Hi, my name's Rob, and I'm a cockaholic. I can quit any time I want, but why would I want to? I'm one of those suckers that are born every day, and I really do suck. People have told me that anyway. I guess that just means I've had a long time to be the best sucker I can be. Maybe that's why I've always loved something in my mouth as long as I can remember. It's a selfless non-gender related fixation that's just my nature, so it wouldn't be fair to waste an ability I was born with by sucking all by myself when others can benefit. Maybe I should have business cards made. Sucker, specializing in sucking... too many things to suck to put on a card. What people like most is the auto-suck feature. If something gets within a few inches of my face that is suckable, the sucking begins even in mid-sentence. Just one of the ways I try to give back to society.
Sexuality is such a complex thing, isn't it? I consider myself to be bisexual. Now, that term in itself can mean different things to different people. I have known people who have had Long-Term Relationships with a person of one gender and later gotten into another LTR with someone of the opposite gender. In my case, I am bisexual on a physical level, not emotional. I have always had close romantic LTRs with the opposite sex (even though I've learned that they are completely out of their minds), and I am very attracted to women's bodies, how they feel about their "girly" things that they love, their touch, etc. including sexual relations with them; however, on a physical level, they're not built the same as men. I've often mentioned to people in chats and other gay and bisexual oriented venues that if women had the addition of the male appendage, I would be straight. I can recognize and comment that a man is good looking, but I'm not attracted to them because of their good looks or personality on an intimate level as I am with women. So, I will likely go through the rest of my life having close, long-term intimate relationships with women, have sex with women, have sex with men, and live my life. On a sexual level, I feel that coming to terms with what turns me on and acting on it whether with a man, woman, both, or many just allows me to do what feels good to me and share pleasure with someone else - no harm done to anyone - win-win. Both my ex-wife of 4-1/2yrs and latest ex-GF of 6yrs knew about my sexuality before becoming seriously involved. My ex-wife was the bisexual person I mentioned in the beginning of this post, and my ex-GF was turned on by my bisexual nature. I look at it as having the best of both worlds sexually, and not having to either supress part of who I am or sneak around behind the back of the person I care about most as I felt had to do prior to 15 years ago. Now I disclose this to perspective mates before it gets serious. If it is something they object to or can't live with being with someone like me, then they aren't the right person for me in the first place. I'm bisexual, have heterosexual friends of both genders, homosexual friends of both genders, and friends that may be one, the other, or neither as far as I know (some may not know, themselves). Life isn't about the type of sex I like to have or with whom I have it. There are many more hours in each day when non-sexual things are the greatest part of the day - paying bills, earning money, personal and professional relationships with people, communication, self-improvement, hobbies, etc. where sexuality is the furthest thing from what is on anyone's mind. I'm a musician, a photographer, a computer test manager and test engineer of over 25 years. I figure things out, how they work, if they're broken, how they may be improved... I usually drive over 50 miles each way to and from work when steadily employed and am a damned good driver. I make mistakes and do my share of stupid things. I'm human. Sites like this allow me to pe open with other people about a certain aspect of who I am and some mutual interests and activities without people who are unaffected by what we do objecting and getting involved in something that truly has no real negative impact on them whatsoever just because they have different beliefs about things that should not be an issue with mankind in general. I do my best to conduct my life in a manner that does not harm or negatively impact anyone else. I share my talents, my time, my skills, and opinions with other people in an effort to help make their lives a little easier in one way or another, and try to do what I believe is right. I consider myself to be a good, honest person who believes in trying to make the best of life and my surroundings. I care for people, animals, and my environment. I'm on this site to share part of what sexually turns me on with others who enjoy some of those things too and want to share that part of themselves.
So, with that I hope that my posts, photos, videos, and contacts with people out here benefit others as theirs benefits me. It's like the old saying, about TV or radio -- if you don't like it, change the channel/station, or turn it off. People out here enjoy seeing, being seen, communicating about, and/or sharing on a general or intimate level these things, and they're not all the same. I prefer to be a bottom when physically intimate with men and a top with women. I couldn't be a 'bottom' if there were no 'tops' and vice-versa. The Internet has opened up this option for so many people that had few options before, and here we are.
That is my less than concise introduction. I hope those who like who I consider myself to be continue to share with me and take what I share with them with enjoyment, and those who don't move on to someone more in tune with who they are. We are a very diverse race, and I think diversity strengthens and enriches society as a whole. So feel free to comment about this and explore my hole as you see fit. If you want to explore how it fits, you know how to get in touch with me so I can get in touch with you.
Hugs and a courtesy reach-around to you all.
~Rob
(I had something down here I reposted from somewhere or other and it was incomplete - I must have fallen asleep with my dick in my hand because the end of the paragraph(s) was the only thing remaining with a whole bunch of commas (.) before it - tells me there was a selection from the damned touchpad, selecting whatever I had typed, and commas where this sleeping fool was resting on the keyboard, or at least a finger, so it's gone now. I've got better things to do with my finger than to waste time on a bunch of undeserving commas anyway. G'day, G'dafternoon, G'devening, whichever it is make sure it's G'd.)
Good moaning, sir!