DEA3872 About

I'm just a regular guy, honest and upfront. I have nothing to hide, as you see. In saying that, I have been HIV + for 11 yrs. now, undetectable. If thats a problem then move on, don't waste my time or yours. I am a recent cancer survivor as well! And I have other HIV-non-related health issues I deal with but I try not to let it all define who I am as a person. It's your choice how you choose to see me. You would be surprised at who I am on the inside, because although by nature we are attracted to another by first sight, it ultimately matters who one is on the inside, so character means a lot. If you'd like to talk or get to know me, just say Hi. My life has made me pause and stop to reflect on what is the most important things in life. And though I feel physical pain everyday, I am grateful for my life, when they say, "life isn't easy", it's true. But it's what you do with and in that life that matters the greatest. I've never had the best of luck in relationships. I'm a Pisces which makes me a lover of love, I wear my heart on my sleeve as well my heart is always open. Which isn't the best idea but I've always said, I would rather come to know love and be hurt by it than to never know love and not know what it feels like. I guess because I'm an old fashioned hopeless romantic I believe love is the post powerful energy in the universe. I like a man who likes being the Alpha. I've always felt comfortable with a man who likes to be the one in control, who is assertive, aggressive who knows what he wants and expects of me and takes it. And I am a chronic monogamist when I'm with someone, if I'm not enough or all that you want and need then we won't work out. I'm easy going and usually will just go with the flow, if you want to call me being submissive or a follower, I am perfectly content in being that for that special man. But I will express myself and have no problem giving you a piece of my mind. And when I am with a man I give my all to him because for me there is no greater way to express ones love for another than to show him the amount of love I have for him. Some guys just aren't able to handle having someone love them unconditionally. But it has always come so easy to me, to meet a guy, get to know him in time, date, become serious, and begin to build a committed relationship. I'm just wanting to find that special guy who makes my heart skip a beat. I've always wanted that "perfect" life with that one special guy who comes along once in a lifetime and sweeps me off my feet and if he can do it literally, even better! So before you judge me, walk in my shoes for a day, not everyone's lives may be as great as yours, and remember others lives are greater than yours, so it's how we make the most of those days that matter. Sex is great but it isn't everything, and don't get me wrong, I love having sex just as much as the next guy, but If you base everything on sex, that foundation is eventually going to falter. :-) After all, through all the great sex and fantasies we all love to act out, the one true thing that is constant, is Love. And it is possible to have what you wish for, you only have to believe. And I believe that one day I will meet the man I want to spend the rest of my life with, are you that man...?

"IF MY HEART WERE ONLY ALLOWED TO BEAT ONCE IN MY LIFETIME, I WOULD WANT IT TO BEAT ONLY FOR YOU. SO I COULD HAVE THE CHANCE TO TEAR THE SUN FROM THE SKY, AND GIVE IT TO YOU SO YOUR HEART WOULD NEVER KNOW DARKNESS AFTER I AM GONE." - D.E. Alford

"LOVE IS BEST SHARED BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE, SO ALTHOUGH MY HEART IS HUGE, IT ONLY HAS ROOM FOR YOU, AND BECAUSE MY LOVE IS ENDLESS, THERE IS ONLY ENOUGH TO GIVE TO YOU, JUST AS THEY BOTH ARE BOUNDLESS, IT IS ONLY YOU WHO IS ABLE TO FULFILL THEM BOTH." - D.E. Alford