jamesbi1983 About

30 years old (Libra)
Milwaukee, Milwaukee County, Wisconsin, United States
Member since Jun 11 2008
Last on Jul 27 at 10:19pm
Profile last updated Jul 23
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Hi, I'm a 30 year old bi guy looking for advice in this split personality/lifestyle as well as work out tips too. I don't know why it's hard for people to understand that guys (or girls) can be bisexual. I would bet that very few people are 100% gay or straight. No need for labels, we all like what we like. And how do you define sexuality anyway? Is it who you love? Or who you are sexually attracted to? Or who you have sex with? Well, my answers to those questions would be straight, bi, and gay, respectively. I have never had sex with a woman, this is true; I have had sex with men. I have been in love with women, but not men. I desire and appreciate attractive people of both genders physically and sexually. I want to marry a woman and live a straight life, and this is not because society says so, this is what I know I want. When I think about my future this is all I see. So then why am I not dating women and having sex with women? Where to begin...social anxiety disorder, lack of confidence, shyness, being in love with a girl I can't have and being a one-woman kind of man; the list goes on. I'm trying to figure myself out because I want to be able to be happy. Any advice you can give me about achieving this would be greatly appreciated. And I'd love to put on some muscle which can only help me out with this stuff ;) so any tips there would be awesome too!


Basic Information

Here forFriends
Sexual positionTop / Giver
EthnicityWhite / Caucasian
Body typeAthletic
Weight180 lbs
EducationGrad / professional school
ChildrenSome day


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jamesbi1983 · Jul 24 at 9:06am
I really hope I fill out like a grown man at some point. I need to figure out how to get bigger arms and broader shoulders. I hate looking like a skinny little boy. :(
Nihsvaarth · Jul 24 at 7:30pm
You have no reason to look down upon yourself.
JP53214 · Jul 26 at 4:26pm
You look filled out just fine to me :-)
jamesbi1983 · Jul 23 at 2:42pm
You guys are WAY too kind! I'm just an average regular guy but I'm glad you like my pics! Thank you for all the likes and comments!
biff48 · Jul 23 at 5:32pm
nothing average about you buddy!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mikesh12 · Jul 23 at 5:45pm
Thank you....:)...too bad your so far away.....
jamesbi1983 · Jul 23 at 12:13pm
Seems like you guys are enjoying my new pics just a little bit. ;)
rhubarb · Jul 23 at 12:40pm
You are looking mighty fine!
jamesbi1983 · Jul 23 at 11:04am
Posted photos ...
jamesbi1983 · Jul 23 at 10:02am
I'll be posting some new pics momentarily, including a new type ;)
jamesbi1983 · Jul 23 at 10:38am
Well ok i'll go ahead and post all of them :-)
UptownNola · Jul 23 at 12:04pm
Nice new pics. Keep up the good work!

Profile Comments

dc_latino18 · Jul 27 at 11:07am
thanks for the add sexy. great pics n vids. hot man
cohornyboy · Jul 24 at 10:09am
Thanks for the friend request! You are one hot stud!
Wilyum · Jul 23 at 11:17am
HOT pics and vids
Deviant_D · Jul 15 at 5:00pm
I have something for you that I know you'll love... my ass, my cock, a good rimming, and some great fucking action and I'm versatile too so that's even better for the both of us :)
GoodGuy1985 · Jul 3 at 6:39pm
Thanks for the add Gorgeous.
---rvabear--- · Jul 3 at 4:21pm
Have a Happy and Safe 4th of July Holiday please don't drink an drive or text while driving
malNauburn · Jun 16 at 7:27am
Thanks! I look forward in getting to know you better. Keep in touch!
medicretired2010 · Jun 5 at 11:33am
Really like your new photo posts, I can see progress in definition. Keep at it.
---rvabear--- · May 25 at 3:31pm
remember why we can have a safe holiday
Lucid731 · May 25 at 8:30am
You are a beautiful man! The perfect person is out there looking for you bud!