DaveIL About

I don't meet people on a regular basis. In fact, I haven't even been out on a date in many many years now. I'm not closeted but I do tend protect my personal life and emotions by being cautious of whom I meet and why I meet them.

If you want to meet me and I don't seem all that ambitious to meet you, please don't take it personal. I'm just used to being by myself and, even if it's just to meet as friends, I want to try to make sure it's not going to be a bad experience.

I think I develop good online friendships and it does scare me a bit to take it into real life. Once something moves from online to real life, its never the same... whether better or worse, its never the same.

When I get to know someone, whether just as a friend or more, I want to know all there is to know and want to share all I can about me as well. If you want a true friend or a true friend in a lover, I'm very worth getting to know.

If you just want sex, I used to say look elsewhere but that all depends on how I'm feeling. I have nothing against just sex but I still need to feel something for you.

I'm not an activist and have problems with people who make their sexuality some major cause. I respect others, even those whose opinions are different than mine. I have problems with the way some people push their agendas or causes because oddly, I'm able to see more than just one side of things. Not that all sides of an issue are right or appropriate, I'm just not closed off to the point that I can't see where others are coming from.

I don't like the words "Hot" or "Cute" or "Stud" but I'm sure I've used those words to describe someone. I just wish there were better words... maybe something that doesn't seem to cheapen the true thought behind the comment. I dunno, maybe I'm thinking too much into it?

My opinions are my own - Don't assume anything about them; don't try to validate your own opinions or views by discounting mine. It's plain and simple... It's what I am - that's it... nothing else.