My personal philosophy:
--Sing like nobody is listening
--Dance like nobody is watching
--Smile like you have a secret
--Kiss like you love the taste
--Love like you can't be hurt
--Fuck like you're being filmed
--Suck like you haven't eaten in a month
If you send me a "Friend" request before we have ever exchanged greetings or messages, I will decline. The status of "Friend" is for people I've already come to know, not for total strangers who have never interacted with me before.
I'm an educated, cultured and creative older guy who believes that a man's BRAIN is his biggest sex organ. So I rarely answer any message less than 5 words (show solid communication skills, spelling and grammar count!).
Professionally, I have been an actor, singer, violinist, community theatre manager and marketer of professional (architecture, planning, engineering, surveying, environmental and construction management) services (with a national certification). My friends often tell me that I'm a true "left brain/right brain" person.
I think redheads are the sexiest men around. I'm a sucker for a handsome redhead - literally!! But I'll also suck a blonde, a brunette, or a guy with a shaved head, and even some guys with grey or white hair. It's about the chemistry (but not about chemicals!).
If you want to know more than this, invite me out for coffee/conversation, or send me a message of more than 5 words (see above). One of my favorite passtimes is finding out what makes other men special.
By the way, if you have the balls to show your balls, please have the balls to show your face!