Looking to enjoy life and have fun. No time for silly head games. You be real with me and I'll do the same with you. Instead of believing whatever you hear, take the time to check it out yourself. If you don't, you might be missing something great.

I'm a really good guy, who enjoys the company of other good guys. If you should happen to see me out, you will notice I am sort of quiet. Please don't mistake this for unfriendliness or disinterest. I have a tendency to be shy, initially, in social situations, but I warm quickly and you will soon see my warped sense of humor emerge.

I can find humor in almost all circumstances. I enjoy my work, although I never bring it home with me. I seem to fill my free time with productive activities and am seldom idle. However, I am quite capable of relaxing, and always take the time and opportunity to listen to what others have to say, comfort them when they need it, and offer my opinions only when they are solicited.

Nobody gives better hugs or is more capable of showing affection. Intimacy is something I enjoy. I am of above average intelligence and have a lot of life experience. At work as well as in the other areas of my life, I have always been the go-to guy, the one who gets things done.

Please feel free to send me a message. You will find that I am not just all about sex (although I definitely do enjoy that!) I look forward to meeting you and getting to know you better. If you want to know more about me, please don't hesitate to ask.

In the past, I have resisted checking any Love/Relationship block on various websites, because I wasn't sure that was something I was really looking for. I have reconsidered.

Love? Absolutely. Doesn't everybody need to share love? I have been hurt by it in the past, but there isn't anything that has brought greater joy to my life.

A relationship? Sure. I get lonely like anybody else. Maybe not what many would consider a traditional relationship, though. Let me explain:

While I would certainly welcome a great guy to be in my life regularly, I don't want to live with a partner. I was married for a long time and from that I learned a few things about myself. I have to have my own space and I need periods of solitude.

I need the freedom to set my own thermostat, decorate in my own tastes, eat and watch television whenever and whatever I choose. And I choose to NOT be responsible for another human being.

Also, I have observed many couples and I truly believe that the day-to-day problems and petty annoyances of living together for an extended period of time tend to erode a relationship.

In short- spend the night, stay the weekend, let's go on vacation together. I can shower you with love and affection, talk to you for hours, quietly hold you and touch you, make beautiful, passionate and (if it comes to that) down and dirty love to you, snuggle with you while we sleep. Kiss you goodbye in the morning and look forward to the next time we are together. But when it's time to go home, it's time.

My Ideal Guy? Hard to define and impossible to find, I am afraid. Usually younger than me, versatile is a MUST as is a really good kisser. Fairly intelligent is also highly desirable. Good-looking but not so much that I have to wonder "What the hell is he doing with ME?" or worry that I can't keep him in my life. Average build is fine, but not really attacted to bear types or waifs. Smooth or moderate body hair as opposed to furry.

I tend to fall madly in infatuation with big brown eyes and dimples slay me. There just HAS to be a healthy sense of humor. And since we are talking about ideal let's also throw in that I find myself leaning toward more ethnic (Latino, Asian, Italian or Mediterranean) types more than those with Aryan features.

That being said, let me quickly say that I have dated, hooked-up with, been very attracted to, and loved men far outside of the "ideal". It's the total package that interests me.

Oh yeah, you get bonus points for reading all of this! LOL