looking so good bud. Keep up the great work.
Apr 19 at 6:02pm
James I remember when you started working out and dude you are amazing now. Keep it up.
Apr 20 at 10:14am
your dick brought all the boys to the screen an you were like I own this bitches be jealous I am james big dick daddy lol..


Shared publicly - Apr 14 at 7:48am
Glad you guys like my pics--thanks for all the compliments and kind words!
Apr 14 at 8:19am
like ALL the pics you post, just try not to flood with notifications. And yes you have made amazing progress!
Apr 14 at 8:31am
You're looking GOOOOOD!


Shared publicly - Apr 13 at 3:48pm
Always the dick pic that gets the most likes and comments! That's the one part of me I have no control over! Hopefully my workout progress is admirable as well.
Apr 13 at 4:29pm
I like all your pics. Very sexy.
We're men and men can be pigs at times, haha -- so it's no surprise that your dick pic got the most attention (and not to be a hypocrite, but it certainly elicited a "like" from me, too). That said, be sure that the rest of your body is equally attractive and desirable! I know I always have to wipe the drool from my chin when I view your photos.
Apr 13 at 5:39pm
You are lookin great bud. Keep up the awesome job.
Apr 13 at 6:58pm
It's a nice dick...the body is pretty bangin' as well. :)
Apr 13 at 8:50pm
Completely agree with Dan-I-Am....once the pic previews loaded...my eyes went right toward one specific pick...and I clicked and wow...really you have quite an impressive dick bud....
Apr 13 at 8:35pm
I liked both bod and cock
Apr 13 at 9:29pm
You're a stud!
Apr 14 at 7:31am
I just love to look at a man's body

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Apr 17 at 10:12am
Have a Sexy Sunday.............................


Mar 30 at 12:48pm
Are you ready for Easter Bunny to bring you an Easter basket full of goodies? I am and do you want to know what kind of Easter basket I really want??? It's that beef stick and Easter eggs that's between your legs and I just love that kind of Easter treats as I know you do too cus I got some of that for you too... Happy Easter :)


Jan 25 at 12:31am
More pictures please. We need to see more of your sexy self.


Jan 12 at 2:50am
You're a stud. Would like to met you.


Jan 2 at 2:27pm
Sending you some Christmas Holiday Season Greetings and wishing you the best in coming 2016 New Year :)


Dec 15 2015 at 6:47pm
I agree with you. Like his policies or not, he's hot ;-)


Dec 13 2015 at 3:47pm
I too am in the same boat. Enjoy having sex with both, but romantically inclined towards women. I found the term Heteroromantic Bisexual, and it pretty much explained it to me.



Nov 12 2015 at 11:34am
HOT pics