jamesbi1983 About

30 years old (Libra)
Milwaukee, Milwaukee County, Wisconsin, United States
Member since Jun 11 2008
Profile last updated Jul 16
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Hi, I'm a 30 year old bi guy looking for advice in this split personality/lifestyle as well as work out tips too. I don't know why it's hard for people to understand that guys (or girls) can be bisexual. I would bet that very few people are 100% gay or straight. No need for labels, we all like what we like. And how do you define sexuality anyway? Is it who you love? Or who you are sexually attracted to? Or who you have sex with? Well, my answers to those questions would be straight, bi, and gay, respectively. I have never had sex with a woman, this is true; I have had sex with men. I have been in love with women, but not men. I desire and appreciate attractive people of both genders physically and sexually. I want to marry a woman and live a straight life, and this is not because society says so, this is what I know I want. When I think about my future this is all I see. So then why am I not dating women and having sex with women? Where to begin...social anxiety disorder, lack of confidence, shyness, being in love with a girl I can't have and being a one-woman kind of man; the list goes on. I'm trying to figure myself out because I want to be able to be happy. Any advice you can give me about achieving this would be greatly appreciated. And I'd love to put on some muscle which can only help me out with this stuff ;) so any tips there would be awesome too!


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Sexual positionTop / Giver
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeAthletic
Weight180 lbs
EducationGrad / professional school
ChildrenSome day


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jamesbi1983 · Jul 22 at 7:04am
At some point maybe I will see enough progress from working out that I will want to post some more pics.
bigsexy2032 · Jul 23 at 2:57am
How long you been working out
jamesbi1983 · Jul 23 at 7:15am
a few years :(
jamesbi1983 · Jul 20 at 10:17am
To all my bi buds: I can find plenty of good sites of guys like seancody and theguysite, do you know of any similar sites with straight stuff or girls that are good? And before I get ridiculed by people who don't understand bi guys or think this isn't the place for such discussion, you don't have to comment on here, just feel free to email me. Thanks!
SwaGG · Jul 20 at 10:58am
tumblr ;p http://homofuck.tumblr.com likes to show it off, and one of the girls, albeit one of the gayelles... and kicks with the suicidegirl crowd... I think. 'course her tumblr is a mix of her art, selfies and otter shit.
allthetyme · Jul 20 at 10:03pm
You should try pornhub! Lots of updated stuff.
jamesbi1983 · Jul 16 at 10:52am
Updated profile.
jamesbi1983 · Jul 15 at 7:49am
I guess I should get off my lazy ass and get to the gym.
rhubarb · Jul 16 at 10:03am
So, did you go? I went to the gym this morning, but didn't have as much energy as usual. It felt like someone made the weights heavier than usual! Still, I did my circuit!
jamesbi1983 · Jul 16 at 10:06am
Went yesterday but not today.
jamesbi1983 · Jul 11 at 1:38pm
Guys who have been successful packing on muscle: please help me, I need to know what I should be doing to get results.
porkie- · Jul 13 at 5:04am
With your somatotype you should be able to bulk up, As Sport says heavy weights low reps but NOT TOO HEAVY - It's easy to overdo it when you are starting out and injuries will stop you exercising. Start off gently and then increase Think of starting on machines rather than jumping straight in with free weights (more built in safe guards) Don't take "steroids"! even when they help you to bulk up they change the way you look (not just your body shape) and who you are, plus too many health implications See more
TruckMan · Jul 13 at 10:54am
go back to the basics.. 4-5 sets of weights 4-5 days a week start with 13-15 reps of weight that you can do easily but not too light.. pyramid down the next set do 3 less reps, but ad 10 pounds , the next set lose three reps, but add 10 pounds.. muscle exhaustion builds muscle.arms, shoulders and chest..

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GoodGuy1985 · Jul 3 at 6:39pm
Thanks for the add Gorgeous.
---rvabear--- · Jul 3 at 4:21pm
Have a Happy and Safe 4th of July Holiday please don't drink an drive or text while driving
malNauburn · Jun 16 at 7:27am
Thanks! I look forward in getting to know you better. Keep in touch!
medicretired2010 · Jun 5 at 11:33am
Really like your new photo posts, I can see progress in definition. Keep at it.
---rvabear--- · May 25 at 3:31pm
remember why we can have a safe holiday
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Wilyum · May 2 at 10:57am
thanks for the add
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