jamesbi1983 About


Hi, I'm a 33 year old bi guy looking for advice in this split personality/lifestyle as well as work out tips too. I don't know why it's hard for people to understand that guys (or girls) can be bisexual. I would bet that very few people are 100% gay or straight. No need for labels, we all like what we like. And how do you define sexuality anyway? Is it who you love? Or who you are sexually attracted to? Or who you have sex with? Well, my answers to those questions would be straight, bi, and gay, respectively. I have never had sex with a woman, this is true; I have had sex with men. I have been in love with women, but not men. I desire and appreciate attractive people of both genders physically and sexually. I want to marry a woman and live a straight life, and this is not because society says so, this is what I know I want. When I think about my future this is all I see. So then why am I not dating women and having sex with women? Where to begin...social anxiety disorder, lack of confidence, shyness, being in love with a girl I can't have and being a one-woman kind of man; the list goes on. I'm trying to figure myself out because I want to be able to be happy. Any advice you can give me about achieving this would be greatly appreciated. And I'd love to put on some muscle which can only help me out with this stuff ;) so any tips there would be awesome too!


Basic Information

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Sexual positionTop / Giver
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeAthletic
Height6' 0"
Weight191 lbs
EducationGrad / professional school
ChildrenSome day


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Shared publicly - Jan 15 at 8:42am
I haven't cum in 3 days. Will see if someone wants to take care of my full balls or if I just have to jerk off again, like always. ;)
I'd take care of those swollen balls.
If there, id gladly drink ur spermies.
Why is it that all the guys needin bj are 100's miles away!
I'll help!!!!!!!!!
would love to be of service
Love cum filled balls to play with
Jan 15 at 10:55am
dang, on my way man!
Jan 15 at 11:38am
I wish I could take care of that.
This sounds like ass and mouth repetition is needed.....I'm in
Jan 15 at 2:11pm
You are such a tease, sometimes you need not look past your own backyard for a willing volunteer.
Jan 16 at 1:24am
if it needs to please, it needs a good tease, honey
What I wouldn't give to suck your beautiful cock..
Jan 16 at 1:25am
i'd give him some movie passes and dinner, actually .. hope he gimme his big cock in return for those movie passes and dinner so i can have .. DESSERT, eh?
Jan 16 at 1:42am
Damn! If I was anywhere near you, and you were interested...you'd always have a place to dump those big, thick loads.
I wish I was closer, I would love to take care of your beautiful cock and balls
Jan 17 at 3:46pm
oh yeah I'd love to take care of you if I were nearby sir.
Jan 17 at 4:53pm
I would have loved to have helped out!!


Shared publicly - Dec 31 2016 at 10:46am
Zero sex in 2016 :( but the year isn't over yet! ;)
Dec 31 2016 at 10:47am
Well I wish you luck,i wish I could be there.
Dec 31 2016 at 10:56am
Milwaukee's not too far stud
Dec 31 2016 at 10:58am
That's true!
Dec 31 2016 at 11:34am
THAT is absolutely ridiculous. I can't even wrap my head around it.
Dec 31 2016 at 11:35am
What do you mean?
Dec 31 2016 at 11:36am
You're extremely sexy, you should be having tons of sex
Dec 31 2016 at 11:37am
Dang...come to Texas!
Dec 31 2016 at 12:58pm
0 sex of any kind in 2016 and 2015,
Dec 31 2016 at 7:20pm
So you are either going to join the Priesthood, or become a "born again virgin?"
Jan 1 at 2:33am
I wish you all the best...I know you can have sex if that is all you wanted.
It's true, I'm not saying I haven't had any offers. It's just never been an offer I felt like taking them up on, and I guess that says I need more than just sex. But sometimes JUST sex is pretty damn fun too.
Jan 1 at 7:56am
I should come visit
Well just to update, it stayed zero sex in 2016. My NYE party did NOT turn into one big sexy orgy LOL.
Jan 2 at 9:46am
that because you didn't invite us
Jan 2 at 1:42pm
stop by antytime.. i can fix that


Shared publicly - Dec 28 2016 at 11:17am
I see all these body types and roles--bears, cubs, twinks, otters, wolves, daddies, sons, etc.--but I have no idea what I am. What do you think my label is?
Dec 28 2016 at 11:41am
Sexy! ;)
You are perfectly YOU.

You don't need to be defined by any "role."

Labels are for soup cans you my man is a hot and sexy guy

Dec 28 2016 at 6:14pm
Your label is "I want to suck you off." :D
Dec 29 2016 at 8:24am
I don't like labels myself. Labels belong on closes not people. You might be into a variety of things so placing yourself in one category or under one label limits your options. I tell people I am like the guy next door, that is if you happen to live next door to an amusment park! lol
Dec 29 2016 at 9:18am
You're a sexy otter, one of my personal favs!
Dec 29 2016 at 9:21am
the only label you need is sensual and sexy man ready for a good relationship.
Dec 29 2016 at 12:01pm
Too many labels anymore. Just be yourself.
Dec 29 2016 at 3:21pm
You'll never fit into a label due to the narrow definition of each. If I were to assume a label for you, it would be Bear. I could go into my definition of what a Bear is to me but I will spare you. Haha! To me though the only true labels are the ones you put yourself in. :)
Dec 30 2016 at 6:30pm
I'm a bear?!?!
Dec 31 2016 at 1:17am
More of a cub than a bear.
Dec 31 2016 at 7:24am
Aren't cubs and bears built a little bigger? Just age determines bear or cub? I know i'm not skinny enough to be an otter, but I hope i'm not chubby.
Dec 31 2016 at 12:30pm
My understanding of a cub is a younger hairy guy. I don't think bears are necessarily big. They are very hairy.
Dec 31 2016 at 4:07pm
I thought bears were usually thicker while an otter is skinnier. I don't think I'm super hairy either, compared to some men.
Dec 31 2016 at 5:29pm
Ah, but you've got some nice, sexy fur.
Dec 30 2016 at 12:18pm
Very HOT!!!


Shared publicly - Dec 27 2016 at 10:58am
I wish people would post more pics of soft cock. I think it's really hot.
Dec 27 2016 at 10:59am
I wish the same thing
Dec 27 2016 at 11:20am
same with me
Dec 27 2016 at 11:26am
i agree, and I think only Men can appreciate that as well.
Dec 27 2016 at 11:28am
that's so true
Dec 27 2016 at 11:51am
Yes, I think so too. It's so sexy and sensual
Dec 27 2016 at 11:57am
Mmmm Yes it is!!!
Dec 27 2016 at 12:40pm
Check out my newest photo!
Dec 27 2016 at 12:47pm
I agree! That's probably my biggest turn on!
Dec 28 2016 at 1:38am
heres one for you getting ready to jack off
Jan 2 at 1:47pm
Posted one just for you.


Shared publicly - Dec 24 2016 at 8:53am
LOVE a great set of nips, guys or gals, doesn't matter! ;)
ME TOO. But on guys!!!!!
Mine always need working on!
Dec 25 2016 at 8:38am
Yours are the best

Profile Comments


Jan 18 at 3:17pm
Thanks for accepting sexy guy!! woof!


Jan 18 at 12:19pm
Hot build and a great cock man! Would love to add you to my friends list sexy guy ;-)


Dec 28 2016 at 12:54pm
I'm verstile and you sure do have a nice cock and I'd give it a good ride :)


Dec 24 2016 at 10:28am
I love you merry Christmas darling


Dec 13 2016 at 1:26pm
I'm ready for you... So what position do you want Top or Bottom? ;)


Dec 8 2016 at 5:13pm
Glad to have you as a new Friend!!!


Sep 21 2016 at 11:50pm
Hope your enjoying these last few days of Summer and as we approach Autumn you can still get outside and enjoy some sucking and fucking in the good old outdoors... till Winter sets in... but then again when did the cold ever stop a horny man :)


Sep 5 2016 at 9:38am
Thank you for visiting my profile, I appreciate you taking your time. I hope that you are doing well and that the rest of your week goes well. Hugs, Chris


Aug 9 2016 at 4:39pm
Thanks for the add, stud!!!!!!