jamesbi1983 About


Hi, I'm a 31 year old bi guy looking for advice in this split personality/lifestyle as well as work out tips too. I don't know why it's hard for people to understand that guys (or girls) can be bisexual. I would bet that very few people are 100% gay or straight. No need for labels, we all like what we like. And how do you define sexuality anyway? Is it who you love? Or who you are sexually attracted to? Or who you have sex with? Well, my answers to those questions would be straight, bi, and gay, respectively. I have never had sex with a woman, this is true; I have had sex with men. I have been in love with women, but not men. I desire and appreciate attractive people of both genders physically and sexually. I want to marry a woman and live a straight life, and this is not because society says so, this is what I know I want. When I think about my future this is all I see. So then why am I not dating women and having sex with women? Where to begin...social anxiety disorder, lack of confidence, shyness, being in love with a girl I can't have and being a one-woman kind of man; the list goes on. I'm trying to figure myself out because I want to be able to be happy. Any advice you can give me about achieving this would be greatly appreciated. And I'd love to put on some muscle which can only help me out with this stuff ;) so any tips there would be awesome too!


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Sexual positionTop / Giver
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeAthletic
Height6' 0"
Weight194 lbs
EducationGrad / professional school
ChildrenSome day


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Shared publicly - Apr 13 at 6:27pm
It's always the naked pics that get all the likes and comments, as if gay dudes only like cock and nudity or something.
So u always looks for the non-naked face pic before looking at the naked body pics? ;-) Seriously, I do not stop at solely the naked/semi naked pics, I do also look to see if the is at least a face pic. Clothed pics can be just as sexy as naked pics at times and a sweet smile and awesome eyes will do it for me almost as much as the dick pic. Not sure I've seen a fully clothed pic and or face pic of u? ;-)
Well that's all nice,and good...,BUT I like to see the whole pack...face,body...it take more then just cock for me....and any body who knews me knows that.
I'm simply saying that when I post a series of pics, g-rated and x-rated, the naughty pics get the comments and likes.
But let's be honest, a big part of homosexuality is sex-focused.
I good part of MEN...because not all men on here are out...some are gay not out,some are bi/married not out...that could be part of why not a lot of face pics....That's what I have found over the yrs.talking to guys.
Everything about gay pride is so highly sexualized and there's so much hooking up and whatnot, so clearly it's a huge focus.
When a young guy posts he is having a hard time, the older guys always jump right up to offer "support".

It's all about dick.
That's because they have been there once too.
So, I guess the first question would be the age range that u are referring to as 'older guys'? ;-) In general, I can't agree that it is all about the dick, because it's not. Ya there are some guys, young and old, that turn any opportunity into a sex moment, but most don't, especially with someone that is having a problem that sex is the last thing that should be brought into the equation.

That said, does anyone on here honestly think that the original purpose of this site was anything other
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I don't care only for nudes. Sure I will comment on nudes and guys with a great looking cock, but I still give comments to guys that are simply shirtless or are attractive. hehe
I've notice that when I join up a long time ago and the same thing happens to me but that's alright I'll post naked pictures and picture of me with clothes on or just my face picture it just depends on my mood at the time I'm updating my profile page :)
Very true statement.. I have a couple of nudes unlocked and the rest are normal ones.. take a guess on which gets more attention.
I like both I like seeing cock but also I like seeing other parts of a mans body his face, his chest that what turns me on more than a cock pic
That's what happens when guys use headless torsos, dicks, and asses as their defaults. :)

The horny freaks pounce!
i would agree. as much as i like sucking cock i also like sitting around the camp fire with friends, a few beers, and listening to the red sox winning games.
i like personality and guys' minds too, they just never post pics of those. :p
Some of my favorite shots are guys in their well-worn faded jeans :) guys are attracted to nudity tho ;)
Altho pics of guys "relaxed" are incredibly fascinating,the shapes and size and shape of relaxed penis varies soo much


Shared publicly - Apr 12 at 12:30pm
I shouldn't have trimmed but it will grow back.
I'm sure you're talking about hair. Foreskin almost NEVER grows back. ;-)
Apr 12 at 12:53pm
You still look sexy as hell! ;-P
looks great !! a change every once in a while is good
If you're like me I hate it because I itch like crazy
Apr 12 at 3:01pm
Only if u don't keep up with it. ;-)
When it first starts to grow back is the worst! Looks good though.
I prefer trimmed bushes. I hate picking hairs out of my mouth. The pic looks great.


Apr 12 at 9:03am
Posted photos ...


Shared publicly - Apr 12 at 7:45am
Nobody wants my 3 day load?
Apr 12 at 7:48am
Mmmmmm I do stud!!!
Apr 12 at 7:50am
I'll take your hot creamy load as many as you can feed me
Apr 12 at 7:51am
i would love to have your load
Apr 12 at 8:00am
Il sure take it.....
Apr 12 at 8:06am
Oh hell ya! ;-P
Apr 12 at 8:09am
if I was near I'd sure love some
If you were to go camping with us next weekend we'd keep you well drained
I want your load bad sexy
Apr 12 at 10:03am
I'd take your load any day
Apr 12 at 11:02am
I will take it everyday
Apr 12 at 2:01pm
mmm so far away ;( you are a hot man !
If you were closer stud...
i'd love to take your 3day load. as would half this website I imagine :)
Apr 13 at 9:29am
I would love a 3 day load squirted all over my face and in my mouth
Apr 15 at 9:16pm
I want it !!!!
Apr 16 at 1:52am
Wish u were near me


Shared publicly - Apr 9 at 8:02am
As much as I love chest day at the gym, my favorite day is the day after chest day. Love that pec soreness!
Apr 9 at 8:47am
That's the day u need a nice deep massage. ;-)

Profile Comments


Mar 22 at 9:37am
Thanks for the add!!


Mar 6 at 12:26am
Thanks for posting the newest pics. You look great! Your workouts have really paid off!


Feb 15 at 6:45pm
Hey You... Yes You... I got a nice Valentines Day treat for you that your just going to love so why don't you cum and lick and eat it till you get to the juicy center and rim it real good and while your doing that I'll suck on your manhood lollipop and then we can switch postions I'm sure you'll enjoy it and so will I, but you know since both our asses are all moist and prepped let's also fuck our brains out while were at it too now wouldn't that be great... Happy Valentines Day :)


Feb 14 at 2:29pm
Thank you for viewing my profile, I appreciate you taking your time. I hope that you are doing well and that life is treating you great.

Hugs + Tugs | Chris


Feb 9 at 9:35am
looking good man...


Feb 8 at 8:58pm
Don't let the fear of zombies ruin a good time! Apocalypse my ass, these boys STILL take it! Have a great day!


Feb 8 at 11:31am


Feb 4 at 8:12pm
Good luck man but you are in a tough spot. My advice is have sex with a woman ASAP. You need to know what it is like. Doesn't matter who. Even pay for it if you have to. You need to know.


Jan 22 at 9:33am
Great profile. Good luck with finding what it will take you to be happy. It might be closer than you think. You have a great perspective.


Dec 23 2014 at 10:45am
Happy to add you as a friend...thank you for sending the request...and you already look great ...anxious to follow your development...