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Hi, I'm a 33 year old bi guy looking for advice in this split personality/lifestyle as well as work out tips too. I don't know why it's hard for people to understand that guys (or girls) can be bisexual. I would bet that very few people are 100% gay or straight. No need for labels, we all like what we like. And how do you define sexuality anyway? Is it who you love? Or who you are sexually attracted to? Or who you have sex with? Well, my answers to those questions would be straight, bi, and gay, respectively. I have never had sex with a woman, this is true; I have had sex with men. I have been in love with women, but not men. I desire and appreciate attractive people of both genders physically and sexually. I want to marry a woman and live a straight life, and this is not because society says so, this is what I know I want. When I think about my future this is all I see. So then why am I not dating women and having sex with women? Where to begin...social anxiety disorder, lack of confidence, shyness, being in love with a girl I can't have and being a one-woman kind of man; the list goes on. I'm trying to figure myself out because I want to be able to be happy. Any advice you can give me about achieving this would be greatly appreciated. And I'd love to put on some muscle which can only help me out with this stuff ;) so any tips there would be awesome too!


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Sexual positionTop / Giver
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeAthletic
Height6' 0"
Weight191 lbs
EducationGrad / professional school
ChildrenSome day


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Shared publicly - Mar 31 at 11:16am
Has anyone every gotten skin tags on their shaft? Medical professionals--is this normal? There is stuff online saying that it happens. I've never had it before but now I have 3 pretty close together. Is it from rubbing (masturbating) too much? I haven't had sex in months so I doubt it is anything STI-related, but those don't always come up right away. I used a condom as always but this is low enough it could've been below the condom. The bumps are fleshy, they look just like skin, not red See more
They could be papules, which are just a skin condition that can appear in a small percentage of men randomly. If so they aren't transmittable or STI related, still its good you are having them checked to be sure. They can be removed.
Mar 31 at 3:17pm
I'm sure you're fine. Do you typically have dry skin?
why dont you actually go see a doctor?
Apr 1 at 12:34am
A dermatologist is a doctor. It's not causing any problems or pain. But it will be looked at to be sure.
Mar 31 at 3:55pm
sounds like skin tags, but who knows.. .yeah, let the dermatologist look at it when you go...
Mar 31 at 4:11pm
They could be skin tags which can appear on any part of your body. You do need to go see a dermatologist or urologist to know for sure.
Mar 31 at 4:18pm
If UR going to your dermatologist , then I don't think I would be putting anything on them until he can see them. You might possibly end up doing more harm than good if it does happen to be something else . Plus if it is that and they go away then he wont have anything to look at. And I think I'd rather have him see them to make sure its not something bad.
Mar 31 at 6:57pm
I can understand your apprehension about them. At least you will get to show your dick to a doctor. I would love to do that! I bet they are skin tags, though.
Apr 1 at 12:35am
Showing my PENIS to a DOCTOR is not a sexual, exciting thing.
Apr 1 at 3:51pm
Not even a little bit?
Apr 2 at 9:47am
No, because I'm a normal person.
I do like to show my cock when someone wants to see it. I guess I'm not normal...
Mar 31 at 7:03pm
Wait, you haven't had sex in months? Come to my city and I'll give you a long, slow blowjob you will never forget! Don't feel bad, though, I haven't had any sex in months, either.
Apr 2 at 9:07pm
i agree with John they are normal and i would say there are skin tag they can appear anywhere and i have a few burned off my self a few years ago and i got a few more. Just another thing we get as we get old.
Apr 4 at 10:42pm
yup, i had one on my balls a couple years ago it got ripped off by my swimsuit one day...ouchie!
Apr 5 at 9:22pm
I get mine from actually clothing seams that rub against my skin. Never had them where yours are located, but I have one on my nipple. I have had some removed, but would not suggest the same method of removal for either of ours located in more sensitive areas.
The skin tag remover I'm using does not specify any places where not to use it and it seems to be working. It is an "essential oil." I know the doctor will be able to recommend treatment or perform removal when I see him next week. For now they seem to be drying up slowly and shrinking--one is almost completely gone.
Apr 9 at 11:54am
There are several essential oils that can remove them. May take a week or so but you may possibly be rid of it before you see the doc.
Apr 9 at 12:59pm
I've been using it about 2 weeks and the smallest one has disappeared but the bottle itself says it may take "several" weeks
Apr 11 at 12:12pm
What essential oil are you using?
Apr 12 at 11:30am
It's called Provent Skin Tag Remover and it has Thuja Occidentalis, it gets so-so reviews, some it works quickly, some not at all, mine are working but slowly.


Shared publicly - Feb 17 at 11:51am
Hope you guys like my new pics!
Feb 17 at 1:04pm
I do
you get more and more sexy with every photo.
Feb 17 at 8:14pm
I like them very much!
Feb 17 at 10:02pm
and like you, they are beautiful. handsome? oh - heat creating!
Feb 20 at 7:20am
so awesome James
Feb 20 at 8:14pm
I can not believe your single!


Feb 17 at 11:48am
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Shared publicly - Feb 1 at 11:05am
I need to use my hard cock on someone. Now.
Wish you were here
Wish I was there, I'd definitely give up my ass!
you can use it on me
I'd love a little usage!
More than welcome to use it on me down my throat or up inside of my fuck hole anytime you want.. I have a nice hole that likes to start out dry or slightly lubed and get wetter as the fucking goes on. Then when you are completely satisfied make it even wetter as you explode your hot load of cum up inside of me. Cum pig here and lobe nice massive multiple loads from one guy or multiple. Ever in my area hit me up man
Chicago isn't too far ;-)


Shared publicly - Jan 29 at 4:14pm
Nothing would make me happier than to give someone an orgasm.
Have at it!!!! Ready here!
Jan 29 at 7:16pm
I am ready!
Jan 29 at 7:20pm
Whenever you get to Toronto I'd love to make very happy!! ;)

ps: I love to reciprocate!!!
well next time I am up their for a race it would be fun.
Nothing would make me happier than to have you orgasm up my ass. That would bring me to orgasm.
Jan 29 at 10:50pm
I would love for you to give me an orgasm, especially if it were with your lips.
Jan 30 at 3:10am
Let me work over your muscles, suck on your nips, eat your ass and swallow your cock. I'll be cumming the whole time!

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Sep 5 at 1:07am
Have a Great Holiday Weekend... Be safe, Have fun, & Relax :)


Aug 31 at 12:21pm
I'm ready for you... So what position do you want Top or Bottom? :)